Sleeping with someone for first time when you're over 50

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

You post these photos on dating sites?

Seems like something you would see on an escort site.

You are attractive, but are you mainly trying to attract sexual partners?

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Thirst trap special posed for random DCUM posters

Absolutely not - my BF and I have a custom of sending photos to each other, particular when traveling. So I have a large library of my sexy photos

These are your sexy photos?

Yes. Post yours so we can compare

Old dude alert! 🚨

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

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Remember hotornot.com?

My friends posted me and I actually had a decent score. When I was 19.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

I mean she wouldn’t be wrong…he can give her both but doesn’t mean he’s cheating

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

I mean she wouldn’t be wrong…he can give her both but doesn’t mean he’s cheating

Of course, anybody could give it to her. Just comes with having sex. But she is confused about…well a lot of things.

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We were both over 50 and fixed. He gave me herpes. He ghosted me after a year of dating, in hind sight I bet because he had an outbreak and couldn’t figure out how to avoid telling me.

Use the condoms.

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Anonymous wrote:We were both over 50 and fixed. He gave me herpes. He ghosted me after a year of dating, in hind sight I bet because he had an outbreak and couldn’t figure out how to avoid telling me.

Use the condoms.

I am sorry OP. If he didn't have outbreaks he still could have given it to you. Men for some reasons carry some really nasty STIs without showing symptoms. Women on the other hand tend be more symptomatic. Men can help by getting regularly tested and being honest.

Sex is important but it's also overated. When someone knowingly has an STD and they still can't choose to just not put others at risk it's baffling.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

That’s not what anybody said.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

That’s not what anybody said.

It’s actually exactly what she said. “You are just going around spreading UTIs and BV” was her exact comment to someone. She thinks it’s an STI and that the man is getting these from women and spreading it to others. So yeah-that is exactly what she said.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

That’s not what anybody said.

It’s actually exactly what she said. “You are just going around spreading UTIs and BV” was her exact comment to someone. She thinks it’s an STI and that the man is getting these from women and spreading it to others. So yeah-that is exactly what she said.

She already clarified what she meant by that. You just need to look in the chain you posted.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all.

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble.

STI not UTI.

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection.

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event.

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid.

Charming

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV.

That’s not what anybody said.

It’s actually exactly what she said. “You are just going around spreading UTIs and BV” was her exact comment to someone. She thinks it’s an STI and that the man is getting these from women and spreading it to others. So yeah-that is exactly what she said.

She already clarified what she meant by that. You just need to look in the chain you posted.

No, she didn’t. She stood her ground and refused to believe that they weren’t STI’s even with actual factual information. And you said “that’s not what anybody said” and actually it was so forgive me if I don’t think your reading comprehension is up to par.