Anti vax DH won't compromise principles and may quit Fed job, how should I prepare?

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Anonymous wrote:What a sad story about the pregnant lady. I do not understand what makes people think posters are fake, just because it doesn’t fit their narrative? There are unfortunately, way too many similar news stories. Including a man in serious condition due to a vaccination reaction. OP is not the only one with a relative that would rather quit than get vaccinated. A hospital shut down its maternity ward due to lack of staff, who quit because of the mandate.

If you don’t believe a posters story, why not move on to something else.

A maternity ward with a bunch of unvaccinated nurses is disturbing.

What if they all previously had COVID and have antibodies?

Why risk it? Maybe they only think they previously had COVID. Get vaccinated.

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Anonymous wrote:OP - apologies if I missed it. Are your middle schoolers vaccinated or has your husband refused to let them be vaccinated? Because that would be grounds for divorce and for sole custody, IMO.

This is OP -- that's right, husband has refused to allow them to be vaccinated. Do you really think this would be sufficient grounds for sole custody?

NP here, also with an antivax dh. And divorcing, with a minor still (adult kids all chose to get vax). My lawyer said that I can file a motion and show a letter that it is recommended (as the ped of course will recommend it when under 12's can get it) and the judge will order it allowed. But no, it doesn't seem to be grounds for sole custody or even sole medical decision making. *just my experience, don't take legal advice from me lol*

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Anonymous wrote:There’s no question in my mind that I would divorce him. Unless he has some legitimate PEG allergy or something but you have not mentioned

I have a severe PEG allergy but plan to get vaccinated this week for the common good. I’ll have an epipen ready and pray. I’m ready to sacrifice my life for the kids

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

Agreed.

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

I know someone still in and out of the hospital with liver failure. Doctors at Hopkins feel it was definitely induced by the vaccine due to timing.

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To me and at this point it actually sounds like it’s less about principles and more about ego. He’s held to this for this long and probably now is just being incredibly stubborn over appearances and not wanting to look “weak”. If he understands true risk, he should recognize that the risk of losing job, income, security and benefits has a much higher chance of leading to negative mental and physical health outcomes than taking a vaccine that now has been administered to millions with minimal severe effects (minor side effects like fever and illness and fatigue are common of course). Tell him to do it privately and just be done with it.

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

I know someone still in and out of the hospital with liver failure. Doctors at Hopkins feel it was definitely induced by the vaccine due to timing.

I don't believe either of you.

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

I know someone still in and out of the hospital with liver failure. Doctors at Hopkins feel it was definitely induced by the vaccine due to timing.

I don't believe either of you.

Your choice. Not believing some have really bad adverse reactions to this vaccine defies science as it occurs with ALL vaccines in some people.

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

I know someone still in and out of the hospital with liver failure. Doctors at Hopkins feel it was definitely induced by the vaccine due to timing.

I don't believe either of you.

Your choice. Not believing some have really bad adverse reactions to this vaccine defies science as it occurs with ALL vaccines in some people.

But what are the odds two people with really severe reactions just happen to be here?

It’s the antivax equivalent of the people who swear they know ten people in their 40s that all got long COVID and can barely walk.

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Anonymous wrote:There’s no question in my mind that I would divorce him. Unless he has some legitimate PEG allergy or something but you have not mentioned

I have a severe PEG allergy but plan to get vaccinated this week for the common good. I’ll have an epipen ready and pray. I’m ready to sacrifice my life for the kids

Do you ever stop to think that maybe, if you have a known severe allergy to a vaccine ingredient and you're game plan is epipen and pray, that maybe the vaccine risk is greater than the benefit fir you? You've waited this long and been fine.

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No problem at all.
Just have him fill this out as well during the divorce. Please.

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Anonymous wrote:There’s no question in my mind that I would divorce him. Unless he has some legitimate PEG allergy or something but you have not mentioned

I have a severe PEG allergy but plan to get vaccinated this week for the common good. I’ll have an epipen ready and pray. I’m ready to sacrifice my life for the kids

Do you ever stop to think that maybe, if you have a known severe allergy to a vaccine ingredient and you're game plan is epipen and pray, that maybe the vaccine risk is greater than the benefit fir you? You've waited this long and been fine.

They're lying. They're trying, badly, to "make a point" about people who say everyone should get vaccinated "for the kids" (and, of course, no one is actually saying "everyone, including people with severe documented PEG allergy" --- a vanishingly small number of people -- but the person you're responding to.isn't bright enough to discern the difference).

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Anonymous wrote:OP - apologies if I missed it. Are your middle schoolers vaccinated or has your husband refused to let them be vaccinated? Because that would be grounds for divorce and for sole custody, IMO.

This is OP -- that's right, husband has refused to allow them to be vaccinated. Do you really think this would be sufficient grounds for sole custody?

NP here, also with an antivax dh. And divorcing, with a minor still (adult kids all chose to get vax). My lawyer said that I can file a motion and show a letter that it is recommended (as the ped of course will recommend it when under 12's can get it) and the judge will order it allowed. But no, it doesn't seem to be grounds for sole custody or even sole medical decision making. *just my experience, don't take legal advice from me lol*

This was my experience as well. ExH contested me wanting to vax kids. Decision maker ruled to vaccinate them. He ignored the court order and was in contempt, I took them.

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Anonymous wrote:He is probably fully vaccinated beyond the covid vaccine and its his choice. If you want to divorce, go for it. You sound really difficult. Just file for divorce, agree to 50/50 custody, move out and find housing for yourself and be done with it. If you threaten divorce, be prepared to follow through. If my spouse filed, there would be no turning back.

Your spouse should file.

My spouse had to take care of everything for three months after I got sick with the second vaccine shot after he pushed me into taking it. He doesn't want to do everything again and values our marriage. If he wants a divorce, he can have one.

You were sick for 3 months because of the vaccine? I call utter bullsheet

I know someone still in and out of the hospital with liver failure. Doctors at Hopkins feel it was definitely induced by the vaccine due to timing.

I don't believe either of you.

Your choice. Not believing some have really bad adverse reactions to this vaccine defies science as it occurs with ALL vaccines in some people.

But what are the odds two people with really severe reactions just happen to be here?

It’s the antivax equivalent of the people who swear they know ten people in their 40s that all got long COVID and can barely walk.

3 people - pulmonary embolism reported to VAERS and CDC. Looking at compensation.

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What kind if loon would divorce someone because they didn't get vaccinated?