DH called our nanny hot

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH is an electrician. He has story after story, in Arlington in particular, where he's sent a work order only to arrive at the house and find both the nanny and father home in the middle of the day. Awkward silence to boot.

Happens way way way more than you think.

Where else would the nanny be during the day? Also it's nice when one of the home owners makes themselves available to deal with their problems instead of leaving it for the nanny.

-former nanny

Ohhh, I don't know. Let's try:

- the playground
- the grocery store
- picking up from the half day preschool
- dropping off from the half day pre school
- a play group
- the backyard
- the museums
- the dentist
- the dry cleaner
- on a walk with the dog


Or anywhere else further than 10 feet from my husband and a bed?

-signed, a woman that pays a nanny to busy her child with quality activities, not plop him in front of a TV while she bangs my DH.

-preparing meals/ feeding kids
-Cleaning up after playtime
-doing laundry
- fixing and feeding lunch
- nap time
-making plans for afternoon activities.
- engaging kids in activities in their own home.


The list goes on and on. It's sad that you only have a nanny who is capable of driving your kids to classes. It's also sad that you have a husband who cheats on you all the time. What a sad miserable life you lead.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

Completely irrelevant. The problem is in OP's head now and it will sit there and fester forever no matter what the reality is. She will feel unsettled and uncomfortable in her own home due to the elephant in the room.

And it happens all.the.time. Check out the nanny forum

I believe some young women specifically become nannies for this purpose. They would probably prefer a single dad, like on The Nanny. But a attractive rich one willing to leave his wife would be an acceptable alternative

You're confusing your Lifetime movies and porn with real life again.

Except it happens a lot. See the above celebrity examples. If famous rich people who know their name will be on the headlines do this, you know there are a lot of run of the mill UMC dads doing it too.

Of the hundreds of celebrities, 3 couples do not qualify as a lot. Having been a nanny and knnwn many nannies most are not looking to bang your husband. Again reality vs porn, movies, and tabloids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

Completely irrelevant. The problem is in OP's head now and it will sit there and fester forever no matter what the reality is. She will feel unsettled and uncomfortable in her own home due to the elephant in the room.

And it happens all.the.time. Check out the nanny forum

I believe some young women specifically become nannies for this purpose. They would probably prefer a single dad, like on The Nanny. But a attractive rich one willing to leave his wife would be an acceptable alternative

You're confusing your Lifetime movies and porn with real life again.

Except it happens a lot. See the above celebrity examples. If famous rich people who know their name will be on the headlines do this, you know there are a lot of run of the mill UMC dads doing it too.

Of the hundreds of celebrities, 3 couples do not qualify as a lot. Having been a nanny and knnwn many nannies most are not looking to bang your husband. Again reality vs porn, movies, and tabloids.

But it makes for such great drama!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know of 5 real life marriages that ended with the husband having an affair with the nanny. None of the men were particularly attractive. I am sure that the majority of nannies refer to date people their own age, but not all of them.

I know of 50 real life marriages that had no problems between the H and the nanny.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH is an electrician. He has story after story, in Arlington in particular, where he's sent a work order only to arrive at the house and find both the nanny and father home in the middle of the day. Awkward silence to boot.

Happens way way way more than you think.

Where else would the nanny be during the day? Also it's nice when one of the home owners makes themselves available to deal with their problems instead of leaving it for the nanny.

-former nanny

Ohhh, I don't know. Let's try:

- the playground
- the grocery store
- picking up from the half day preschool
- dropping off from the half day pre school
- a play group
- the backyard
- the museums
- the dentist
- the dry cleaner
- on a walk with the dog


Or anywhere else further than 10 feet from my husband and a bed?

-signed, a woman that pays a nanny to busy her child with quality activities, not plop him in front of a TV while she bangs my DH.

-preparing meals/ feeding kids
-Cleaning up after playtime
-doing laundry
- fixing and feeding lunch
- nap time
-making plans for afternoon activities.
- engaging kids in activities in their own home.


The list goes on and on. It's sad that you only have a nanny who is capable of driving your kids to classes. It's also sad that you have a husband who cheats on you all the time. What a sad miserable life you lead.

Wut? You think a husband is going to be banging the nanny while the neighbors' kids (and their nannys or moms) are playing in the next room over?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know of 5 real life marriages that ended with the husband having an affair with the nanny. None of the men were particularly attractive. I am sure that the majority of nannies refer to date people their own age, but not all of them.

I know of 50 real life marriages that had no problems between the H and the nanny.

Same, and several where the hot young nanny even worked in the home with the WFHD.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

Completely irrelevant. The problem is in OP's head now and it will sit there and fester forever no matter what the reality is. She will feel unsettled and uncomfortable in her own home due to the elephant in the room.

And it happens all.the.time. Check out the nanny forum

I believe some young women specifically become nannies for this purpose. They would probably prefer a single dad, like on The Nanny. But a attractive rich one willing to leave his wife would be an acceptable alternative

You're confusing your Lifetime movies and porn with real life again.

Except it happens a lot. See the above celebrity examples. If famous rich people who know their name will be on the headlines do this, you know there are a lot of run of the mill UMC dads doing it too.

Of the hundreds of celebrities, 3 couples do not qualify as a lot. Having been a nanny and knnwn many nannies most are not looking to bang your husband. Again reality vs porn, movies, and tabloids.

