Missing woman search in Shenandoah

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Anonymous wrote:seems rather quick to call it a confirmed suicide when the body was found hours ago. I have to admit some suspicion about this knowing that her estranged husband is a cop, and cops have easy access to evidence and influence over their peers.

I watched him on the news pleading for her to be found. He looked like he was crying, but there were no tears. I have seen people with personality disorders do this. And the fact that they were estranged. Very suspicious.

Omg just stop. Being estranged doesn't mean you don't love someone or that you are guilty of murder.

No, but the crying without tears, if pp was correct, is a time-honored tradition by spouses with something to feel guilty about. That's not to say he had anything to do with her death, but he might be feeling guilty about the estrangement, relief that his allegedly cheating wife is gone. Or worse.

Crying without tears is a time honored tradition practiced by guilty spouses? Huh?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:seems rather quick to call it a confirmed suicide when the body was found hours ago. I have to admit some suspicion about this knowing that her estranged husband is a cop, and cops have easy access to evidence and influence over their peers.

I watched him on the news pleading for her to be found. He looked like he was crying, but there were no tears. I have seen people with personality disorders do this. And the fact that they were estranged. Very suspicious.

Omg just stop. Being estranged doesn't mean you don't love someone or that you are guilty of murder.

No, but the crying without tears, if pp was correct, is a time-honored tradition by spouses with something to feel guilty about. That's not to say he had anything to do with her death, but he might be feeling guilty about the estrangement, relief that his allegedly cheating wife is gone. Or worse.

Crying without tears is a time honored tradition practiced by guilty spouses? Huh?

Seriously. What is your source for this practice.... General Hospital? Greys Anatomy?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:seems rather quick to call it a confirmed suicide when the body was found hours ago. I have to admit some suspicion about this knowing that her estranged husband is a cop, and cops have easy access to evidence and influence over their peers.

I watched him on the news pleading for her to be found. He looked like he was crying, but there were no tears. I have seen people with personality disorders do this. And the fact that they were estranged. Very suspicious.

I did notice that too, but the clip was short and he had a hat on

[Anonymous]

If people are going to post a specific source is stating information, provide the link please:

http://wjla.com/news/local/womans-body-found-in-shenandoah-national-park-during-search-for-missing-firefighter

Police say in addition to finding Nicole's body, they also found a suicide note in her vehicle. Police do not believe her death is suspicious, and have also ruled out foul play.

Prior to police announcing it was Nicole, her family took to their personal website and said, "Nicole has been found. Our hearts are broken. We thank you for your support and ask that you keep our family in your prayers in the challenging days ahead."

[Anonymous]

She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

[Anonymous]

Very sad.

When someone who was the victim of online bullying commits suicide, I cannot believe there aren't people out there-- the bullies-- who know themselves to be in some way culpable, even if there is and never will be a murder investigation.

Thank you to our moderator Jeff for vigilantly ensuring this site does not degrade to the kind of nasty garbage that is on the site that trashed this young woman and others.

No, suicide is never the answer, and no, I should not speculate as to why someone might commit suicide, but with the speculation on this particular thread about murder, I think it's worth remembering that there are ways one can slowly whittle away at the soul of another human being without ever laying a hand on them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She took her own life people, super sad but it's as simple as that. Just because he husband is in law enforcement doesn't mean he did it. Just because he cried without tears doesn't mean he's guilty, people need to stop with the conspiracy theories, because now terrible things are being alleged against the husband.

What people should be focusing on is exposing the terrible online bullies who posted horrific things about the woman on Fairfax Underground. Slut shaming type language was written about her supposedly by other coworkers/fire fighters. What I read was written this winter, with very specific details of her personal and work lives. She had to know about it. Adults, writing this kind of stuff about a coworker, another adult. Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being. And look what has happened. I don't think it is a far stretch to allude it may have contributed to whatever internal struggles or depression she was experiencing. It is no different than the stories you read about middle schoolers online bullying a classmate who then kills her/himself, except these are adults. So sad.

Print out what you read and write a letter to her station leader about how shameful it is. You should say exactly what you said here but directly to them. There's no doubt that the online bullying contributed to this suicide.

+1 to both of you.

[Anonymous]

Firefighters, who I hold in very high regard, who my children call real life superheroes, writing nasty, hateful things about another human being.

Police and firefighters are the dregs of society. They are not superheroes. Your mistake is believing it and making your children believe a lie.

The only heroes your kids should believe in are you and their father.

The fire chief not only knows about the postings, he didn't give a damn. If you think for 1 minute they liked having a woman in their cave, you are deaf dumb and blind.

[Anonymous]

I think Nicole chose to commit suicide where she did precisely because she did not want a family member (including her husband) or a good friend finding her body. I am so sorry that this has turned out this way. RIP Nicole. Prayers to her family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Either a predator saw her alone and victimized her, and dumped her car, or the husband did it. And I have nothing against that guy, but statistically, if a married woman is missing or harmed it's usually the husband.

I saw his anguished news conference. It was very off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Either a predator saw her alone and victimized her, and dumped her car, or the husband did it. And I have nothing against that guy, but statistically, if a married woman is missing or harmed it's usually the husband.

I saw his anguished news conference. It was very off.

He was wearing a fire fighter hat, even though he is a police office. He probably believed firefighter is a more sympathetic character.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:seems rather quick to call it a confirmed suicide when the body was found hours ago. I have to admit some suspicion about this knowing that her estranged husband is a cop, and cops have easy access to evidence and influence over their peers.

I watched him on the news pleading for her to be found. He looked like he was crying, but there were no tears. I have seen people with personality disorders do this. And the fact that they were estranged. Very suspicious.

Omg just stop. Being estranged doesn't mean you don't love someone or that you are guilty of murder.

No, but the crying without tears, if pp was correct, is a time-honored tradition by spouses with something to feel guilty about. That's not to say he had anything to do with her death, but he might be feeling guilty about the estrangement, relief that his allegedly cheating wife is gone. Or worse.

Crying without tears is a time honored tradition practiced by guilty spouses? Huh?

Seriously. What is your source for this practice.... General Hospital? Greys Anatomy?

Spouses are always interviewed. Have you seriously not noticed the number of people who are later found to be murderers who cry but produce no tears? As I said - he may just have conflicted feelings. But please, keep implying I watch crap TV and think it represents real life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They found her body

Oh my God! I just got back from hiking when I heard about this Saturday. Then I saw how she was bullied on
that forum and the whole thing is so upsetting. God bless her.

Wait - I heard there was gossip about her and other females working for the FD.

But are you saying she was bullied on FU while she was still alive? If so that's horrible!

In December on FU. It is horrible. I really feel for her.

What is FU ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Very sad.

When someone who was the victim of online bullying commits suicide, I cannot believe there aren't people out there-- the bullies-- who know themselves to be in some way culpable, even if there is and never will be a murder investigation.

Thank you to our moderator Jeff for vigilantly ensuring this site does not degrade to the kind of nasty garbage that is on the site that trashed this young woman and others.

No, suicide is never the answer, and no, I should not speculate as to why someone might commit suicide, but with the speculation on this particular thread about murder, I think it's worth remembering that there are ways one can slowly whittle away at the soul of another human being without ever laying a hand on them.

Where is the proof (I don't buy 99% of what is posted on Fairfax Underground) that she was bullied?