What revenge did you do to your spouse or partner when you found out they were cheating?

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Anonymous wrote:Boo. You guys sucked the fun out of this thread. I want more crazy!

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Anonymous wrote:My friends sister probably takes the cake on revenge and being happy. She did both, so yes it's possible.

She wanted a 3rd child, but found out dh was cheating. Continued to not take her birth control and got pregnant. A year later she divorced him and got the house, kids, and the court ordered him to move out of the home. Turned out he was doing Cocaine with his gf, so he was court ordered to take tests. The gf broke up with him. Today she is happily re-married to a great guy. He is living in a rental paying a lot of support. I don't know how someone can tank their family over a stranger. The kids will never see the cheater parent in the same light again.

WTF? Why did she get pregnant from him? That's insane. Why saddle another child with a screwed up beginning?

Life is too short for revenge.

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The funny thing is I will bet many did things stealthy which the cheater never knew about. My friend got her ex fired from his job. There was a strict no dating policy and he was cheating with a co-worker. Cheaters never realize so easy to document with today's technology. GPS, pics, phone records, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:My friends sister probably takes the cake on revenge and being happy. She did both, so yes it's possible.

She wanted a 3rd child, but found out dh was cheating. Continued to not take her birth control and got pregnant. A year later she divorced him and got the house, kids, and the court ordered him to move out of the home. Turned out he was doing Cocaine with his gf, so he was court ordered to take tests. The gf broke up with him. Today she is happily re-married to a great guy. He is living in a rental paying a lot of support. I don't know how someone can tank their family over a stranger. The kids will never see the cheater parent in the same light again.

WTF? Why did she get pregnant from him? That's insane. Why saddle another child with a screwed up beginning?

Life is too short for revenge.

I think it's odd you used the term "saddled" for a child. She is a dietitian and is a great mother. Now married and they are very happy so it was a win win for her. All the siblings are close, all doing well!

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Why didn't she wait to have that 3rd child? Instead of giving another child a POS sperm donor?

Saddled: the child bears the weight of a pos genetic father. It's not derogatory to the child at all. We all have our crosses to bear, why give them to children when you don't have to?

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Anonymous wrote:PP, you're quite the psycho. I feel sorry for all the kids involved, especially yours.

My kids were insulated from it all. OW's kids were apparently not. Shrug. I don't feel even a bit bad for any fallout that hits a woman who set out to wreck a family with three kids. I don't feel bad for my ex either.

The various mistresses, sidepieces, APs, whatever you want to call yourselves on this site kill me. Always exhorting aggrieved partners to have mercy on thoroughly mercenary APs. When you cause drama in others' lives and tear down what others have built, get ready for possibility that the blowback will be more than you bargained for.

Truth.

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Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo. Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape. Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

Disagree. Adults who seek revenge are basically emotionally stunted adults. My ex cheated. It hurt. It sucked. We divorced and life went on. Some of my actions were immature and petty, but nowhere near the level this poster describes. Our kids are happy, healthy adults because despite their father's infidelity, they were raised by people with emotional maturity.

I hope the pp's ex-husband's wife was able to give those kids a real mother.

I'm the PP who got ex DH good and I couldn't care less how you handle or don't handle your business. The OP asked for revenge stories, not stories from sanctimonious bitches talking out of turn about others' situations.

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Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo. Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape. Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

Disagree. Adults who seek revenge are basically emotionally stunted adults. My ex cheated. It hurt. It sucked. We divorced and life went on. Some of my actions were immature and petty, but nowhere near the level this poster describes. Our kids are happy, healthy adults because despite their father's infidelity, they were raised by people with emotional maturity.

I hope the pp's ex-husband's wife was able to give those kids a real mother.

Sorry to disappoint you, but I got primary custody of our kids and the house, lol. Go cry over it.

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My best friend divorced over her dh's long term affair with the OW. Once they were divorced and he was engaged to the OW, best friend then had an affair with her ex behind the OW's back.

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Anonymous wrote:My best friend divorced over her dh's long term affair with the OW. Once they were divorced and he was engaged to the OW, best friend then had an affair with her ex behind the OW's back.

That just makes her stupid, not revengeful...

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Anonymous wrote:My best friend divorced over her dh's long term affair with the OW. Once they were divorced and he was engaged to the OW, best friend then had an affair with her ex behind the OW's back.

So, he was literally screwing both of them. Your friend is an idiot.

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Anonymous wrote:My friends sister probably takes the cake on revenge and being happy. She did both, so yes it's possible.

She wanted a 3rd child, but found out dh was cheating. Continued to not take her birth control and got pregnant. A year later she divorced him and got the house, kids, and the court ordered him to move out of the home. Turned out he was doing Cocaine with his gf, so he was court ordered to take tests. The gf broke up with him. Today she is happily re-married to a great guy. He is living in a rental paying a lot of support. I don't know how someone can tank their family over a stranger. The kids will never see the cheater parent in the same light again.

This woman had sex with a cheating DH? Didn't give a thought to STDs?

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Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

That's because you have not been in her shoes... I think what she did was brilliant and quite entertaining.

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Anonymous wrote:Man, this thread is so toxic. We need this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9BNoNFKCBI

That just made me laugh out loud. Like a chuckle. Or giggle

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Anyone judging poster's revenges have clearly never been cheated on or left for someone else. I have not gone to any of these lengths but I understand the pain and heartbreak that occurs after being cheated on/or left for another person. It will make you go crazy. It will make you do things outside of your character and things you would be horrified that others do. It made me just text him incessantly- angry and sad texts. It made me message her on Facebook. She had no idea about me, but didn't end it with him. They're still together and that still hurts me.

If you have the self control not to do those things that pain/heartbreak drive you to do, good for you. Wish I had some more and hadn't lost my dignity by messaging her but I am glad I did it. I didn't owe it to him to let him get away with that.

I'd love to hear some more revenege stories, please!!