Missing woman search in Shenandoah

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Anonymous wrote:They found her body

Oh my God! I just got back from hiking when I heard about this Saturday. Then I saw how she was bullied on
that forum and the whole thing is so upsetting. God bless her.

Wait - I heard there was gossip about her and other females working for the FD.

But are you saying she was bullied on FU while she was still alive? If so that's horrible!

In December on FU. It is horrible. I really feel for her.

What is FU ?

Fairfax Underground - a message board that has a lot of negative people on it.

[Anonymous]

The people on Fairfax Underground are in some way morally culpable for this. No one should endure public shaming and undoubtedly workplace harassment for their personal life. Shame on EVERY SINGLE PERSON who contributed to those threads about her and other female personnel. Yes, you are partially to blame.

Jeff, I sometimes wonder why you so heavily moderate certain threads but now I appreciate it. DCUM is not the low cesspool that FU is, and that's something to be grateful for. So thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:seems rather quick to call it a confirmed suicide when the body was found hours ago. I have to admit some suspicion about this knowing that her estranged husband is a cop, and cops have easy access to evidence and influence over their peers.

I watched him on the news pleading for her to be found. He looked like he was crying, but there were no tears. I have seen people with personality disorders do this. And the fact that they were estranged. Very suspicious.

Omg just stop. Being estranged doesn't mean you don't love someone or that you are guilty of murder.

No, but the crying without tears, if pp was correct, is a time-honored tradition by spouses with something to feel guilty about. That's not to say he had anything to do with her death, but he might be feeling guilty about the estrangement, relief that his allegedly cheating wife is gone. Or worse.

Crying without tears is a time honored tradition practiced by guilty spouses? Huh?

Seriously. What is your source for this practice.... General Hospital? Greys Anatomy?

Spouses are always interviewed. Have you seriously not noticed the number of people who are later found to be murderers who cry but produce no tears? As I said - he may just have conflicted feelings. But please, keep implying I watch crap TV and think it represents real life.

I agree with this poster. The have been a lot of these distraught husbands who later turn out to be perpetrators. Often, as in this case, their media interviews don't quite ring true.

[Anonymous]

Fairfax Underground - Where angry white men meet.

[Anonymous]

Many of you are implicating the spouse of this poor woman with no proof.
What you are essentially doing is the same thing that many of you are outraged about - the nasty comments about this woman on FU that you are calling bullying.
So, you are using social media to condemn the spouse just as social media was used to harass the woman.

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Good lord people, it was a tragic suicide and that is that. There is plenty of digital and physical evidence supporting it. There is no evidence at all of foul play (logistically how would that have even happened? Would have involved at least 2 people unless the killer walked home from Shenandoah). Her husband was not involved. Reading into how he "acted" to fit how you apparently wanted the case to turn out does no one any good at all. This is not a TV procedural.

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord people, it was a tragic suicide and that is that. There is plenty of digital and physical evidence supporting it. There is no evidence at all of foul play (logistically how would that have even happened? Would have involved at least 2 people unless the killer walked home from Shenandoah). Her husband was not involved. Reading into how he "acted" to fit how you apparently wanted the case to turn out does no one any good at all. This is not a TV procedural.

+1. Some PPs here have watched a little too much CSI and apparently consider themselves detectives.

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Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

+1 to both of you.

Fairfax Underground needs to be shut down. It is just absolute nonsense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm perhaps blissfully ignorant about Fairfax Underground, but do they regularly discuss ordinary people's social lives and name them? That's kinda horrifying if true.

Dcum has been forever contaminated by the base, knuckle draggers that populate FU.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm perhaps blissfully ignorant about Fairfax Underground, but do they regularly discuss ordinary people's social lives and name them? That's kinda horrifying if true.

Dcum has been forever contaminated by the base, knuckle draggers that populate FU.

One thing that doesn't sit well with me is the news anchor who supposedly posts there. I'm not sure if she/he are actually posting or if someone is posting stuff as the anchor but ethically that is just gross. I think further up in this thread it was mentioned an anchor posted a baby registry. What legit journalist would do that at least posting as themselves?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

+1 to both of you.

+2. It's disgusting. Those people are disgusting and should be ashamed of themselves. Cyber bullies are the worst sort of cowards.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They found her body

Oh my God! I just got back from hiking when I heard about this Saturday. Then I saw how she was bullied on
that forum and the whole thing is so upsetting. God bless her.

Wait - I heard there was gossip about her and other females working for the FD.

But are you saying she was bullied on FU while she was still alive? If so that's horrible!

In December on FU. It is horrible. I really feel for her.

What is FU ?

Fairfax Underground - a message board that has a lot of negative people on it.

-and needs to be shut down.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

+1 to both of you.

Fairfax Underground needs to be shut down. It is just absolute nonsense.

I would think that if her coworkers were bullying and shaming Nicole to the point where this nastiness spilled onto Fairfax Underground, that things must have been pretty terrible between Nicole and the men bragging about their antics with her - to the point where the gossiping about it had gone viral. But we don't even know who was trash talking about her. I don't know that any of it is even true.

I just feel so bad for her family. This is so sad. Nicole had so much going for her...such a waste.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:They found her body

Oh my God! I just got back from hiking when I heard about this Saturday. Then I saw how she was bullied on
that forum and the whole thing is so upsetting. God bless her.

Wait - I heard there was gossip about her and other females working for the FD.

But are you saying she was bullied on FU while she was still alive? If so that's horrible!

In December on FU. It is horrible. I really feel for her.

What is FU ?

Fairfax Underground, an online forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

+1 to both of you.

I agree. Send it to some local news stations, too.