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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op your husband sounds like mine. I can only tell you my house has been a tense one, over this plus other issues that lately revolve around politics and vastly different views. It's frickin miserable. That said, I personally decided that I can't divorce over this or any of our other disagreements, at least not now. I have decided to stand down. The data on kids is somewhat reassuring and I believe they will most likely be ok without vaccines. The fed mandate will take at least a little time to implement and I'm sure will have lawsuits and such. My dh may fall unde a dod loophole because they seem to be treated differently. I'll wait and see what he decides to do and try to let him make the decision. In the meantime I'm seeking out a new therapist and working on the things I can control. If he did decide to quit with no other options, I think we would move to a lower col area and I would continue working remotely or possibly seek out a new job. Honestly that doesn't sound like a bad option to me either. I'm sure others here would call me crazy for trying to be accommodating but this is what I'm trying. My kids are younger so I might feel different if they were older. But in the meantime my priority is to keep my kids close and to try to be a supportive, understanding and forgiving spouse. God help us all.[/quote]

You'd be much better off divorcing instead of making all those soul-killing compromises. What if he refused to let your kids get vaxxed at all for anything? Is he going to forbid flu shots? HPV? Is he being "supportive, understanding, and forgiving" to you? My DH also spouts anti-vax nonsense and claims that he won't let our kid get vaxxed. Guess what, kid is getting vaxxed - I'll go to the pediatrician and get it done.  [/quote]

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