What revenge did you do to your spouse or partner when you found out they were cheating?

[Anonymous]

I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

PP here. I also sent a copy to OW's husband. DH says OW's kids viewed the tape first because I labeled it something similar to "Christmas in the Hamptons." Different holiday and location, but you get the gist. This was over 10 years ago, so it's all water under the bridge now, but ex-DH had a rough five years over that affair. Hope it was worth it!

[Anonymous]

PP, you're quite the psycho. I feel sorry for all the kids involved, especially yours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PP, you're quite the psycho. I feel sorry for all the kids involved, especially yours.

Seriously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got really fit, found a great job, learned a new language, traveled the world, met a new guy, and had a great kid.

Basically I made myself into the best thing he ever lost, and I rarely think about him.

He drunk dialed me once. He left me a VM crying and apologizing. Then he threw up. It was funny.

Thingsthatneverhappened.com

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PP, you're quite the psycho. I feel sorry for all the kids involved, especially yours.

My kids were insulated from it all. OW's kids were apparently not. Shrug. I don't feel even a bit bad for any fallout that hits a woman who set out to wreck a family with three kids. I don't feel bad for my ex either.

The various mistresses, sidepieces, APs, whatever you want to call yourselves on this site kill me. Always exhorting aggrieved partners to have mercy on thoroughly mercenary APs. When you cause drama in others' lives and tear down what others have built, get ready for possibility that the blowback will be more than you bargained for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

Wow, you acted worse than your husband did. Psycho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

[Anonymous]

I has wild sex with DH's brothers and most of his friends.


In my revenge fantasies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I had a bf years ago that cheated on me, almost moved in with him. Right after I left he moved in his ex gf, she told me on the phone he was still seeing her. I still had stuff at his house so 2 mo later I let myself in and got my stuff knowing they were both gone. I left some underwear half way under the bed, and a earring in the washer. Oh and I messed up the bed a little, then took off! I know immature, mean, revengeful blah blah blah. I did find out she ended up moving out pretty quick and they broke up for good.

What you did was illegal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I has wild sex with DH's brothers and most of his friends.


In my revenge fantasies.

I don't think you got the revenge in fact you validated the fact why you are trash

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

Wow, you acted worse than your husband did. Psycho.

Seriously, even more so because it happened several years after the divorce was finalized so PP can't even claim it was a heat of the moment mistake.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I had a bf years ago that cheated on me, almost moved in with him. Right after I left he moved in his ex gf, she told me on the phone he was still seeing her. I still had stuff at his house so 2 mo later I let myself in and got my stuff knowing they were both gone. I left some underwear half way under the bed, and a earring in the washer. Oh and I messed up the bed a little, then took off! I know immature, mean, revengeful blah blah blah. I did find out she ended up moving out pretty quick and they broke up for good.

What you did was illegal

Not when you're given a key and have things there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PP, you're quite the psycho. I feel sorry for all the kids involved, especially yours.

My kids were insulated from it all. OW's kids were apparently not. Shrug. I don't feel even a bit bad for any fallout that hits a woman who set out to wreck a family with three kids. I don't feel bad for my ex either.

The various mistresses, sidepieces, APs, whatever you want to call yourselves on this site kill me. Always exhorting aggrieved partners to have mercy on thoroughly mercenary APs. When you cause drama in others' lives and tear down what others have built, get ready for possibility that the blowback will be more than you bargained for.

It's like any liar or cheater they hate being caught. They whine and cry because it's not so fun when it comes back twice as bad. I wouldn't have gone that far, but when someone cheats they go down a dangerous path. People have been killed over that. Much easier to break up, then date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

Wow, you acted worse than your husband did. Psycho.

Sounds like she and her ex-husband were a perfect match. No wonder she lost it when her soulmate left for another woman.