Boy slapped my daughter's butt on the walk from school

[Anonymous]

NP. Can't read it all. Did OP report the assault to the police? I hope so.

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Anonymous wrote:"End game"? I would like the kid to be seriously punished. Suspended. Kicked off his sports team for some period of time (if applicable). Detention for a while. Things like that. Would depend on whether this was the first time he did something like this or not. I'd like someone with authority (principal maybe) to sit him down and tell him he can't do that and if he were an adult it is a crime called "assault" that could be prosecuted. And that if they ever hear of him treating another girl in a degrading manner, he will be punished even more severely.

Wow. I hope your precious little snowflake doesn't make a mistake at some point in her life. I'm not condoning the boys' behavior but IMO your reaction is so far over the top, I don't know where to begin.

Suspended from school and kicked off a sports team for touching a girls butt off school grounds. Unbelievable.

This. We are a society gone amok.

Its already happening in our colleges. Why won't it permeate down to our high schools and middle schools. The colleges are a testing ground and then it seeps into the real world.

Because the legal system has different standards for those who are not adults. Not everything should be seen from the perspective of a bitter 40 something DC office drone.

yeah..and the bitter 40 year old office drones are already writing rules to circumvent the legal system for colleges. So why won't they eventually do it for high schools. Even elementary schools. Its starting to happen in california anyway for high schools.

College students are adults, you idiot. They get to vote and everything...This craziness has got to stop. Guilty until proven innocent is the new system which is the antithesis of our legal system unless you are on a college campus or a women accuses a man of anything. As a women born in the 60s and who has seen feminism come full circle from empowerment to victimization, I am disgusted. As a mother of both boys and girls, I am terrified.

You are completely wrong. It is still a system that favors rapists. Isolated cases to the contrary are the exception, not the rule.

And so, are we talking about a rapist here? Nope, didn't think so. Wow, you are scary.

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Anonymous wrote:And how, pray tell, does a middle school girl stand up for herself to a boy who has slapped her ass and run away?

Turn around, yell "Stop It!" or "Fuck Off!", and slap him across the face if she has the chance. A kick in the nuts might be warranted too.

I'm a guy.

She did yell at him.

So then what? She yelled at him, and she's outnumbered (and surprised, so not ready with a quick response). So now the boy should get away with it? Such ridiculous crap.

. Wow. The facts sure are changing as this thread has gone on...

How have they changed? OP said in the beginning that there were others daring this boy to do it. That's not new information. What new way have you managed to blame the victim here?

First, she is not a "victim" and making her into one is the problem. Second, op is now claiming her daughter stood up for herself and her brave attempt to protect her fragile self was ignored by this wild lack of boys. Op changed her daughter's reaction in light of people telling her she needs to teach her daughter to stand up for herself. This thread is an example of everything that is wrong with what stands for feminism today--victimization vs strength and empowerment. It is the antithesis of feminism and an embarrassment for true feminists and not coded wantabees.

So since the facts don't fit your narrative you simply say OP is lying. And it's still the girls fault because she didn't defend herself well enough. Wow.

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Anonymous wrote:"End game"? I would like the kid to be seriously punished. Suspended. Kicked off his sports team for some period of time (if applicable). Detention for a while. Things like that. Would depend on whether this was the first time he did something like this or not. I'd like someone with authority (principal maybe) to sit him down and tell him he can't do that and if he were an adult it is a crime called "assault" that could be prosecuted. And that if they ever hear of him treating another girl in a degrading manner, he will be punished even more severely.

Wow. I hope your precious little snowflake doesn't make a mistake at some point in her life. I'm not condoning the boys' behavior but IMO your reaction is so far over the top, I don't know where to begin.

Suspended from school and kicked off a sports team for touching a girls butt off school grounds. Unbelievable.

This. We are a society gone amok.

Its already happening in our colleges. Why won't it permeate down to our high schools and middle schools. The colleges are a testing ground and then it seeps into the real world.

Because the legal system has different standards for those who are not adults. Not everything should be seen from the perspective of a bitter 40 something DC office drone.

yeah..and the bitter 40 year old office drones are already writing rules to circumvent the legal system for colleges. So why won't they eventually do it for high schools. Even elementary schools. Its starting to happen in california anyway for high schools.

College students are adults, you idiot. They get to vote and everything...This craziness has got to stop. Guilty until proven innocent is the new system which is the antithesis of our legal system unless you are on a college campus or a women accuses a man of anything. As a women born in the 60s and who has seen feminism come full circle from empowerment to victimization, I am disgusted. As a mother of both boys and girls, I am terrified.

You are completely wrong. It is still a system that favors rapists. Isolated cases to the contrary are the exception, not the rule.

And so, are we talking about a rapist here? Nope, didn't think so. Wow, you are scary.

I was responding to the pp who brought up the example of campus rape. Work on your reading skills.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

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Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

How is his life being ruined? He's a helpless victim now? That is laughable.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

+1 hope he is no longer your close guy friend you sound crazy. The appropriate thing would have to tell him to cut it out.

[Anonymous]

You guys are out of control. This is a twelve year old CHILD you guys are accusing of sexual assault. The French were right to put a travel advisory warning on the U.S.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

How is his life being ruined? He's a helpless victim now? That is laughable.

Yea you are proposing to ruin his life because he played a prank by branding him a sexual offense. Shame on you.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

How is his life being ruined? He's a helpless victim now? That is laughable.

Yea you are proposing to ruin his life because he played a prank by branding him a sexual offense. Shame on you.

How would his life be "ruined?" Nothing the PP suggested would ruin anyone's life. You're making things up and getting hysterical about it.

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Anonymous wrote:The police??

Hitting people is assault.

Nope. Making contact is battery. Assault is the act of swinging or creating the threat, battery is the act of connecting.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

How is his life being ruined? He's a helpless victim now? That is laughable.

Yea you are proposing to ruin his life because he played a prank by branding him a sexual offense. Shame on you.

How would his life be "ruined?" Nothing the PP suggested would ruin anyone's life. You're making things up and getting hysterical about it.

Posters are accusing him of sexual assault. That is a serious offense.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you have my sympathy. Its an assault and the thing that matters most is how your daughter feels about it.

I think talking to the Guidance Counsellor as has been suggested, is the best advice.

This happened to me, in college - a close male friend thought it would be a funny thing to do, in front of others. It was humiliating.

I know people have huge problems and far worse situations they face, but still its an assault and should be addressed.

good luck

And you wanted his life ruined because he did something silly?

Oh good grief.

And stop throwing around the world "assault."

How is his life being ruined? He's a helpless victim now? That is laughable.

Yea you are proposing to ruin his life because he played a prank by branding him a sexual offense. Shame on you.

How would his life be "ruined?" Nothing the PP suggested would ruin anyone's life. You're making things up and getting hysterical about it.

Posters are accusing him of sexual assault. That is a serious offense.

Do the police move forward based on suggestions by anon internet posters? I don't think so. No one's life is going to get ruined because someone made reference to him being a rapist, either. If his life will be "ruined" because someone speaks to his parents about it, then maybe he should consider keeping his hands to himself.

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The police report has been filed. Now it's time to sit back and watch the justice system step in.

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Anonymous wrote:The police report has been filed. Now it's time to sit back and watch the justice system step in.

You're trying to stir shit up. No police report has been filed.