Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip

I agree with the comment to tell the spouse of Friend A that the affair was happening and reply all to the group that this arrangement won’t work because you cannot condone adultery.

It is time to put our feet down and say, Enough.

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09/11/2018 12:38

Subject: Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip

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Anonymous

i can't make you bump me if you won't, i can't make your heart feel something that it won'tttttt

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09/11/2018 13:35

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Anonymous

This is when Anonymous posting on this site really sucks

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09/11/2018 13:43

Subject: Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd probably still go, because I wouldn't want to blow up the whole trip for everyone--the trip is too far along and too much money has been sunk into it. But I also would not make any effort to keep secrets or hide anything from A's spouse. If I would have otherwise talked about the trip to the spouse, I'm not going to bite my tongue. I'm not going to hide the fact that B is there. I'm not going to censor the pictures I post on FB. And I'm certainly not going to lie for A.

OP here:
I'm inclined to do this. It's the path of least resistance and probably the most likely course of action. I already know that one of the spouses attending the trip is going to flip the f#ck out when they see what's happening; they are very straight-laced and it's just their personality to directly inquire. They will be very upset to be put in such a situation by Friend A.

I know my spouse will want all the dirt and will basically require me to post on social media 24/7 while overseas. I won't hold back on tagging. It will be interesting to see if Friend A and Newbie B ask all of us to not put them on social media. The whole scenario is just so cavalier and bizarre.

Just now checking this thread out...on pins and needles!

This one comment by OP kind of stood out for me outside of the general plot lines. Posting this stuff on social media is pathetic, regardless if you disapprove of the act. Please don't be that person to do that - it's lowbrow and petty.

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09/11/2018 17:40

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Anonymous

If you do this, you are allowing husband to cheat.

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09/12/2018 09:37

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Anonymous