What is the earliest age you would buy condoms for your son?

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Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I can believe it. It's all part of the competitive parenting mental illness. It starts in elementary with people comparing notes about number of playdates and bday party invites, then by upper elementary it's how many different friend groups you have inside and outside of school, whether your kid is in the popular group, and by middle school it's a competition to see whose kids are having s3x first. Lots of wierd poorly socialized parents are caught up in seeing whose kid is the most social butterfly. It's also the same people who give their kids a phone in elementary and find themselves in mom group drama. You know the type.

Wow. Way to make teenage hormones all about you.

If a 13 year old boy has the opportunity to have sex -- or anything that looks or feels like sex -- he will. Full stop.

If a girl thinks her relationship with a boy depends on her having sex -- or anything that looks or feels like sex -- she very well may do it.

If they do it, there is the possibility of pregnancy.

And it will happen on a dime. In the basement, watching TV, at 3 in the afternoon, with family members upstairs. Ask me how I know.

P.S. It doesn't take long for a 13 year old to impregnate someone. It can happen in a commercial break.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I appreciate this-not because I agree- but it gives perspective for real life. I have seen some 9th graders who were sexually active and their parents were told and they steadfastly refused to make sure their kids were protected. They, like you guys, thought they could control their kids activities.

I don’t approve of sex that early but having seen some of this play out, I definitely support parents making sure their kids are protected, rather than simply thinking they can control this behavior.

Exactly! That’s why I make sure to keep our bathrooms stocked with clean needles ever since I discovered my teenage son’s heroin addiction. These parents who think they can or should try to control their kids’ behavior are living in Fantasy land.

[Anonymous]

My 15 year old nephew impregnated his 16 year old girlfriend. She is due this month. I recommend buying the condoms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I appreciate this-not because I agree- but it gives perspective for real life. I have seen some 9th graders who were sexually active and their parents were told and they steadfastly refused to make sure their kids were protected. They, like you guys, thought they could control their kids activities.

I don’t approve of sex that early but having seen some of this play out, I definitely support parents making sure their kids are protected, rather than simply thinking they can control this behavior.

Exactly! That’s why I make sure to keep our bathrooms stocked with clean needles ever since I discovered my teenage son’s heroin addiction. These parents who think they can or should try to control their kids’ behavior are living in Fantasy land.

How do you think you can stop your teen who is already having sex from having more sex?

[Anonymous]

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Forgive the typos. Hate to see another pair of young kids train wreck their lives because boomers still believe condoms work.

firstly, f off.

secondly, i doubt many boomers have 15 year olds, dumbass. youngest boomers are 59/60.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I appreciate this-not because I agree- but it gives perspective for real life. I have seen some 9th graders who were sexually active and their parents were told and they steadfastly refused to make sure their kids were protected. They, like you guys, thought they could control their kids activities.

I don’t approve of sex that early but having seen some of this play out, I definitely support parents making sure their kids are protected, rather than simply thinking they can control this behavior.

Exactly! That’s why I make sure to keep our bathrooms stocked with clean needles ever since I discovered my teenage son’s heroin addiction. These parents who think they can or should try to control their kids’ behavior are living in Fantasy land.

How do you think you can stop your teen who is already having sex from having more sex?

Taking away all freedom, obviously. These kids can’t even drive yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old nephew impregnated his 16 year old girlfriend. She is due this month. I recommend buying the condoms.

And I recommend being an active, present, and engaged parent to prevent your 15 year old from having sex in the first place.

This thread is truly shocking. Who would have known that an area filled with Type-A control freaks would be such defeatists when it comes to raising their own kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DS has been dating a girl for almost a year. I know they are considering it. I have been advising against it happening yet, and I have been thwarting opportunity, but I am a realist.

Not to be gross, but how would you know which size to get?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I appreciate this-not because I agree- but it gives perspective for real life. I have seen some 9th graders who were sexually active and their parents were told and they steadfastly refused to make sure their kids were protected. They, like you guys, thought they could control their kids activities.

I don’t approve of sex that early but having seen some of this play out, I definitely support parents making sure their kids are protected, rather than simply thinking they can control this behavior.

Exactly! That’s why I make sure to keep our bathrooms stocked with clean needles ever since I discovered my teenage son’s heroin addiction. These parents who think they can or should try to control their kids’ behavior are living in Fantasy land.

If you’re not a troll, you need to send your son to rehab.

[Anonymous]

Wow. 14 and 15 year olds should not be having sex. End of story.

All the so-called smart parents leaving open boxes of condoms around next to to the "zit cream" are sick in the head. You have failed as parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pediatrician recommended it the minute I found condoms in my son’s closet. He was 14. I would say if you have any signs like that, or if your son is in a relationship, then it doesn’t really matter what the age is. Make it as safe as possible.

If I found condoms in my 14 year old sons closet he’d be on lockdown for the foreseeable future. Not receiving sexual care packages.

I agree. Cannot believe parents are fine with 13-15 yr olds having sex.

I appreciate this-not because I agree- but it gives perspective for real life. I have seen some 9th graders who were sexually active and their parents were told and they steadfastly refused to make sure their kids were protected. They, like you guys, thought they could control their kids activities.

I don’t approve of sex that early but having seen some of this play out, I definitely support parents making sure their kids are protected, rather than simply thinking they can control this behavior.

Exactly! That’s why I make sure to keep our bathrooms stocked with clean needles ever since I discovered my teenage son’s heroin addiction. These parents who think they can or should try to control their kids’ behavior are living in Fantasy land.

If you’re not a troll, you need to send your son to rehab.

She was being sarcastic.

[Anonymous]

Probably 16. At 13-15, there would be no girlfriend. They wouldn’t have the opportunity to have sex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old nephew impregnated his 16 year old girlfriend. She is due this month. I recommend buying the condoms.

And I recommend being an active, present, and engaged parent to prevent your 15 year old from having sex in the first place.

This thread is truly shocking. Who would have known that an area filled with Type-A control freaks would be such defeatists when it comes to raising their own kids?

Because they think it's a flex that their kid is doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My 15 year old nephew impregnated his 16 year old girlfriend. She is due this month. I recommend buying the condoms.

And I recommend being an active, present, and engaged parent to prevent your 15 year old from having sex in the first place.

This thread is truly shocking. Who would have known that an area filled with Type-A control freaks would be such defeatists when it comes to raising their own kids?

I’m shocked that in 2024 to read about all the parents that put their heads in the sand and risk early parenthood or disease for their children.

[Anonymous]

Half of 13 yr old boys aren’t even a stage in puberty to be procreating.