Is "sugar" a thing in DMV upper class?

[Anonymous]

Why do people in relatively important jobs risk the blackmail?

[Anonymous]

My friend was one when I was in college. I went on a “double date” with her guy and his friend once and had to sneak out of the restaurant midway through dinner. She was pissed at me but it turns out I just don’t have the stomach for being a sex worker.

I guess I see how the arrangement could work well for everyone; wife is totally over her DH but doesn’t want the drama and financial fallout of a divorce, husband wants no strings sex with someone that feels familiar. But I do think older men paying you for sex does often impact the sex workers. My friend definitely struggled hard with this once she stopped and went through a dark period. But if you can totally disconnect and make a lot of $$$ then it could work

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people in relatively important jobs risk the blackmail?

Can you even blackmail someone with this? Who would care?

[Anonymous]

I think it goes on a gif amount. Probably more than I care to think. When I was younger, an old acquaintance who had attained a high income tracked me down and offered to be my sugar daddy. He wanted me to relocate to the NYC metro, get me an apartment, and spending money. He said his circle of friends so had this kind of arrangement. I was shocked and shaken up. A close friend of mine told me that he was reasonably attractive and I should do it. She hooked up with older men on Craigslist for expensive dinners and sex. She especially liked married men.

At the hair salon I go to there’s always this ostentatious floral arrangement by the washing stations. It’s from the shampoo lady’s boyfriend. He sends a new one every week. And once a week she drives 4 hours to spend her days off with him. She is very cagey about it. It’s definitely not a fiancé or a temporary separation for work reasons. It’s got to be a sugaring arrangement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it goes on a gif amount. Probably more than I care to think. When I was younger, an old acquaintance who had attained a high income tracked me down and offered to be my sugar daddy. He wanted me to relocate to the NYC metro, get me an apartment, and spending money. He said his circle of friends so had this kind of arrangement. I was shocked and shaken up. A close friend of mine told me that he was reasonably attractive and I should do it. She hooked up with older men on Craigslist for expensive dinners and sex. She especially liked married men.

At the hair salon I go to there’s always this ostentatious floral arrangement by the washing stations. It’s from the shampoo lady’s boyfriend. He sends a new one every week. And once a week she drives 4 hours to spend her days off with him. She is very cagey about it. It’s definitely not a fiancé or a temporary separation for work reasons. It’s got to be a sugaring arrangement.

Re: the second paragraph, you might be making too big a judgement call there, if it's based just on the details you list. Other than her being "very cagey about it," ...it's a leap from big floral arrangements and a sort of long-distance relationship all the way to "it's got to be a sugaring arrangement." And being cagey, especially in front of business clients in your workplace, could simply mean she wants privacy and not salon gossip. I'm not saying you're a gossip, PP! Especially if you don't discuss your sugar suspicions with others at the salon. Just noting that you could have a wrong impression, based on your own past experience you describe.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, you got me to click. I did because I was cooking this morning and ended up with an extra spoonful of granulated sugar that I didn't want to put back into the bin, because it might have a tiny bit of flour in it. I just popped that heaping teaspoon into my mouth. Wow. So delicious. Such a fun childhood memory.

I absolutely recommend it if you haven't done it for a while.

As to your topic; I have never known anyone involved in such an arrangement. No one I associate with has the money to do it. I assume it is a rich person/TV thing.

I thought it was a spin off on the fruit has too much sugar and the fiber disappears when you blend it thread.

Me too. And the carbs in vaccine thread.

Can someone please link me to these, because this sounds amazing

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Anonymous wrote:I think it goes on a gif amount. Probably more than I care to think. When I was younger, an old acquaintance who had attained a high income tracked me down and offered to be my sugar daddy. He wanted me to relocate to the NYC metro, get me an apartment, and spending money. He said his circle of friends so had this kind of arrangement. I was shocked and shaken up. A close friend of mine told me that he was reasonably attractive and I should do it. She hooked up with older men on Craigslist for expensive dinners and sex. She especially liked married men.

At the hair salon I go to there’s always this ostentatious floral arrangement by the washing stations. It’s from the shampoo lady’s boyfriend. He sends a new one every week. And once a week she drives 4 hours to spend her days off with him. She is very cagey about it. It’s definitely not a fiancé or a temporary separation for work reasons. It’s got to be a sugaring arrangement.

She's prostituting and still has to wash hair? And is driving 4 hours for this?Poor thing.

[Anonymous]

I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it goes on a gif amount. Probably more than I care to think. When I was younger, an old acquaintance who had attained a high income tracked me down and offered to be my sugar daddy. He wanted me to relocate to the NYC metro, get me an apartment, and spending money. He said his circle of friends so had this kind of arrangement. I was shocked and shaken up. A close friend of mine told me that he was reasonably attractive and I should do it. She hooked up with older men on Craigslist for expensive dinners and sex. She especially liked married men.

