What revenge did you do to your spouse or partner when you found out they were cheating?

[Anonymous]

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I had a bf years ago that cheated on me, almost moved in with him. Right after I left he moved in his ex gf, she told me on the phone he was still seeing her. I still had stuff at his house so 2 mo later I let myself in and got my stuff knowing they were both gone. I left some underwear half way under the bed, and a earring in the washer. Oh and I messed up the bed a little, then took off! I know immature, mean, revengeful blah blah blah. I did find out she ended up moving out pretty quick and they broke up for good.

What you did was illegal

Not when you're given a key and have things there.

Whether you have a key has nothing to do with it. What you did is a misdemeanor in Virginia because he didn't know about the video and the camera was in the bedroom where he would have a reasonable expectation of privacy.

https://vacode.org/18.2-386.1/

Moreover, sending the tapes to his family was also a misdemeanor.

http://law.lis.virginia.gov/vacode/title18.2/chapter8/section18.2-386.2/

Then we get into whether there was audio on the tape. If there was - illegal. Virginia requires one party's consent to audio recordings. In other states you'd have to check their wiretapping laws.

I'm the one who sent the tapes and I don't give a single shit about your legal analysis. I did what I did and they deserved it and I got away with it. Deal with it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

PP here. I also sent a copy to OW's husband. DH says OW's kids viewed the tape first because I labeled it something similar to "Christmas in the Hamptons." Different holiday and location, but you get the gist. This was over 10 years ago, so it's all water under the bridge now, but ex-DH had a rough five years over that affair. Hope it was worth it!

Ignore the ones who criticize. They have never been cheated on. What you did was awesome. Why wait for karma to get them when they are bad people anyway? 2 cheaters who acted selfish, immature, and disgusting deserve what theu got.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I had a bf years ago that cheated on me, almost moved in with him. Right after I left he moved in his ex gf, she told me on the phone he was still seeing her. I still had stuff at his house so 2 mo later I let myself in and got my stuff knowing they were both gone. I left some underwear half way under the bed, and a earring in the washer. Oh and I messed up the bed a little, then took off! I know immature, mean, revengeful blah blah blah. I did find out she ended up moving out pretty quick and they broke up for good.

What you did was illegal

Not when you're given a key and have things there.

Whether you have a key has nothing to do with it. What you did is a misdemeanor in Virginia because he didn't know about the video and the camera was in the bedroom where he would have a reasonable expectation of privacy.

https://vacode.org/18.2-386.1/

Moreover, sending the tapes to his family was also a misdemeanor.

http://law.lis.virginia.gov/vacode/title18.2/chapter8/section18.2-386.2/

Then we get into whether there was audio on the tape. If there was - illegal. Virginia requires one party's consent to audio recordings. In other states you'd have to check their wiretapping laws.

I'm the one who sent the tapes and I don't give a single shit about your legal analysis. I did what I did and they deserved it and I got away with it. Deal with it.

Virgina has way too many laws derived from those anal lobbyists and lawyers pushing every law

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Plant heroin in his house and send anonymous tip to police

I get it. Cheating rips out your heart. But this is way over the top.

[Anonymous]

I divorced him and went on living a fabulous life. The end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I divorced him and went on living a fabulous life. The end.

Preach

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

PP here. I also sent a copy to OW's husband. DH says OW's kids viewed the tape first because I labeled it something similar to "Christmas in the Hamptons." Different holiday and location, but you get the gist. This was over 10 years ago, so it's all water under the bridge now, but ex-DH had a rough five years over that affair. Hope it was worth it!

Ignore the ones who criticize. They have never been cheated on. What you did was awesome. Why wait for karma to get them when they are bad people anyway? 2 cheaters who acted selfish, immature, and disgusting deserve what theu got.

I've been cheated on by my husband and think the PP is a lunatic. Sorry but it's only a marriage or relationship. It's not the end of the world. The best revenge is moving on and living well. Actually the best revenge is learning something from the experience that you can use to make wiser decisions going forward. The literally crazy behavior described here will only bring you closer to the cheater's level and won't end up making you happy. Happiness will result from moving on and finding happiness that has nothing to do with the cheater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got really fit, found a great job, learned a new language, traveled the world, met a new guy, and had a great kid.

Basically I made myself into the best thing he ever lost, and I rarely think about him.

He drunk dialed me once. He left me a VM crying and apologizing. Then he threw up. It was funny.

This is the way to go. Everything else looks desperate and juvenile.

This. The details vary slightly, but this is what I did. I am now fit, wealthy, and have a great family. Can't say the same for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

PP here. I also sent a copy to OW's husband. DH says OW's kids viewed the tape first because I labeled it something similar to "Christmas in the Hamptons." Different holiday and location, but you get the gist. This was over 10 years ago, so it's all water under the bridge now, but ex-DH had a rough five years over that affair. Hope it was worth it!

Ignore the ones who criticize. They have never been cheated on. What you did was awesome. Why wait for karma to get them when they are bad people anyway? 2 cheaters who acted selfish, immature, and disgusting deserve what theu got.

I've been cheated on by my husband and think the PP is a lunatic. Sorry but it's only a marriage or relationship. It's not the end of the world. The best revenge is moving on and living well. Actually the best revenge is learning something from the experience that you can use to make wiser decisions going forward. The literally crazy behavior described here will only bring you closer to the cheater's level and won't end up making you happy. Happiness will result from moving on and finding happiness that has nothing to do with the cheater.

When a man cheats with various women thru your relationship who he meets on tinder all the while saying he loves you and promising a great future and he was or will be your first sexually well what if his cheating results in you catching something from his grossness? Would you still wallk away as if nothing happened?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

PP here. I also sent a copy to OW's husband. DH says OW's kids viewed the tape first because I labeled it something similar to "Christmas in the Hamptons." Different holiday and location, but you get the gist. This was over 10 years ago, so it's all water under the bridge now, but ex-DH had a rough five years over that affair. Hope it was worth it!

evil evil women. God never should have given her a vagina. wasted on the wrong soul