Kim Cattrall SJP feud

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Anonymous wrote:How on earth can anyone fault SJP in this when it’s Kim who wrote that horribly trashy IG post? Good grief, the woman has no class.

I'm still so upset to learn they aren't all best friends in real life! Don't they all hang out together in the city with their families?

Why? Are you BBF with your coworkers?

DOnt be so mean. I've already been crying over this

Your first post was mildly amusing, but the joke has run its course. Let it die.

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Wait, didn't she quit Big Law in one of the movies? Anyone remember? I thought she did and took a job with a non-profit, or something.

Yes, Miranda quit in SATC 2 and at the end "finds a new job at a more laid back and diverse law firm where she is appreciated."

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand Kim’s reaction. I don’t particularly like one of my co-workers and we are definitely not friends, but I still sent my condolences to him when his mom died not because I was trying to be a “nice girl” but because it was the right thing to do.

+1. I thought that's what most people would do if they had manners.

That’s different. It was a co-worker.

If somebody I hated or caused me harm/grief in the past and I wasn’t in friendly or speaking terms and never planned to be—seeing their condolences very soon after a loved one’s death when I knew it wasn’t sincere would cause me further pain. Not something to inflict on the grieving.

I totally disagree. I would be touched and consider it an olive branch, of sorts.

Are you always this naive?

NP. She must be.

This thread is a bunch of nasty, fake mean girls. SJP was live on BFF Andy Cohen’s show doing her gee gosh golly routine the day before Cattrall used social media to send an alert about her missing brother (that’s for the “posting on SM is sooooo tacky!!” crowd.). That’s also why it seems reasonable to me that Cattrall issued a statement about what happened to her brother, and thanks for some condolences. And it’s also why SJP is trash and wannabe slick for posting “Dearest Kim” when she was fresh out from acting out her feud with Cohen dressed, wig and all, as Cattrall, to AGAIN be the victim in their feud. That is so crass and manipulative as is trashing Cattrall. When you’ve públically and gleefully trashed someone on live TV 24 hours before they endure a tragedy, maybe leave them the hell alone? Performative tragedy vulturing is what shitty people do. Unsurprisingly it’s a popular option for think-they’re-classy SATC fans.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like the "private" note would've been weirder and forced given their obviously strained relationship and no doubt THAT would not have been well received either.

Isn't this basically equivalent to when an acquaintance posts about the loss of a loved one on social media and even if you are not close, had a falling out or haven't talk to that person in years, you take 10 seconds to respond and say "sorry for your loss" because even though you may not be close to them, you can still feel for anyone who is hurting and you do not wish them pain but then the receiver responds to said condolences by saying "Sorry, everyone else can say sorry but not YOU!" Whether you are a celebrity or not, it's weird.

that was what I was thinking.

I don't know, agree to disagree I guess. In this type of situation and relationship, particularly when there has been much public speculation about our strained relationship, private condolences would come across as far more sincere to me. This may just be a matter of different people perceive things differently.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand Kim’s reaction. I don’t particularly like one of my co-workers and we are definitely not friends, but I still sent my condolences to him when his mom died not because I was trying to be a “nice girl” but because it was the right thing to do.

+1. I thought that's what most people would do if they had manners.

That’s different. It was a co-worker.

If somebody I hated or caused me harm/grief in the past and I wasn’t in friendly or speaking terms and never planned to be—seeing their condolences very soon after a loved one’s death when I knew it wasn’t sincere would cause me further pain. Not something to inflict on the grieving.

I totally disagree. I would be touched and consider it an olive branch, of sorts.

Are you always this naive?

NP. She must be.

