Found nude pics on DHs phone

[Anonymous]

Have any items you can sell quickly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but we warned you to get a plan in order before confronting more. You need to clam down and think this through. Know your finances. Today is your separation date - get a record of where all your finances for both of you are as of today. Catch an Uber or rent a car if needed.

I don’t have much money and all financia information is on the laptop which he took.

You can go to the bank. You need to think smartly here. Don't delay, go first thing Monday AM. Call in sick to work.

[Anonymous]

OP are you an immigrant? Very young?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but we warned you to get a plan in order before confronting more. You need to clam down and think this through. Know your finances. Today is your separation date - get a record of where all your finances for both of you are as of today. Catch an Uber or rent a car if needed.

I don’t have much money and all financia information is on the laptop which he took.

Do you have an atm card? A check book? Do you know which banks you use?

[Anonymous]

On the laptop? Every bank has online banking these days or go in there and physically deal with it. Uber to work until you can buy a cheap car. It’s easy to throw a pity party for yourself but now that you have ripped the bandaid, get your shit together and in 6 months you will be thanking yourself that you did.

[Anonymous]

Why are you booking a hotel room if money is so tight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, read chump lady now and get a lawyer and therapist.

Do not beg, ILY or anything else. Please.

I'm so sorry. Do you have kids?

No kids.

He took our car. I have no car to get around. I had booked a room at a nearby hotel and was packing to load my things. I can’t get around or go to work. Wtf?

Take an uber or a taxi. You can do this.

[Anonymous]

I think it was determined early on this is a TROLL.

Very little detail. She doesn't update often and very vague.

[Anonymous]

OP, how are you doing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it was determined early on this is a TROLL.

Very little detail. She doesn't update often and very vague.

She has other things to attend to that are more urgent and important than providing you with details and updates.

Hang in there OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, how are you doing?

OP is absolutely giddy.
Her troll post turned into a 24-page thread.
She couldn't be happier.

[Anonymous]

Really sorry for you. What a jerk

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, how are you doing?

OP is absolutely giddy.
Her troll post turned into a 24-page thread.
She couldn't be happier.

Yeah I know. One post she said she was trying not to let him leave and saying "I love you, don't go". A couple posts later she had booked a hotel room and was actually packing up when DH started his whole "I want a divorce" thing.

[Anonymous]

People always fall for the obvious trolls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People always fall for the obvious trolls.

I don't think she is a troll. I think people in these situations don't act rationally because they are completely blindsided and emotional.