Hobbies that are Dealbreakers?

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Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

LOL this is a good point 🤣😂🤣

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being a football fan obsessively and caring too much. As if their athleticism somehow transfers to your couch-shaped ass, as if you're represented by them. As if CTE doesn't exist. It's tacky.

I judge people who feel this way as having a small brain. It is a stupid take. Wait until in game betting becomes mainstream. People born today will wonder why we watched others play sports w/o it

I watch sports when my teams play, otherwise not interested. I can’t just watch to watch.

I do get passionate about sports from my home state or town though. I even coach so yeah, really into it.

I find people who lack any passion are usually boring and not very intelligent . And no, your photography “business” and instagram isn’t a hobby, it’s a time waster. At least if I’m watching football at home I’m not wasting money.

But to each their own.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

If you allow her ever-changing feelings to dictate what you do, then your life will be a living hell. And ironically, if you stop doing something because she says it’s a “turn off” then she (quite properly) will think your lack of spine is a turn off.

Just do what you want. If she doesn’t like it, there’s always some other woman who will.

A lot of time there seems to be a light switch effect. Something is great and then it isn’t and all of a sudden the whole relationship was never “good”, even though it was.

If you have a hobby that you like to do and she hates it that’s fine. But if you give it up you’ll end up resenting her and then that just starts a downward spiral.

If she hates the fact you play video games and complains about it and you give it up she’ll just complain about the next thing she doesn’t like that you do. Just play your game and put on a headset so you can’t hear her.

But also…don’t play games all day, get up and do something productive then go waste some snotty teenagers on COD.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being a football fan obsessively and caring too much. As if their athleticism somehow transfers to your couch-shaped ass, as if you're represented by them. As if CTE doesn't exist. It's tacky.

I judge people who feel this way as having a small brain. It is a stupid take. Wait until in game betting becomes mainstream. People born today will wonder why we watched others play sports w/o it

I hate to admit it, but I love to tease/ heckle obsessed football fans of which Pittsburgh or Dallas fans seem the worse. Stoolers?! Squealers?! Cowpunks?! Little boys?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

LOL this is a good point 🤣😂🤣

No, dumbos.

This list is a compilation from many women. It is not a list that represents the preferences of all women.

You have to understand that, right? 😳

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Agree with the horses! Nothing screams rich daddies girl than a young woman who owns horse. Im sorry I know it's a generalization, but every women I've ever met who owned a horse has been very self-involved and completely out of touch with reality in regards to money and budgeting.

I’m a horse guy and I stayed away from dating most horse girls. I love them as friends, not dating so much. Which is hard because a lot of them are attractive but they’re also no dating material for me at least.

And while there is plenty of gay male riders there is more straight ones than you think.

Straight male who also rides horses. I’m currently “seeing” someone who rides at my barn. Probably the last time I date a female who rides. She is crazy and one of the most selfish people I’ve met. Trying to figure out my next steps. Just because someone “looks good” doesn’t mean they are a good GF or wife material.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Agree with the horses! Nothing screams rich daddies girl than a young woman who owns horse. Im sorry I know it's a generalization, but every women I've ever met who owned a horse has been very self-involved and completely out of touch with reality in regards to money and budgeting.

I’m a horse guy and I stayed away from dating most horse girls. I love them as friends, not dating so much. Which is hard because a lot of them are attractive but they’re also no dating material for me at least.

And while there is plenty of gay male riders there is more straight ones than you think.

Non-horse female here looking for a horse guy. Where do we go to find all the straight guys who ride?

[Anonymous]

LOL at the posters who thik Bible Study is a "hobby".

Just say you're not religious or Christian and don't date guys who are.

[Anonymous]

Guys who are into old Porsches or other types of cars.

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Hunting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

I’m a woman and I have hobbies, but I am flexible and my hobbies don’t take time or resources away from my family. When I am training for a race, I will run at 5am instead of 6:30am if I need to in order to make it to my child’s soccer game. My husband likes backpacking and camping. He goes away 3-4 weekends a year and I know the dates and plan ahead.

It’s not about what the hobbies are, it’s that some men won’t dial back the hours they spend on their hobbies or shift their schedule once they become homeowners and parents. It’s all about balance. It’s good for men to have friends and maintain relationships. It’s also not ok for them to always put those commitments ahead of the needs of their family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

LOL this is a good point 🤣😂🤣

The wonderful world of relationships with women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being a football fan obsessively and caring too much. As if their athleticism somehow transfers to your couch-shaped ass, as if you're represented by them. As if CTE doesn't exist. It's tacky.

I judge people who feel this way as having a small brain. It is a stupid take. Wait until in game betting becomes mainstream. People born today will wonder why we watched others play sports w/o it

I watch sports when my teams play, otherwise not interested. I can’t just watch to watch.

I do get passionate about sports from my home state or town though. I even coach so yeah, really into it.

I find people who lack any passion are usually boring and not very intelligent . And no, your photography “business” and instagram isn’t a hobby, it’s a time waster. At least if I’m watching football at home I’m not wasting money.

But to each their own.

The problem with men who watch professional sports is it’s a giant red-flag for toxic masculinity. Don’t invite those type of men into your life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guys who are into old Porsches or other types of cars.

Or motorcycles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is my motorcycle the reason I am single 😞?

Motorcycles are a red flag.