He used red pill terminology

[Anonymous]

OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

How old are you guys? If he’s near or over 30 himself this is concerning. If he’d like 25, he might just be myopic about age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

Are you kidding? Run.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

So, uh…what age are you, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

What’s weird is YOUR choice. Are you afraid of being single?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

There would be no chance for this person to even explain. GTFO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

Run. He’s a loser.

-Married Man with a High Income

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

So you’re dating a man who has no respect for women and you want to know whether you should continue to date a man who has no respect for women?

Leave immediately and feel free to tell him why.

[Anonymous]

I called troll but also reported the thread, so Jeff can check it out. Don’t want this OP to waste our time.

If not a troll…I can’t imagine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

OP, please re-read your own post and look at what I put into bold.

Do not allow yourself to revert to "But...but...but there were good things about him...." in order to justify giving him another chance, or staying in touch, or not blocking him. I worry you're at risk for thinking you should be "nice" or understanding or should "give him the benefit of the doubt." While people are complex, sure, and can have a few jerk tendencies among many good ones, in this case, you're probably looking at good tendencies floating in a stew of much worse ones. Please don't waste time on this person any longer. Maybe someday his good things will come to the fore and he'll stop parrotting offensive, misogynistic things, but it is NOT on you to make that happen, or save him, or give him the benefit of the doubt. Block him, don't say yes if he begs for "just one more date" or asks to explain himself or whatever. Move on and do not invest more time in this man.

Women still are socialized to be nice, not make waves, and doubt our gut instincts, especially if a man has "good things about him." Please do not be so scared of being single that you cave to all that. Block and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He inferred that women over 30 who aren’t married are whores who just want to have a bunch of sex, and that their degrees won’t keep them warm at night. He also made multiple comments about how “women are”. It’s weird that he kept lumping all women together and generalizing. I’ve run across this before and find it creepy. But there were also good things about him.

If he's saying this now, what do you think he'll be like in another five, 10, 20 years? Worse, not better. Especially if his life doesn't go as he wants; he'll blame women. And if you're his partner, he'll blame YOU. Ignore those good things about him and block him. Today. Right now.

[Anonymous]

This guy must be hot as hell for OP to even consider seeing him again.

[Anonymous]

To me red pill is a Matrix reference.

You might ask for clarification.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
To me red pill is a Matrix reference.

You might ask for clarification.

Just read your update. OK, no, please do not reward this horrible person with your company.

[Anonymous]

“Red pill” is a cluster of beliefs and groups that teach people, usually adolescent and young men, that women are lesser than men, dependent on men, and fundamentally dishonest about their desires related to men and sex.

It attracts men who are frustrated that they aren’t getting the attention they want or feel they deserve from women and attracts other men who would prey on these frustrations for influence and profit.

One of the fundamental red pill principles is that chicks dig jerks. Feminism has women talking about equality, respectfulness, and so forth; but when it comes down to lust and sex, their bodies choose aggressive, dominant, non-feminist men. After all, when women are in their twenties, sexually adventurous, and hot enough to have a wide range of options in men, which men are they choosing? Not the meek, sensitive, cerebral types.

So, fellas, if you want women to take your resources & secretly despise you, listen to what they say. If you want to have sex with them, take the red pill and watch what they do.