I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:Is it trolling season? Because there sure are a lot of dramatic posts these days.

Bobcat season (illegally). It is, however, gray squirrel season as someone helpfully pointed out.

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I would make the drive, just so I could know something for sure.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, why don't you CALL these people instead of Facebook messaging them? Plenty of people don't use that feature - I know I don't.

Although we've asked a direct question - do you know his parents' names and where they live?

You are really in the minority, a lot of people use private messenger on FB.

Yes, but she still hasn't answered the direct question about knowing the parents' names. And she hasn't said that she's called maine state police yet, either. She keeps saying "she's going to".

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Anonymous wrote:They've been together 6 months and live 4 hours away from one another? Please that's got side chick written all over it.

I lived four hours away from my boyfriend until three days after we got married and I moved in with him. I'm not the side chick.

Yes, and if he was missing you'd drive the 4 lousy hours to make sure he wasn't lying dead in his home (at least I would).

[Anonymous]

Perfect explanation as to why the OP is in here desperately seeking comfort and advice instead of launching an all-out-investigation involving calling hospitals, authorities, and family members - she's a side chick. If the OP was a legitimate and recognized partner she could scream from the highest hilltops when worried but she's a side chick so she has to stay quiet. If she makes any calls or inquires its likely that whistle gets blown on the whole thing. She's a side chick she can't call anyone at best she can Facebook his uncle and feign general curiosity about this guys whereabouts then cross her fingers and anxiously wait for him to call.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, why don't you CALL these people instead of Facebook messaging them? Plenty of people don't use that feature - I know I don't.

Although we've asked a direct question - do you know his parents' names and where they live?

You are really in the minority, a lot of people use private messenger on FB.

As their main method of contact in an emergency? OK.

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Anonymous wrote:Only women who get the "straight to voicemail" are side chicks. Wives and girlfriends don't get that.

Really? I get straight to voicemail all the time because my husband flies for a living. Yes, a lot of us do get that. In her case, it's most likely because his phone is dead.

Your husband lives with you and heaven forbid something happen you know his family and friends. The OP doesn't know anything about this guy, no family, no friends, and probably doesn't even know where he lives she's a side chick.

She knows his uncle and two friends. The two friends she knows aren't on FB. She is linked to his FB account as his girlfriend. People hollering about side chicks but didn't bother to read the posts.

Why not look up these friends' phone numbers and call those numbers and see if anyone answering knows where these guys are.

Don't you know his friends Op?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Perfect explanation as to why the OP is in here desperately seeking comfort and advice instead of launching an all-out-investigation involving calling hospitals, authorities, and family members - she's a side chick. If the OP was a legitimate and recognized partner she could scream from the highest hilltops when worried but she's a side chick so she has to stay quiet. If she makes any calls or inquires its likely that whistle gets blown on the whole thing. She's a side chick she can't call anyone at best she can Facebook his uncle and feign general curiosity about this guys whereabouts then cross her fingers and anxiously wait for him to call.

Or a Mafia girlfriend. "Animal hauling business" LOL

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They've been together 6 months and live 4 hours away from one another? Please that's got side chick written all over it.

I lived four hours away from my boyfriend until three days after we got married and I moved in with him. I'm not the side chick.

Yes, and if he was missing you'd drive the 4 lousy hours to make sure he wasn't lying dead in his home (at least I would).

I might. I might not. Just look at all the posters calling her needing if she does that.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They've been together 6 months and live 4 hours away from one another? Please that's got side chick written all over it.

I lived four hours away from my boyfriend until three days after we got married and I moved in with him. I'm not the side chick.

Yes, and if he was missing you'd drive the 4 lousy hours to make sure he wasn't lying dead in his home (at least I would).

I might. I might not. Just look at all the posters calling her needing if she does that.

It's not like he lives in New York and she lives in California. Make the road trip, OP! Or call the local cops and ask for a "wellness check" on him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They've been together 6 months and live 4 hours away from one another? Please that's got side chick written all over it.

I lived four hours away from my boyfriend until three days after we got married and I moved in with him. I'm not the side chick.

Yes, and if he was missing you'd drive the 4 lousy hours to make sure he wasn't lying dead in his home (at least I would).

+1 Lots of people in the DC area commute 1 to 2 hours every day. Why the hell wouldn't you get in the car NOW and drive to his place, OP? You are totally full of it.

[Anonymous]

Has it been 48 hours? If so, I would drive up to his town and fill out a missing persons report. Also do a wellness check at his house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Perfect explanation as to why the OP is in here desperately seeking comfort and advice instead of launching an all-out-investigation involving calling hospitals, authorities, and family members - she's a side chick. If the OP was a legitimate and recognized partner she could scream from the highest hilltops when worried but she's a side chick so she has to stay quiet. If she makes any calls or inquires its likely that whistle gets blown on the whole thing. She's a side chick she can't call anyone at best she can Facebook his uncle and feign general curiosity about this guys whereabouts then cross her fingers and anxiously wait for him to call.

Or another normal explanation is that she is worried but doesn't yet want to ring every alarm. Understandable. Doesn't mean their relationship is illegitimate.
When I'd been dating a man for 6 months I didn't have his friends phone numbers either.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Perfect explanation as to why the OP is in here desperately seeking comfort and advice instead of launching an all-out-investigation involving calling hospitals, authorities, and family members - she's a side chick. If the OP was a legitimate and recognized partner she could scream from the highest hilltops when worried but she's a side chick so she has to stay quiet. If she makes any calls or inquires its likely that whistle gets blown on the whole thing. She's a side chick she can't call anyone at best she can Facebook his uncle and feign general curiosity about this guys whereabouts then cross her fingers and anxiously wait for him to call.

Or another normal explanation is that she is worried but doesn't yet want to ring every alarm. Understandable. Doesn't mean their relationship is illegitimate.
When I'd been dating a man for 6 months I didn't have his friends phone numbers either.

Did you know where he worked? The name of the actual company?

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You notice how the OP only divulges information when her credibility is in question? Classic side chick behavior.
The missing boyfriend probably trained her well on what to do in crises situations - "give as little information as possible and only explain something when absolutely necessary but whatever you do STICK TO THE LIE!!"