Aftercare is cruel to kindergarteners

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

NO MORE SCHOOL! NO MORE SCHOOL! Keep kids at home! You must need me forever, child!

Exactly. As soon as you push them out of your womb, wait until you stop bleeding, then wash your hands of them. That was a tough 11 months of work. If you are really sophiscated, who needs to wait for the bleeding to stop? Just stick a pad in those drawers. Now you can resume your life and do more important things. But be sure to take lots of pics for facebook, ok.

Have you had this hysterical exaggeration problem your whole life, or is it a result of your (unfortunate) motherhood? You really, truly have issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

Why do people like you avoid taking your crazy pills before logging on to the internet?

[Anonymous]

I was raised by two full-time working parents. Mom put in 40 hrs/week M-F and spent 2.5 years working all day Saturdays while she wrote a book and we had movie day with Dad. I'm a 4th generation working mom and I LOVED my childhood. If you're assuming your kids will spend all of the after school hours missing you, you probably didn't have a working mom, right? Or you didn't have many friends as a child? Those of us who actually grew up as the children of these kinds of mothers know how wonderful a family life can be with two working parents. I choose to work because I know it's best, not just for our bank account, but for my child. If you doubt that, then go for a different decision. That's fine and I'm sure that can work out great too. But you're making a straw man argument - the notion that daycare harms kids was debunked in the 80s. If you want to keep arguing it, feel free but there's no evidence to back you up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was raised by two full-time working parents. Mom put in 40 hrs/week M-F and spent 2.5 years working all day Saturdays while she wrote a book and we had movie day with Dad. I'm a 4th generation working mom and I LOVED my childhood. If you're assuming your kids will spend all of the after school hours missing you, you probably didn't have a working mom, right? Or you didn't have many friends as a child? Those of us who actually grew up as the children of these kinds of mothers know how wonderful a family life can be with two working parents. I choose to work because I know it's best, not just for our bank account, but for my child. If you doubt that, then go for a different decision. That's fine and I'm sure that can work out great too. But you're making a straw man argument - the notion that daycare harms kids was debunked in the 80s. If you want to keep arguing it, feel free but there's no evidence to back you up.

AMEN!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

NO MORE SCHOOL! NO MORE SCHOOL! Keep kids at home! You must need me forever, child!

Exactly. As soon as you push them out of your womb, wait until you stop bleeding, then wash your hands of them. That was a tough 11 months of work. If you are really sophiscated, who needs to wait for the bleeding to stop? Just stick a pad in those drawers. Now you can resume your life and do more important things. But be sure to take lots of pics for facebook, ok.

Have you had this hysterical exaggeration problem your whole life, or is it a result of your (unfortunate) motherhood? You really, truly have issues.

That is a good question to ask the PP. If you are the PP then denial is not just a river in Egypt.

Do you always resort to psycho babble when you have nothing intelligent to say, or it is only when someone doesn't praise your child neglect?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

NO MORE SCHOOL! NO MORE SCHOOL! Keep kids at home! You must need me forever, child!

Exactly. As soon as you push them out of your womb, wait until you stop bleeding, then wash your hands of them. That was a tough 11 months of work. If you are really sophiscated, who needs to wait for the bleeding to stop? Just stick a pad in those drawers. Now you can resume your life and do more important things. But be sure to take lots of pics for facebook, ok.

Have you had this hysterical exaggeration problem your whole life, or is it a result of your (unfortunate) motherhood? You really, truly have issues.

That is a good question to ask the PP. If you are the PP then denial is not just a river in Egypt.

Do you always resort to psycho babble when you have nothing intelligent to say, or it is only when someone doesn't praise your child neglect?

I am the PP. All I can say is. . . .bwahahahahaha! Yeah, go ahead wingnut, report me to CPS. "Yes, hello? I'd like to report a working mother who pays a ton to have her healthy, happy child in top-notch daycare for 8 hours a day and who provides plenty of enrichment activities on weekends for child neglect." Go for it!! I'd love to hear the response you'd get. The sound of the psych ward ambulance screaming down your street, most probably.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

Didn't you know, PP? Aftercare = abortion.

Hahahahahaha! God, you wingnuts are always good for a laugh at the end of the day. Thanks for that.

[Anonymous]

Working moms always want to hear how progressive and educated they are and how they are providing and setting a good example for their children not to rely on a man for $.

In reality though: working moms bewilder me. When you consider the thought people put into getting a dog for example- whether the dog will have space to run, enough time for walks, enough time to spend with it each day. It's sad to see that people don't put this forethought into bringing an actual human being into the world. If you are having children to put them in daycare, aftercare, whatever, then you're showing that your child that your priority is your job, your career, your happiness and your poor child is less than a dog. I'm sorry if you don't want to hear this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

NO MORE SCHOOL! NO MORE SCHOOL! Keep kids at home! You must need me forever, child!

Exactly. As soon as you push them out of your womb, wait until you stop bleeding, then wash your hands of them. That was a tough 11 months of work. If you are really sophiscated, who needs to wait for the bleeding to stop? Just stick a pad in those drawers. Now you can resume your life and do more important things. But be sure to take lots of pics for facebook, ok.

Have you had this hysterical exaggeration problem your whole life, or is it a result of your (unfortunate) motherhood? You really, truly have issues.

That is a good question to ask the PP. If you are the PP then denial is not just a river in Egypt.

Do you always resort to psycho babble when you have nothing intelligent to say, or it is only when someone doesn't praise your child neglect?

So you think your comments in bold were "intelligent?" Interesting.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

Oh, so it was recent. Sorry for bringing it up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

NO MORE SCHOOL! NO MORE SCHOOL! Keep kids at home! You must need me forever, child!

Exactly. As soon as you push them out of your womb, wait until you stop bleeding, then wash your hands of them. That was a tough 11 months of work. If you are really sophiscated, who needs to wait for the bleeding to stop? Just stick a pad in those drawers. Now you can resume your life and do more important things. But be sure to take lots of pics for facebook, ok.

Have you had this hysterical exaggeration problem your whole life, or is it a result of your (unfortunate) motherhood? You really, truly have issues.

That is a good question to ask the PP. If you are the PP then denial is not just a river in Egypt.

Do you always resort to psycho babble when you have nothing intelligent to say, or it is only when someone doesn't praise your child neglect?

I am the PP. All I can say is. . . .bwahahahahaha! Yeah, go ahead wingnut, report me to CPS. "Yes, hello? I'd like to report a working mother who pays a ton to have her healthy, happy child in top-notch daycare for 8 hours a day and who provides plenty of enrichment activities on weekends for child neglect." Go for it!! I'd love to hear the response you'd get. The sound of the psych ward ambulance screaming down your street, most probably.

Why would I report you to cps? Your kids are better off with a neglectful mother who puts them last, than with some pervert with a clean background check who takes in kids for the money. Unlike you, I actually care about your kids and I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them. I am sure they have a teacher who shows them love. It doesn't replace a mothers love but life isn't perfect. You are not a good mom but I am sure your kids will forgive you as long as you keep buying them stuff.