Hobbies that are Dealbreakers?

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Thinking she wants to get the kids into fencing

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Is my motorcycle the reason I am single 😞?

[Anonymous]

A sport that needs perfect conditions and expensive equipment. He refuses to make plans on the weekends just incase the conditions are right, and half the time they aren’t.

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Ultimate frisbee

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Very specific genre cover band

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Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

Pretty much .

I have a hobby I did before I met her and I’ll continue it. It’s also my second job so I’m lucky.

I figure if I’m passionate about something and you want to leave me for it go ahead. I don’t need you in my life if you’re not going to like something that is a huge part of my life.

If I’m too much go find someone less…

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Anonymous wrote:Agree with the horses! Nothing screams rich daddies girl than a young woman who owns horse. Im sorry I know it's a generalization, but every women I've ever met who owned a horse has been very self-involved and completely out of touch with reality in regards to money and budgeting.

I’m a horse guy and I stayed away from dating most horse girls. I love them as friends, not dating so much. Which is hard because a lot of them are attractive but they’re also no dating material for me at least.

And while there is plenty of gay male riders there is more straight ones than you think.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

Pretty much .

I have a hobby I did before I met her and I’ll continue it. It’s also my second job so I’m lucky.

I figure if I’m passionate about something and you want to leave me for it go ahead. I don’t need you in my life if you’re not going to like something that is a huge part of my life.

If I’m too much go find someone less…

It just reinforces the idea that women (whether they will admit or not) want men to be the be the way they think she should be. They will claim oh he can have his hobbies. But if his hobbies aren't hobbies she seems acceptable then that's a red flag. If a woman collect toy soldiers as a hobby and a guy says she is red flag trust me other women will rally around her and tell her she doesn't need to change who she is for him.

Women fundamentally want to change a man. They think they can.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooooo, based on this thread, men aren't allowed to have any hobbies, because they're all turnoffs. But in another thread women will complain, "WhY iS Dh So BorInG!!??". Lol.

If you allow her ever-changing feelings to dictate what you do, then your life will be a living hell. And ironically, if you stop doing something because she says it’s a “turn off” then she (quite properly) will think your lack of spine is a turn off.

Just do what you want. If she doesn’t like it, there’s always some other woman who will.

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Anonymous wrote:Being a football fan obsessively and caring too much. As if their athleticism somehow transfers to your couch-shaped ass, as if you're represented by them. As if CTE doesn't exist. It's tacky.

I judge people who feel this way as having a small brain. It is a stupid take. Wait until in game betting becomes mainstream. People born today will wonder why we watched others play sports w/o it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ren Fairs
Comicon
Bible study

this is a good list

[Anonymous]

If you want a guy with no stereotypically masculine hobbies he’s either an extremely boring probably workaholic type or he’s gay.

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Anonymous wrote:If you want a guy with no stereotypically masculine hobbies he’s either an extremely boring probably workaholic type or he’s gay.

Does drinking beer count as a stereotypical masculine hobby? DH has hobbies but none of them are sports related.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want a guy with no stereotypically masculine hobbies he’s either an extremely boring probably workaholic type or he’s gay.

Does drinking beer count as a stereotypical masculine hobby? DH has hobbies but none of them are sports related.

It’s not a hobby, it’s a vice.