Anti vax DH won't compromise principles and may quit Fed job, how should I prepare?

[Anonymous]

Crazy PPs suggesting divorce. DCUM really is a cesspool.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him if he quits his job over Covid he will lose both his job and his marriage. And if he says fine I’m quitting, start divorce proceedings. I know an anti-Vaxer who convinced his parents to not get vaccinated and they both died this summer from Covid. I wonder how he lives with that?

Probably waiting on inheritance.

Don’t you mean sick of waiting?

Covid denial is legal and given their ages it was a good bet to expedite the process.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

This is a lie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

This is a lie.

Of course it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op your husband sounds like mine. I can only tell you my house has been a tense one, over this plus other issues that lately revolve around politics and vastly different views. It's frickin miserable. That said, I personally decided that I can't divorce over this or any of our other disagreements, at least not now. I have decided to stand down. The data on kids is somewhat reassuring and I believe they will most likely be ok without vaccines. The fed mandate will take at least a little time to implement and I'm sure will have lawsuits and such. My dh may fall unde a dod loophole because they seem to be treated differently. I'll wait and see what he decides to do and try to let him make the decision. In the meantime I'm seeking out a new therapist and working on the things I can control. If he did decide to quit with no other options, I think we would move to a lower col area and I would continue working remotely or possibly seek out a new job. Honestly that doesn't sound like a bad option to me either. I'm sure others here would call me crazy for trying to be accommodating but this is what I'm trying. My kids are younger so I might feel different if they were older. But in the meantime my priority is to keep my kids close and to try to be a supportive, understanding and forgiving spouse. God help us all.

You'd be much better off divorcing instead of making all those soul-killing compromises. What if he refused to let your kids get vaxxed at all for anything? Is he going to forbid flu shots? HPV? Is he being "supportive, understanding, and forgiving" to you? My DH also spouts anti-vax nonsense and claims that he won't let our kid get vaxxed. Guess what, kid is getting vaxxed - I'll go to the pediatrician and get it done.

[Anonymous]

I would just let him know that when someone voluntarily quits their job the family court imputes that income on them for child support. Let him read between the lines!

Fwiw my BIL refuses vaccination. It's too bad he won't be seeing us all that much!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

You are a first class loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Crazy PPs suggesting divorce. DCUM really is a cesspool.

He's willing to sacrifice his family’s livelihood because he believes in a conspiracy theory, sounds like a totally legitimate reason for a divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him if he quits his job over Covid he will lose both his job and his marriage. And if he says fine I’m quitting, start divorce proceedings. I know an anti-Vaxer who convinced his parents to not get vaccinated and they both died this summer from Covid. I wonder how he lives with that?

Probably waiting on inheritance.

Don’t you mean sick of waiting?

Covid denial is legal and given their ages it was a good bet to expedite the process.

What were their ages?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Principles? lol Your husband is mentally ill. You need to get him mental health help.

So is 17:40

[Anonymous]

Troll post, troll thread?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him if he quits his job over Covid he will lose both his job and his marriage. And if he says fine I’m quitting, start divorce proceedings. I know an anti-Vaxer who convinced his parents to not get vaccinated and they both died this summer from Covid. I wonder how he lives with that?

Probably waiting on inheritance.

Don’t you mean sick of waiting?

Covid denial is legal and given their ages it was a good bet to expedite the process.

What were their ages?

I was extrapolating. Obviously the parents are old enough to have an adult child. That puts them solidly into a higher risk category.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

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OP, Do not listen to this poster.
He just wanted to derail this thread. 🤨

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You sound like a real peach.