Was accidentally on a group text...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

Does not mean she is wrong.

I am forever grateful for the loser, mean mom in DD’s GS troop who spoke up about the twins that were ruining the experience for everyone else. At that time, due to DD’s health and some CS and visitation issues, that was her one weekly activity. She started dreading it due to two sisters’ behavior. It came to a head when we were asked to leave our rented meeting space in a MCPS school because of the twins’ noise disturbing other groups and their refusal to stop messing with the stuff in the classroom. The troop leader felt powerless and could only suggest that those of us who wanted to leave find a new troop. The loser mean mom told the troop leader that we ALL we leaving and asked for our cookie money. The next meeting the twins were gone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

Does not mean she is wrong.

I am forever grateful for the loser, mean mom in DD’s GS troop who spoke up about the twins that were ruining the experience for everyone else. At that time, due to DD’s health and some CS and visitation issues, that was her one weekly activity. She started dreading it due to two sisters’ behavior. It came to a head when we were asked to leave our rented meeting space in a MCPS school because of the twins’ noise disturbing other groups and their refusal to stop messing with the stuff in the classroom. The troop leader felt powerless and could only suggest that those of us who wanted to leave find a new troop. The loser mean mom told the troop leader that we ALL we leaving and asked for our cookie money. The next meeting the twins were gone.

But did you all talk behind their backs and blame your decision on alcohol and visiting relatives? Not the same situation at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

+2

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

Does not mean she is wrong.

I am forever grateful for the loser, mean mom in DD’s GS troop who spoke up about the twins that were ruining the experience for everyone else. At that time, due to DD’s health and some CS and visitation issues, that was her one weekly activity. She started dreading it due to two sisters’ behavior. It came to a head when we were asked to leave our rented meeting space in a MCPS school because of the twins’ noise disturbing other groups and their refusal to stop messing with the stuff in the classroom. The troop leader felt powerless and could only suggest that those of us who wanted to leave find a new troop. The loser mean mom told the troop leader that we ALL we leaving and asked for our cookie money. The next meeting the twins were gone.

You're a loser, too. She IS wrong. Doesn't matter how obnoxious the kid is, you don't say mean things about him in a group text. And then the rude non-apology.

There are awful kids everywhere. Your experience with these two sisters is way different.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

+2

Yes. The overreaction on this thread has been eye-opening. Dropping an entire friend group, changing schools, deeming someone “trash” for a mild and somewhat humorous text gaffe...glad I don’t know any of you.

[Anonymous]

I just wanna say that there are some crazy ass white folks on this thread

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

+2

Yes. The overreaction on this thread has been eye-opening. Dropping an entire friend group, changing schools, deeming someone “trash” for a mild and somewhat humorous text gaffe...glad I don’t know any of you.

I'm sorry you have such poor reading comprehension.

This is not a "friend group", this is a bunch of moms who the OP knows due to a shared activity. As is clear, these people are not her "friends."
Changing schools-- what are you talking about?
The mom is trash not for the gaffe, but for her non-apology and all the people who are defending her are trash for turning it around and gaslighting the OP to make it seem like her fault.

Hope that clears it up for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

Yes, because usually on this board we are all out here solving world hunger and bringing peace to the Middle East. How dare anyone bring up such a trivial issue on... *checks notes*... the DCUM Elementary School-Aged Kids message board.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does nothing bad ever happen in other people's lives? I'm surprised by this uproar. I feel sorry for the OP and also for the mom who mistakenly sent the bitchy text. They're both going to be equally stung for life.

+1 The responses on this thread are so over the top. The kid probably is a handful and the lady probably is mean. Such is life.

Yes, because usually on this board we are all out here solving world hunger and bringing peace to the Middle East. How dare anyone bring up such a trivial issue on... *checks notes*... the DCUM Elementary School-Aged Kids message board.

???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, do take the feedback. No one responded or disagreed so that does mean your child might have behavior issues. The person who texted was unapologetic. She apologized for saying it but you know it was the truth. Most parents know their children are difficult. They must all like you very much. The group usually filters out difficult families.

OMFG.

Do you really think that parents are not aware of their own children's behavior?? REALLY???

I truly cannot believe anyone is defending someone trashing a kid on a group text. It absolutely blows my mind.

There are some truly terrible people on this thread.

Yes some parents are not aware. My good friend has no idea. I never include our kids when we get together. I like to see her but her kid is loud and bratty. I haven't thrown in the towel though. There's hope the kid will mature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just wanna say that there are some crazy ass white folks on this thread

You think non-white people don’t act like this, too? You obviously don’t know my in laws!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

Does not mean she is wrong.

I am forever grateful for the loser, mean mom in DD’s GS troop who spoke up about the twins that were ruining the experience for everyone else. At that time, due to DD’s health and some CS and visitation issues, that was her one weekly activity. She started dreading it due to two sisters’ behavior. It came to a head when we were asked to leave our rented meeting space in a MCPS school because of the twins’ noise disturbing other groups and their refusal to stop messing with the stuff in the classroom. The troop leader felt powerless and could only suggest that those of us who wanted to leave find a new troop. The loser mean mom told the troop leader that we ALL we leaving and asked for our cookie money. The next meeting the twins were gone.

Your kids sound like weak, pathetic snowflakes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting that the bully's reaction was to immediately position herself as the victim, and then lean on the trope of tipsy soccer mom.

A real apology would name the thing she did wrong, name the impact, and set out a plan to improve as a human being.

She did none of the above.

Yep. That woman is a loser.

Does not mean she is wrong.

I am forever grateful for the loser, mean mom in DD’s GS troop who spoke up about the twins that were ruining the experience for everyone else. At that time, due to DD’s health and some CS and visitation issues, that was her one weekly activity. She started dreading it due to two sisters’ behavior. It came to a head when we were asked to leave our rented meeting space in a MCPS school because of the twins’ noise disturbing other groups and their refusal to stop messing with the stuff in the classroom. The troop leader felt powerless and could only suggest that those of us who wanted to leave find a new troop. The loser mean mom told the troop leader that we ALL we leaving and asked for our cookie money. The next meeting the twins were gone.

Your kids sound like weak, pathetic snowflakes.

So are the people in the other rooms who complained about noise. And the teacher who complained that her materials were interfered with. Everyone is weak and pathetic except for your twins, Stephanie. We were soooooo miserable when you didn’t come back.