Found nude pics on DHs phone

[Anonymous]

I am now starting to think this is a troll. Too random and weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am now starting to think this is a troll. Too random and weird.

Just starting to think that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am now starting to think this is a troll. Too random and weird.

Yeah the Trump reference put it over the top.

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Anonymous wrote:Would the jerks who have taken over this thread with their "I'm so hot, I send nudes to my husband" vs. "No, you're making that up" PLEASE STOP.

Some of us aren't interested in your hijacking. Start another thread about sending nudes in general.

If they are doing stuff like that it only shows how young and dumb they are.

I just see jealousy in every post since I made comments that clearly make some uncomfortable. Look, I was just trying to give the OP some hope that maybe her husband just likes to look at nudies and isn't cheating. Not one reply to her post seemed to want to see any other side to the situation other than he must be cheating. See, this says so much about DCUM women. I am 42, not young, married to the same guy since I was 25. It's called a different perspective than immediately going to...there are nudes on my husbands phone and jump to....that means he is cheating. A

If my husband came at me and accused me of cheating on him with my boss because I had a dick pick.....well, I would be staying at my parents too. The correct way to handle this, would have been to say that I came across a picture on your phone today, I don't want to accuse you of anything but it had me concerned. Go from there.

Also, if you are the type to be pissed he has nudes, and he knows it, he is going to lie to you. That doesn't mean he is sleeping with this woman.

Wow, that's a bit extreme. And that's not even what happened. First OP's husband said there wasn't a nude photo. Would you also have lied?

I just truly don't understand getting outraged at someone for (very reasonably) misinterpreting something... like a nude photo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just truly don't understand getting outraged at someone for (very reasonably) misinterpreting something... like a nude photo.

So you never get upset when someone questions your character?

[Anonymous]

My DH would never accuse me of cheating if I had a dick pic on my phone because if someone sent me a DP I'd be like, "OMG look someone sent me a DP!". These photos didn't magically end up on DH phone. They were real, they were there. OP did not imagine them.

[Anonymous]

If I had a dick pic on my phone, it would be DH’s dick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I had a dick pic on my phone, it would be DH’s dick.

I know right!

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Anonymous wrote:If it were me, I would just ask my husband.

Immediately.

Please get back to us w/what he tells you.

Op here. He came home yesterday after being out drinking with his friends the night before. He said he actually slept at his friends place and went out with him. He denies sexting and chatting with anyone. He is outraged I’d accuse him of cheating and says if he found nudes on my phone his first thought wouldn’t be to accuse me of cheating. He says this feels like an interrogation and he isn’t cool with it.

So I’m not getting any answers.

First he gaslit you. Now he is using another abusive technique - DARVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.

His response is telling you who he is, what kind of person he is. I hope you are listening - not to his excuses but to what he is revealing about himself.

That’s right. If you are a man and you defend yourself, you’re abusive.

If "defending yourself" is bald-faced lying, then trying a different lie, then leaving the house to avoid discussion and lying about where you're going, then demanding not to be questioned on your many lies, yep.

You sound like a treat to date/be in a relationship with. How often do you peg your man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were me, I would just ask my husband.

Immediately.

Please get back to us w/what he tells you.

Op here. He came home yesterday after being out drinking with his friends the night before. He said he actually slept at his friends place and went out with him. He denies sexting and chatting with anyone. He is outraged I’d accuse him of cheating and says if he found nudes on my phone his first thought wouldn’t be to accuse me of cheating. He says this feels like an interrogation and he isn’t cool with it.

So I’m not getting any answers.

First he gaslit you. Now he is using another abusive technique - DARVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.

His response is telling you who he is, what kind of person he is. I hope you are listening - not to his excuses but to what he is revealing about himself.

That’s right. If you are a man and you defend yourself, you’re abusive.

If "defending yourself" is bald-faced lying, then trying a different lie, then leaving the house to avoid discussion and lying about where you're going, then demanding not to be questioned on your many lies, yep.

You sound like a treat to date/be in a relationship with. How often do you peg your man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were me, I would just ask my husband.

Immediately.

Please get back to us w/what he tells you.

Op here. He came home yesterday after being out drinking with his friends the night before. He said he actually slept at his friends place and went out with him. He denies sexting and chatting with anyone. He is outraged I’d accuse him of cheating and says if he found nudes on my phone his first thought wouldn’t be to accuse me of cheating. He says this feels like an interrogation and he isn’t cool with it.

So I’m not getting any answers.

First he gaslit you. Now he is using another abusive technique - DARVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.

His response is telling you who he is, what kind of person he is. I hope you are listening - not to his excuses but to what he is revealing about himself.

That’s right. If you are a man and you defend yourself, you’re abusive.

If "defending yourself" is bald-faced lying, then trying a different lie, then leaving the house to avoid discussion and lying about where you're going, then demanding not to be questioned on your many lies, yep.

You sound like a treat to date/be in a relationship with. How often do you peg your man?

Not at all. Just encouraging you to look in the mirror.

[Anonymous]

"Peg"?

[Anonymous]

Actually, I go by Margaret.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Actually, I go by Margaret.

Then I guess you “Margaret” your DH with that strap-on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Actually, I go by Margaret.

Then I guess you “Margaret” your DH with that strap-on.

Peg can be anal sometimes pay her no mind.