What revenge did you do to your spouse or partner when you found out they were cheating?

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Anonymous wrote:Mental Note: Figure out a way to replace the boss's shampoo with Nair. She doesn't shampoo at work.

Nair has a very potent nasty smell. Too many people know it. Gotta come up with something sneakier

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The OP's scheme is hilarious, but most of these others are

[Anonymous]

Totally not original but i scrubbed the toilet with cheating husband's toothbrush daily for months. Then I took 60 percent of all the assets in divorce. Wish I could do more to the asshole.

[Anonymous]

Found out less than a week ago. Started sending sexy texts and pics to an old boyfriend - will see if he can meet me in the south of France (where I'm going next month solo) to fuck my brains out.

I don't feel the least bit bad about this. I feel more empowered than I have for years.

[Anonymous]

My husband stayed overnight in the guest bedroom of a married couple he worked with. He had a huge crush on the wife and this was the start of a long emotional affair. I was upset and the next day I went to Neiman's and spent $14K on jewelry. This crush went on another 5 years while the woman got divorced from the husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone judging poster's revenges have clearly never been cheated on or left for someone else. I have not gone to any of these lengths but I understand the pain and heartbreak that occurs after being cheated on/or left for another person. It will make you go crazy. It will make you do things outside of your character and things you would be horrified that others do. It made me just text him incessantly- angry and sad texts. It made me message her on Facebook. She had no idea about me, but didn't end it with him. They're still together and that still hurts me.

If you have the self control not to do those things that pain/heartbreak drive you to do, good for you. Wish I had some more and hadn't lost my dignity by messaging her but I am glad I did it. I didn't owe it to him to let him get away with that.

I'd love to hear some more revenege stories, please!![/quote

I've been cheated on by my husband and would not do anything described by these people. Two wrongs don't make a right. Revenge only feels good at first. It ultimately brings you down closer to the level of the cheater.

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I posted the cpopies of the texts my husband and the woman he was seeing on a web site reviewing this woman's job performance. He was reviewing her "other performance."

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Anonymous wrote:I posted the cpopies of the texts my husband and the woman he was seeing on a web site reviewing this woman's job performance. He was reviewing her "other performance."

Did she know he was married? If so, good for you! That's funny!

[Anonymous]

I found a hot bartender fwb not too far from us! He's from the same country as dh too. DH will sometimes go there to play pool and I get a laugh out of them shaking hands been seeing him for 2 years now with a bit of a break in there.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone judging poster's revenges have clearly never been cheated on or left for someone else. I have not gone to any of these lengths but I understand the pain and heartbreak that occurs after being cheated on/or left for another person. It will make you go crazy. It will make you do things outside of your character and things you would be horrified that others do. It made me just text him incessantly- angry and sad texts. It made me message her on Facebook. She had no idea about me, but didn't end it with him. They're still together and that still hurts me.

If you have the self control not to do those things that pain/heartbreak drive you to do, good for you. Wish I had some more and hadn't lost my dignity by messaging her but I am glad I did it. I didn't owe it to him to let him get away with that.

I'd love to hear some more revenege stories, please!![/quote

I've been cheated on by my husband and would not do anything described by these people. Two wrongs don't make a right. Revenge only feels good at first. It ultimately brings you down closer to the level of the cheater.

I'm the pp. I do agree that two wrongs don't make a right and you don't need to stoop to their level but I'm just saying I do understand where that crazy comes from

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Anonymous wrote:I got really fit, found a great job, learned a new language, traveled the world, met a new guy, and had a great kid.

Basically I made myself into the best thing he ever lost, and I rarely think about him.

He drunk dialed me once.

This is perfect.

You never would have improved yourself otherwise. In the end...He had immense power over you .

[Anonymous]

Plant heroin in his house and send anonymous tip to police

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I had a bf years ago that cheated on me, almost moved in with him. Right after I left he moved in his ex gf, she told me on the phone he was still seeing her. I still had stuff at his house so 2 mo later I let myself in and got my stuff knowing they were both gone. I left some underwear half way under the bed, and a earring in the washer. Oh and I messed up the bed a little, then took off! I know immature, mean, revengeful blah blah blah. I did find out she ended up moving out pretty quick and they broke up for good.

What you did was illegal

Not when you're given a key and have things there.

Whether you have a key has nothing to do with it. What you did is a misdemeanor in Virginia because he didn't know about the video and the camera was in the bedroom where he would have a reasonable expectation of privacy.

https://vacode.org/18.2-386.1/

Moreover, sending the tapes to his family was also a misdemeanor.

http://law.lis.virginia.gov/vacode/title18.2/chapter8/section18.2-386.2/

Then we get into whether there was audio on the tape. If there was - illegal. Virginia requires one party's consent to audio recordings. In other states you'd have to check their wiretapping laws.

[Anonymous]

^^^the above was meant for the woman who made the sex tape.

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Anonymous wrote:Plant heroin in his house and send anonymous tip to police

I hope this is a joke.