At the hair salon I go to there’s always this ostentatious floral arrangement by the washing stations. It’s from the shampoo lady’s boyfriend. He sends a new one every week. And once a week she drives 4 hours to spend her days off with him. She is very cagey about it. It’s definitely not a fiancé or a temporary separation for work reasons. It’s got to be a sugaring arrangement.

She's prostituting and still has to wash hair? And is driving 4 hours for this?Poor thing.

That PP likely is projecting her own experience at being asked to be a sugar baby onto this other woman. The PP described being approached by a man who wanted her, and PP turned him down (good for her). But nothing she describes re her salon hair washer says "sugaring" to me.

[Anonymous]

Not for me, I’m in my soft guy era. I won’t date broke ladies. Done with broke dusty women.

If you’re not putting up some cash you can’t date me. It’s 2024, women are strong and independent. You have the equal rights you want, you are getting that bread just like me.

You want them cheeks to clap, hit me on cash app…if you’re not sending me some money for an Uber or for child care I’m not gonna respond.

Suger daddies are so 2010…it’s 2024 and we in the soft guy era. I make really good money, if you’re bringing nothing to the table I’m out

Drizzle drizzle

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

But why not just date them? I went on dates with older men sometimes when I was young and hot, just for fun. And I guess they paid for dinner usually. And I guess I had to be attracted to them. But if you’re a successful, single guy that’s usually attractive enough. This is DC, people like hearing about cool jobs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

But why not just date them? I went on dates with older men sometimes when I was young and hot, just for fun. And I guess they paid for dinner usually. And I guess I had to be attracted to them. But if you’re a successful, single guy that’s usually attractive enough. This is DC, people like hearing about cool jobs.

Because I don’t know any women like this in person so I was forced to use dating apps. It’s not easy to find an attractive woman on those, even if you’re successful and single. I’m a normal looking guy, 5/10. Attractive women will not swipe right on me on Tinder or Hinge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

But why not just date them? I went on dates with older men sometimes when I was young and hot, just for fun. And I guess they paid for dinner usually. And I guess I had to be attracted to them. But if you’re a successful, single guy that’s usually attractive enough. This is DC, people like hearing about cool jobs.

Because I don’t know any women like this in person so I was forced to use dating apps. It’s not easy to find an attractive woman on those, even if you’re successful and single. I’m a normal looking guy, 5/10. Attractive women will not swipe right on me on Tinder or Hinge.

screw the apps. Live an awesome lifestyle and ker Instagram be your dating app. Works for my friends and some are 5’s. But they’re posting all this cool stuff they do because they have money and they get women in their DMs all the time - some of them married. It shows them - and me - at least two things:

If you making that bag women don’t care about looks. I mean these dudes aren’t fat they’re in shape, just looks like their face was hit with a cannonball if they’re only 5’7

Marriage is a farce apparently if they are getting married women in their DMs looking to go in these trips with them. Made them realize marriage is not worth it

Drop the apps, there’s a lawsuit with all if then anyways showing the algorithm is intentionally mismatching people. They’re a waste of money to top it off, and most women you match with are recreational use only.

Get in good shape, make money, do cool stuff and get involved in some cool sports and coed activities. Use your instagram to highlight your best qualities and have fun.

Also stay away from the following for relationships:
Nurses
Radiologists
Dental hygienist
…anyone who ears scrubs to work honestly. If they wear scrubs and Apple Watch and some running shoes to work they aren’t wifey material
Cops
First responders
SAHMs
Married women


Happy hunting my brother

[Anonymous]

If you are an average looking 50 year old guy with big money, it's the easiest way to "date" a 30 year old 9.


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Anonymous wrote:I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

But why not just date them? I went on dates with older men sometimes when I was young and hot, just for fun. And I guess they paid for dinner usually. And I guess I had to be attracted to them. But if you’re a successful, single guy that’s usually attractive enough. This is DC, people like hearing about cool jobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are an average looking 50 year old guy with big money, it's the easiest way to "date" a 30 year old 9.


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Anonymous wrote:I was a SD once when I was single - fun. Probably won’t do it again though given the cost and risks. I’m wealthy enough to technically afford it but it’s still a lot of money. If I was so wealthy that it’s like buying coffee then maybe I’d do it again.

The appeal for me was being able to get the experience of dating women out of my league who seem like “normal” chicks. Most SB’s are a different breed from the professionals and are simply above average looking girls with regular lives.

But why not just date them? I went on dates with older men sometimes when I was young and hot, just for fun. And I guess they paid for dinner usually. And I guess I had to be attracted to them. But if you’re a successful, single guy that’s usually attractive enough. This is DC, people like hearing about cool jobs.

He’s probably really ugly if he calls himself “good looking”. Women who are attractive usually come from higher socio-economic background, and already have means to maintain themselves. When I was 30 and good looking with own money I only dated attractive older men, and not older than 15 years from my own age