Would you marry a bi curious man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I think you’re missing the point. People are saying a bi man is still a MAN. And given men’s track records (very generally speaking) a man with potentially double the temptation/opportunity might be too much for some people.

And as others have said, sometimes people who are not quite ready to say they are gay, for whatever reason, first come out as bi.

So you’re one of those “bi deniers” eh? So far as you’re concerned you’re either 100 percent straight or 100 percent gay, there’s no in between, right?

How narrow minded can you get?

NP. Dude, I'm not sure what you get out of deliberately misreading people, but okay.

Still doesn't mean you are being accurate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I think you’re missing the point. People are saying a bi man is still a MAN. And given men’s track records (very generally speaking) a man with potentially double the temptation/opportunity might be too much for some people.

And as others have said, sometimes people who are not quite ready to say they are gay, for whatever reason, first come out as bi.

So you’re one of those “bi deniers” eh? So far as you’re concerned you’re either 100 percent straight or 100 percent gay, there’s no in between, right?

How narrow minded can you get?

You seem pretty narrow minded thinking your way is the only right way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I think you’re missing the point. People are saying a bi man is still a MAN. And given men’s track records (very generally speaking) a man with potentially double the temptation/opportunity might be too much for some people.

And as others have said, sometimes people who are not quite ready to say they are gay, for whatever reason, first come out as bi.

So you’re one of those “bi deniers” eh? So far as you’re concerned you’re either 100 percent straight or 100 percent gay, there’s no in between, right?

How narrow minded can you get?

You seem pretty narrow minded thinking your way is the only right way.

I’m not the one pooh-poohing the possibility that someone could actually be bi and not just be somebody on the road to being gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Exactly. Bi people would not be happy with having sex with just the one gender for the entirety of their marriage. If they are sexually attracted to a different gender, they will always crave that, and their opposite gender married partner won't ever be able to meet those needs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Exactly. Bi people would not be happy with having sex with just the one gender for the entirety of their marriage. If they are sexually attracted to a different gender, they will always crave that, and their opposite gender married partner won't ever be able to meet those needs.

Are you speaking from experience or just guessing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Exactly. Bi people would not be happy with having sex with just the one gender for the entirety of their marriage. If they are sexually attracted to a different gender, they will always crave that, and their opposite gender married partner won't ever be able to meet those needs.

Are you speaking from experience or just guessing?

+1. Such a generalization. Really offensive.

[Anonymous]

Nope .too big a risk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Exactly. Bi people would not be happy with having sex with just the one gender for the entirety of their marriage. If they are sexually attracted to a different gender, they will always crave that, and their opposite gender married partner won't ever be able to meet those needs.

Are you speaking from experience or just guessing?

+1. Such a generalization. Really offensive.

I find you grossly offensive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I think you’re missing the point. People are saying a bi man is still a MAN. And given men’s track records (very generally speaking) a man with potentially double the temptation/opportunity might be too much for some people.

And as others have said, sometimes people who are not quite ready to say they are gay, for whatever reason, first come out as bi.

Just get a big cottoned stick to hit things and work it out, man.
So you’re one of those “bi deniers” eh? So far as you’re concerned you’re either 100 percent straight or 100 percent gay, there’s no in between, right?

How narrow minded can you get?

You seem pretty narrow minded thinking your way is the only right way.

I’m not the one pooh-poohing the possibility that someone could actually be bi and not just be somebody on the road to being gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I think you’re missing the point. People are saying a bi man is still a MAN. And given men’s track records (very generally speaking) a man with potentially double the temptation/opportunity might be too much for some people.

And as others have said, sometimes people who are not quite ready to say they are gay, for whatever reason, first come out as bi.

Just get a big cottoned stick to hit things and work it out, man.
So you’re one of those “bi deniers” eh? So far as you’re concerned you’re either 100 percent straight or 100 percent gay, there’s no in between, right?

How narrow minded can you get?

You seem pretty narrow minded thinking your way is the only right way.

I’m not the one pooh-poohing the possibility that someone could actually be bi and not just be somebody on the road to being gay.

Just get a big cottoned stick to hit things and work it out, man.

[Anonymous]

Who is this question directed to? Men? Women? Straight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s fully content with monogamy. Or would you feel it’s too risky? Any stories?

Ewwwww! No!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Definitely unattractive! No way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Exactly. Bi people would not be happy with having sex with just the one gender for the entirety of their marriage. If they are sexually attracted to a different gender, they will always crave that, and their opposite gender married partner won't ever be able to meet those needs.

Are you speaking from experience or just guessing?

+1. Such a generalization. Really offensive.

Is it?

If someone desires a different gender, there's nothing anyone can do about it.

That's a relationship that generally doesn't work.

And Bi preferences among men is so rare. Typically, that's a gay man who hasn't worked it out yet.

You get the transitional time. Which most women don't care for.