I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:People, please THINK. There is no shred of evidence this man exists. NONE.

Ha. True enough. Bobcat man is an enigma alright.

iraq77 here

i found and address online during my search. the pic she posted is the pic i found of when i searched and found his facebook page.

the guy is a real person.plenty of other posters have found him too.

NP here (I swear!) This strikes me as weird. Why would the pic OP has on her own personal phone be the same one her BF has on his FB? If she's actually met and spent time with him IRL, she would have taken her own pic rather than saving the image he posted on FB.

iraq77 here
actually the pic she posted isnt what is on his facebook. he just has the same look i guess

[Anonymous]

Sorry the people are getting to you OP. I really hope he's ok and you at least get an update once they find him. If Jeff really does lock the thread, and you do hear back, I hope you'll post again separately to let us know.

[jsteele]

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OP here: Jeff, please lock this thread. I can't deal with the posters calling me a troll or liar and I can't keep defending myself. I am not okay with what I just found out, at all and I really would like this thread locked.

I don't want to lock the thread yet as so many poster obviously still want to discuss the situation. Many are probably just getting caught up. But, please feel free to stop reading and posting. I'll try to keep control of those who are calling you names. The thread is long enough without those posts.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Wait. The trooper told you that they "have an alert out for him in NY and the area in PA where he said he was going", but you told the PA poster that he'd given his grandparents the name of a PA town that doesn't exist? If it doesn't exist, how can the trooper claim to have an alert for "the area in PA where he said he was going"? Does it exist, or doesn't it?

Exactly. OP knew that this thread had gone too far and some of us were realizing that some of the pieces simply didn't fit. There is absolutely no evidence that he exists.

AGAIN...CALL THE NUMBER I POSTED AND ASK ABOUT HIM THEN!!!!!!!! STFU WITH YOUR STUPID COMMENTS ABOUT HIM NOT EXISTING.

This is the woman who was a nanny for 3 years. Doesn't sound like someone I'd want in charge of my kids. Unbalanced to say the least.

I think you have made your point. Given that you consider this thread to be fake, please move on to one that you believe to be legitimate and quit adding unnecessary posts to this one.

From a poster who is tired of reading heir bs, thank you Jeff!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am wondering if SV is bi-polar. I have seen this kind of activity from my father who is bi-polar. He would just decide it is time to move, sell the house, and move us cross country.

OP here: he is. He told me from the very beginning that he suffers with bi polar disorder since he was around 12.

Oh boy.

That rings a bell. Did you post about him recently, with questions regarding being in a relationship with someone who is bipolar? I faintly remember people telling you to cut him loose...

[Anonymous]

Hey - if he took his dog I think that's a good sign.

Seriously.

Someone who plans to kill themselves leaves their dog where it will be cared for.

Maybe he's vanishing, maybe he's melting down, etc... but maintaining a connection with and responsibility for a living creature is a healthy thing.

[Anonymous]

Please don't lock it. OP ignore the haters!

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

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OP here: Jeff, please lock this thread. I can't deal with the posters calling me a troll or liar and I can't keep defending myself. I am not okay with what I just found out, at all and I really would like this thread locked.

I don't want to lock the thread yet as so many poster obviously still want to discuss the situation. Many are probably just getting caught up. But, please feel free to stop reading and posting. I'll try to keep control of those who are calling you names. The thread is long enough without those posts.

I love how Jeff is invested enough not to lock the thread. Thanks, Jeff!

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

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OP here: Jeff, please lock this thread. I can't deal with the posters calling me a troll or liar and I can't keep defending myself. I am not okay with what I just found out, at all and I really would like this thread locked.

I don't want to lock the thread yet as so many poster obviously still want to discuss the situation. Many are probably just getting caught up. But, please feel free to stop reading and posting. I'll try to keep control of those who are calling you names. The thread is long enough without those posts.

OP here: I'm fine with the "discussing" but for people to be sitting here and telling me I'm lying or lying and saying they called and there is no wellbeing check, etc. is honestly BS. I just found out that my boyfriend of SIX MONTHS who claimed he CARED ABOUT ME AND LOVED ME, just up and disappeared to PA. It's a lot to take in and I don't need the anonoymous assholes on here bringing me down more.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He is a grown man. If he wants to leave town to start over again he is allowed to do that.

Are you forreal? And to just leave everybody in this world who actually cares about him wondering about his whereabouts? If he has the right to do it, we all have the right to criticize him for his selfish actions.

Yeah, it might be selfish of him. But he apparently did not feel that he owed the Op an explanation. Maybe in his mind they weren't as serious/committed as they were in the Op's mind. Maybe bobcat man didn't even realize that Op considered him to be her boyfriend. Maybe he thought that a clean break would be the best thing for them both.

[Anonymous]

What does CV stand for in this forum? I think that is the abbreviation the OP used a few times as well as others.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, where in PA was he going? (I'm the one who posted yesterday about my childhood in Western PA, and the meth-head poachers who lived there).

OP here: No idea. Told his grandparents some town that doesn't even exisit.

This should tell you everything you need to know OP. He's not missing or hurt. He left and does not want to be found. By you or his grandparents.

You might never know the reason he split, but whatever it is it's probably a pretty sketchy reason.

So sorry OP.

Yeah, he probably owed someone some money so he took off. I am so sorry, OP. But I am glad you are not tied up in all this. I hope you find someone better and local next time. Hugs!!!!

[Anonymous]

Relax, OP. Ignore the haters. I can see how all of this recent news is quite upsetting. Regardless of whether he was lying to you and/or his grandparents, I am sure that you are very concerned for his safety. I think that many of us following the story are also concerned and hope that he is okay.

I am sure that most of us would love to find out that he is fine and was just lying to you all along (as opposed to him being dead or in some kind of danger).

I am sure it is frustrating to be called a liar, but there isn't much you can do about that. Just ignore those posts and focus on the supportive and helpful ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just searched Missing persons on the NY, Maine and PA state police websites - there is no entry yet in any of those states for the BF.

And you think it automatically updates online to the public? Since when did any gov agency move quickly?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Wait. The trooper told you that they "have an alert out for him in NY and the area in PA where he said he was going", but you told the PA poster that he'd given his grandparents the name of a PA town that doesn't exist? If it doesn't exist, how can the trooper claim to have an alert for "the area in PA where he said he was going"? Does it exist, or doesn't it?

OP here: The town he told his grandparents he was going, does not exist. Trooper told me they have an alert out for him and his truck in NY and PA.

No, you SAID: "They have an alert out for him in NY and the area in PA where he said he was going."

I grew up in PA. There are a lot of small towns and place names that are weird and could easily be confused in translation. Go ahead and tell me what the grandparents think your bf said about where he was going in PA, and maybe I can suggest a place that sounds similar, or even has a "nickname" by locals that could have added to the confusion. I'm happy to help.