+1000000 ABORTION IS MAJOR SURGERY. |
If abuse was suspected the school was obligated to report. If it wasn’t, 17 is not the age of consent and the girls parents would have needed to consent on the abortion. Keep in mind, at 5 months pregnant this was NOT a minor procedure. |
“IN NO CASE SHALL SCHOOL PERSONAL KEEP STUDENT PREGNANCY INFORMATION AWAY FROM PARENTS.” |
I'd be wondering how I had failed as a parent that my daughter felt she couldn't come to me. Not furious at the person who helped her. |
Perhaps the indoctrination institution convinced your child parents don’t really understand anything. It’s not that hard when schools are allowing kids to do nearly anything they want with zero consequences. |
Where are you quoting from? |
A 17 year old in VA can consent to sex with someone close to their age. It's not an automatic CPS call unless they report that the sex was with a parent or caregiver (including a teacher), or arranged by a parent or caregiver. If it was rape, but not a parent or caregiver, that's a police report, not a CPS call. But there is no evidence that either of those things does or doesn't apply. A 17 year old, without judicial involvement, can't consent to an abortion in VA. But the burden of getting and verifying that consent is probably on the abortion provider. |
WJLA link. Clearly the school needs to be held liable for what their employee did. |
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Please. Of course you'd be furious. Otherwise, how about you give us your daughter's information, and we'll handle her medical appointments. |
DP. CPS might not be the appropriate agency, but here is FCPS regulations on counseling pregnant students. As you can see, they make it crystal clear that in NO WAY should FCPS staff have any influence over a student's decision and in NO WAY should any of this be kept from the parents: III. GUIDELINES School counselors, school social workers, school psychologists, and other staff members shall be aware and follow the guidelines below regarding counseling pregnant students and distributing literature about pregnancy, birth control, venereal disease, and private and public agencies providing services for pregnant students. A. Every effort shall be made to encourage and support students suspecting pregnancy to discuss their concern with their parents or guardians. Offers may be made to meet jointly with the parents or guardians and the student at school. In no case shall personnel commit themselves to maintain such information confidentially, keeping it from parents, guardians, or appropriate school authorities. B. If a student requests counseling services or is considered to be in need of such services, school staff members should refer the student to the public health nurse or Fairfax County Department of Health and avoid influencing the student regarding the pregnancy. https://go.boarddocs.com/vsba/fairfax/Board.nsf/files/BE5NKY60460E/$file/R2504.pdf |
but they weren't. that's the point. |
That doesn't say what you think it says. It says that in no way should the staff commit to (promise) not telling the parents. That the possibility of telling parents should remain open. That isn't the same as saying they need to tell the parents. It also says that while they should offer to help the students tell parents, they can also refer to outside counseling through the Health Department. Referring the students to an organization that provides this counseling, as well as health services once the student has decided and the parental notification requirement has been met, may well have been appropriate. At this point we don't know. We don't know if the students requested an abortion, and then one changed their mind, or if the staff member pushed the idea. We don't know if the clinic was run by the Health Department. We don't know if the clinic failed to notified parents because they were lied to about student age or something similar, or if they made that mistake on their own. We don't know who paid. It's quite possible that the social worker or the principal crossed a line. It's quite possible that they broke the law. But the information we have is not clear. |
Leave your politics out of this! FCPS f’ed up big time. No politics needed. |
The school social worker and the principal should have NO involvement other than to turn it over to the Health Dept. This is not the school's job. If the girl wants help to tell her parents, I think that is okay. But, no trips to clinic. If the parents are involved, that is their job. If the parents are not involved, let the Health Department deal with it. One of the reports mentioned that an uncle was the legal guardian. There could be a large can of worms there, too. Even more reason that it should have been the Health Department and not the school. This child could have been an unaccompanied minor and perhaps even trafficked. This is far beyond work the school should be involved in doing. |