I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What does CV stand for in this forum? I think that is the abbreviation the OP used a few times as well as others.

SV are the initials of her boyfriend, who is missing. His first name is Steve.

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jsteele wrote:

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OP here: Jeff, please lock this thread. I can't deal with the posters calling me a troll or liar and I can't keep defending myself. I am not okay with what I just found out, at all and I really would like this thread locked.

I don't want to lock the thread yet as so many poster obviously still want to discuss the situation. Many are probably just getting caught up. But, please feel free to stop reading and posting. I'll try to keep control of those who are calling you names. The thread is long enough without those posts.

OP here: I'm fine with the "discussing" but for people to be sitting here and telling me I'm lying or lying and saying they called and there is no wellbeing check, etc. is honestly BS. I just found out that my boyfriend of SIX MONTHS who claimed he CARED ABOUT ME AND LOVED ME, just up and disappeared to PA. It's a lot to take in and I don't need the anonoymous assholes on here bringing me down more.

On the bright side - you didn't marry this jerk, you didn't have his baby and you are still very young with your whole life ahead of you. It sounds as though you dodged a bullet there. Be grateful that there was minimal damage.

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Anonymous wrote:He is a grown man. If he wants to leave town to start over again he is allowed to do that.

Are you forreal? And to just leave everybody in this world who actually cares about him wondering about his whereabouts? If he has the right to do it, we all have the right to criticize him for his selfish actions.

Yeah, it might be selfish of him. But he apparently did not feel that he owed the Op an explanation. Maybe in his mind they weren't as serious/committed as they were in the Op's mind. Maybe bobcat man didn't even realize that Op considered him to be her boyfriend. Maybe he thought that a clean break would be the best thing for them both.

He said he loved her and call himself her boyfriend. You are really reaching here.
It's fine for him to up and leave and it's also fine for those he gave the wrong info too to do a wellness check. So what's your point?

[Anonymous]

I am thinking Lifetime Movie. Ellen Page as OP. Zach Galifinackis as SV.

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OP, I haven't posted a single time in this thread - just want to say how sorry I am you're dealing with all this.

I hope that you can appreciate the help this forum has given you, and ignore the bad stuff. I think the moderator is going to start clamping down on the people who aren't contributing other than to harass you.

As others have said - for the most part, you seem to have your act together. You have a business, you work hard, you have friends. You have a bad relationship in your past, and another to get through. Treat yourself right and do some healing work on yourself so that you're ready for a good, local relationship.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What does CV stand for in this forum? I think that is the abbreviation the OP used a few times as well as others.

SV are the initials of her boyfriend, who is missing. His first name is Steve.

Thanks, must have missed that post or it was deleted.

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OP, please just ignore the people who are calling you fake or a troll. Just skip right over their posts, and don't respond. There are plenty here who do not doubt your story is true, and you don't need to prove anything further to those who are questioning the veracity of your posts.

I am sorry that the most recent info from the police has you worried for the safety of a person you cared about. I do hope that you'll learn that nothing bad has happened to him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
OP here: Jeff, please lock this thread. I can't deal with the posters calling me a troll or liar and I can't keep defending myself. I am not okay with what I just found out, at all and I really would like this thread locked.

I don't want to lock the thread yet as so many poster obviously still want to discuss the situation. Many are probably just getting caught up. But, please feel free to stop reading and posting. I'll try to keep control of those who are calling you names. The thread is long enough without those posts.

OP here: I'm fine with the "discussing" but for people to be sitting here and telling me I'm lying or lying and saying they called and there is no wellbeing check, etc. is honestly BS. I just found out that my boyfriend of SIX MONTHS who claimed he CARED ABOUT ME AND LOVED ME, just up and disappeared to PA. It's a lot to take in and I don't need the anonoymous assholes on here bringing me down more.

On the bright side - you didn't marry this jerk, you didn't have his baby and you are still very young with your whole life ahead of you. It sounds as though you dodged a bullet there. Be grateful that there was minimal damage.

Yes AND you can thank DCUM for it

[Anonymous]

Oh gosh, just went back and read the update. That doesn't sound good. Especially since he lied to his grandparents, too. Could be drugs, a mental break or trouble with the law.
So sorry, OP. Hope he's okay.

[Anonymous]

OP, I've totally been supporting you, but one little thing that is bugging me - I thought you did say you lived in VA for 3 years as a nanny and now you just told some poster who mentioned that that you never said that.

I swear you said that! I don't think I can go back and find the page though.

Don't want to derail the thread, just had it say it's bugging me.

I still hope you get some news that makes you feel better. I hope he's alright, but the fact that he has bi-polar and he's disappeared before is worrisome.

I think the person who mentioned the dog made a good point, though.

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Anonymous wrote:Wait. The trooper told you that they "have an alert out for him in NY and the area in PA where he said he was going", but you told the PA poster that he'd given his grandparents the name of a PA town that doesn't exist? If it doesn't exist, how can the trooper claim to have an alert for "the area in PA where he said he was going"? Does it exist, or doesn't it?

Exactly. OP knew that this thread had gone too far and some of us were realizing that some of the pieces simply didn't fit. There is absolutely no evidence that he exists.

AGAIN...CALL THE NUMBER I POSTED AND ASK ABOUT HIM THEN!!!!!!!! STFU WITH YOUR STUPID COMMENTS ABOUT HIM NOT EXISTING.

This is the woman who was a nanny for 3 years. Doesn't sound like someone I'd want in charge of my kids. Unbalanced to say the least.

OP here: I was not a nanny for 3 years in VA. I said I lived there 3 years ago. Please stop posting BS stuff.

You said: OP here: No, I don't live in a major metropolitan area. I live in Rhode Island, he's 4 hours away in NY.

& for those of you who are going to ask why I am on this site....I was living in Virginia 3 years ago for a live-in nanny job and that's how I knew about this website.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I've totally been supporting you, but one little thing that is bugging me - I thought you did say you lived in VA for 3 years as a nanny and now you just told some poster who mentioned that that you never said that.

I swear you said that! I don't think I can go back and find the page though.

Don't want to derail the thread, just had it say it's bugging me.

I still hope you get some news that makes you feel better. I hope he's alright, but the fact that he has bi-polar and he's disappeared before is worrisome.

I think the person who mentioned the dog made a good point, though.

She was responding to someone saying that she'd claimed to be a nanny for 3 years. Her clarification was that "3 years" referred to how long ago she lived in this area. Assume that she left sometime in 2011. She never said how long she'd worked as a nanny. Just was explaining how a woman who lives in RI knew of this forum.

[Anonymous]

Aw I just saw the story on the news about the bobcat catching a shark and thought of all of you...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I've totally been supporting you, but one little thing that is bugging me - I thought you did say you lived in VA for 3 years as a nanny and now you just told some poster who mentioned that that you never said that.

I swear you said that! I don't think I can go back and find the page though.

Don't want to derail the thread, just had it say it's bugging me.

I still hope you get some news that makes you feel better. I hope he's alright, but the fact that he has bi-polar and he's disappeared before is worrisome.

I think the person who mentioned the dog made a good point, though.

OP here: I said that I found this thread because 3 years AGO, I was living in Virginia as a live-in nanny for a year.

[Anonymous]

I think she's lying. Too many lies about uncles she did or didn't meet and nanny jobs she did or didn't have.

I'm going to try to move on.