But it makes for such great drama!!!

It's more than that it feeds into misogynistic rape culture attitudes of women being sluts, who are responsible for everything and men who can't be expected to control themselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

Completely irrelevant. The problem is in OP's head now and it will sit there and fester forever no matter what the reality is. She will feel unsettled and uncomfortable in her own home due to the elephant in the room.

And it happens all.the.time. Check out the nanny forum

I believe some young women specifically become nannies for this purpose. They would probably prefer a single dad, like on The Nanny. But a attractive rich one willing to leave his wife would be an acceptable alternative

You're confusing your Lifetime movies and porn with real life again.

Except it happens a lot. See the above celebrity examples. If famous rich people who know their name will be on the headlines do this, you know there are a lot of run of the mill UMC dads doing it too.

Of the hundreds of celebrities, 3 couples do not qualify as a lot. Having been a nanny and knnwn many nannies most are not looking to bang your husband. Again reality vs porn, movies, and tabloids.

But it makes for such great drama!!!

It's more than that it feeds into misogynistic rape culture attitudes of women being sluts, who are responsible for everything and men who can't be expected to control themselves.

Oh, horsesh*t. Women enjoy sex as well. That's how we ended up with 7 billion people on this planet. Plenty seek out the D. Plenty, plenty, plenty.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

Completely irrelevant. The problem is in OP's head now and it will sit there and fester forever no matter what the reality is. She will feel unsettled and uncomfortable in her own home due to the elephant in the room.

And it happens all.the.time. Check out the nanny forum

I believe some young women specifically become nannies for this purpose. They would probably prefer a single dad, like on The Nanny. But a attractive rich one willing to leave his wife would be an acceptable alternative

You're confusing your Lifetime movies and porn with real life again.

Except it happens a lot. See the above celebrity examples. If famous rich people who know their name will be on the headlines do this, you know there are a lot of run of the mill UMC dads doing it too.

Of the hundreds of celebrities, 3 couples do not qualify as a lot. Having been a nanny and knnwn many nannies most are not looking to bang your husband. Again reality vs porn, movies, and tabloids.

But it makes for such great drama!!!

It's more than that it feeds into misogynistic rape culture attitudes of women being sluts, who are responsible for everything and men who can't be expected to control themselves.

Oh, horsesh*t. Women enjoy sex as well. That's how we ended up with 7 billion people on this planet. Plenty seek out the D. Plenty, plenty, plenty.

Save your gasligting bullshit for someone else.Where did I say women don't enjoy sex? This thread has nothing to do with whether or not women enjoy sex, but I guess you'll pull anything out of your ass to avoid holding men accountable and calling out women who engage in misogyny. They don't enjoy being sexually harassed by their employers. They don't enjoy being fired from or missing out on job opportunities because they are too pretty. It's misogynistic and part of rape culture to fire your nanny because she's too pretty and might sleep with your husband, it's that same toxic mindset that says don't hire the pretty nanny, your DH might cheat, same toxicity that says you have to babysit your DH because he can't be expected to have self control and young attractive women are temptresses. Same mindset that says it's okay to create an uncomfortable situation for a wife and nanny because guys need to have guy talk.

[Anonymous]

DH here and when we had a nanny and the electrician was coming, I made sure to be home. It's not the nanny's job to deal with service people, and then she'd be stuck dealing with any questions he had instead of focusing 100% on our kids.

[Anonymous]

I would have found this mildly amusing before my friend’s 40 something year old husband ran off with the 20 something year old nanny to Croatia. He is an artist/photographer so he could work anywhere. We were all stunned. He spent more than 3 years away and then came back “because of the kids” though he no longer wanted my friend. She let him stay in the house “for the kids”. He’s still there years later.
I know another guy who married his young nanny but his wife passed away after a long battle with breast cancer though we suspect the affair had started before his wife died because of the speed with which they subsequently married.
While many 20 somethings may think they would never want to date a much older guy, money and position can cast a rose colored hue on things.

[Anonymous]

I would have found this mildly amusing before my friend’s 40 something year old husband ran off with the 20 something year old nanny to Croatia. He is an artist/photographer so he could work anywhere. We were all stunned. He spent more than 3 years away and then came back “because of the kids” though he no longer wanted my friend. She let him stay in the house “for the kids”. He’s still there years later.
I know another guy who married his young nanny but his wife passed away after a long battle with breast cancer though we suspect the affair had started before his wife died because of the speed with which they subsequently married.
While many 20 somethings may think they would never want to date a much older guy, money and position can cast a rose colored hue on things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was once the “hot nanny”... trust me, I had zero interest in the husbands I worked for. Zero. Maybe some of them ogled or had an interest in me but I would never have done anything with them and I doubt any of them would’ve jeopardized their families for a fling with the nanny. I did have one couple try to set me up with their cousin, that was awkward....

it's not about the nanny. It's about her husband.

[Anonymous]

It has never occurred to me to think of DH and the nannies in that way. One or both of us are often home while she is home.

I think it's really weird that people have regimented schedules in order to not have DH and nanny home alone with a bunch of bedrooms nearby. I think you need to work on your marriages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH here and when we had a nanny and the electrician was coming, I made sure to be home. It's not the nanny's job to deal with service people, and then she'd be stuck dealing with any questions he had instead of focusing 100% on our kids.

Nice save! JK