Stripper father? He's a DJ and waiter or cook. He did one night with a male revue several years ago. ONS? He has been with this girlfriend for several years (5?). Neither Kate nor Jon were taking care of the 8 full time in the beginning. They had help, a lot of help. I wish Beth would write a tell-all. Now that would be interesting. |
Bottom line is he took a low pay job that barely supported himself instead of going back into the well paying field that could have supported his family. He did strip and he did sleep around. He did live in a bachelor pad. He wasn't even trying to do his fair share. It's laughable for him to say now that he was. DUDE - There are pictures of you doing this sh*t! |
And who the heck is Beth? |
She took custody away from him and refused visitation. That is how she raised them. She took them away from him. She pimped the kids out to tv. Now that is far from a good parent. She is controlling and physically and verbally abusive. She literally abandoned a child at a residential facility and hid him from his father. Father had to go to court to find out where his son was and get custody. She couldn't even be bothered to show up for court. What kind of parent does that? |
They could have done it in a small house with both of them working. Many people do it just fine with large families. |
Typically people don’t have 6 at the same time. I don’t begrudge anyone getting help. Putting yourself in this position is weird. Reality tv shows are weird and unhealthy to be in or watch. |
Pre-fame, She had multiple nurses and frequent help from church members but drove them all away with her nasty attitude. She was not raising those kids when she was running around in hotels with her bodyguard. She wouldn't even let Jon take the kids while she was traveling and left them with nannies just to be spiteful |
The DCUM harpies hate him because he escaped a harpie.
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All of the families of multiples get help initially. But they will also all tell you that after awhile people stop coming to help you. You don't have to run them off, they have lives of their own to lead and they simply fade away. The level of help that they got at first wasn't going to last. Kate knew that. She also knew that Jon wasn't up to the task of watching all 8 by himself. Honestly, that is probably why she had a nanny at the house full time and the TLC crew coming in daily to help Jon with the kids. Jon was careless and didn't always use great judgement watching the kids and I think Kate was legitimately concerned about his ability to handle all 8 by himself. She knew that if she needed help, he absolutely did. But there is a price that came with all that help and Jon didn't want to pay it.....so he left to go wait tables and strip. |
She's a classic example of parental alienation. She turned those kids against him. |
He left as he didn't want to be on tv and have people constantly in his house. That's not unreasonable. He moved on with his life after he lost custody of his kids and only got very limited visitation. What is he supposed to do? Only so many times you can appeal and lose. She had the show paying attorneys. No way he was going to win or ever see his kids again. |
He was unfit to watch all 8 kids all by himself. Kate had to make a living for their family and the TLC crew made that possible. Jon was looking to Kate to make his "normal life" possible and that was not her responsibility. Her responsibility was to her kids and to herself and that is where she put her energy. Jon got back exactly what he put in which was not much. |
If you berate people, bark orders, criticize their every move and treat them like hired help no they won't stick around. And I'm not referring to her treatment of Jon |
Yep. And there is one in particular that’s like a dog with a bone... |
Think it’s just the one. Wonder if her name rhymes with eight? |