This thread is a bunch of nasty, fake mean girls. SJP was live on BFF Andy Cohen’s show doing her gee gosh golly routine the day before Cattrall used social media to send an alert about her missing brother (that’s for the “posting on SM is sooooo tacky!!” crowd.). That’s also why it seems reasonable to me that Cattrall issued a statement about what happened to her brother, and thanks for some condolences. And it’s also why SJP is trash and wannabe slick for posting “Dearest Kim” when she was fresh out from acting out her feud with Cohen dressed, wig and all, as Cattrall, to AGAIN be the victim in their feud. That is so crass and manipulative as is trashing Cattrall. When you’ve públically and gleefully trashed someone on live TV 24 hours before they endure a tragedy, maybe leave them the hell alone? Performative tragedy vulturing is what shitty people do. Unsurprisingly it’s a popular option for think-they’re-classy SATC fans.

I saw the WWHL and had a completely different take on it. I thought SJP handled it well, saying that was not how she recalled it, not that KC was wrong or a liar or whatever.

[Anonymous]

OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

Fascinating! Are there any particular outfits or pieces that you found that were used on the show? I'm so lame that I remember almost every outfit, and would love to give you a virtual high five for your work. That is so cool!

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Anonymous wrote:OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

Fascinating! Are there any particular outfits or pieces that you found that were used on the show? I'm so lame that I remember almost every outfit, and would love to give you a virtual high five for your work. That is so cool!

There were a few. I tailored Catrall's bathing suit in the rooftop party with drag queens for example. I did a lot of the tailoring for SJP because she was so small that 00's didn't fit her well.

I found the vintage nightgown she wore when she was shooting and hiding her pregnancy. It's was flowy and very chiffon.

I love working with Field, but the show was not a happy place. The days were extremely long, people were snappish and it was always faster, faster, faster. A girl can only sew something so quickly.

I left fashion and went to business school and having a boring DC area job now. But it was an interesting chapter. NY was in a weird spot at the time.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand Kim’s reaction. I don’t particularly like one of my co-workers and we are definitely not friends, but I still sent my condolences to him when his mom died not because I was trying to be a “nice girl” but because it was the right thing to do.

+1. I thought that's what most people would do if they had manners.

That’s different. It was a co-worker.

If somebody I hated or caused me harm/grief in the past and I wasn’t in friendly or speaking terms and never planned to be—seeing their condolences very soon after a loved one’s death when I knew it wasn’t sincere would cause me further pain. Not something to inflict on the grieving.

I totally disagree. I would be touched and consider it an olive branch, of sorts.

Are you always this naive?

NP. She must be.

This thread is a bunch of nasty, fake mean girls. SJP was live on BFF Andy Cohen’s show doing her gee gosh golly routine the day before Cattrall used social media to send an alert about her missing brother (that’s for the “posting on SM is sooooo tacky!!” crowd.). That’s also why it seems reasonable to me that Cattrall issued a statement about what happened to her brother, and thanks for some condolences. And it’s also why SJP is trash and wannabe slick for posting “Dearest Kim” when she was fresh out from acting out her feud with Cohen dressed, wig and all, as Cattrall, to AGAIN be the victim in their feud. That is so crass and manipulative as is trashing Cattrall. When you’ve públically and gleefully trashed someone on live TV 24 hours before they endure a tragedy, maybe leave them the hell alone? Performative tragedy vulturing is what shitty people do. Unsurprisingly it’s a popular option for think-they’re-classy SATC fans.

I saw the WWHL and had a completely different take on it. I thought SJP handled it well, saying that was not how she recalled it, not that KC was wrong or a liar or whatever.

SJW put on a wig to look like KC??????

[Anonymous]

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This thread is a bunch of nasty, fake mean girls. SJP was live on BFF Andy Cohen’s show doing her gee gosh golly routine the day before Cattrall used social media to send an alert about her missing brother (that’s for the “posting on SM is sooooo tacky!!” crowd.). That’s also why it seems reasonable to me that Cattrall issued a statement about what happened to her brother, and thanks for some condolences. And it’s also why SJP is trash and wannabe slick for posting “Dearest Kim” when she was fresh out from acting out her feud with Cohen dressed, wig and all, as Cattrall, to AGAIN be the victim in their feud. That is so crass and manipulative as is trashing Cattrall. When you’ve públically and gleefully trashed someone on live TV 24 hours before they endure a tragedy, maybe leave them the hell alone? Performative tragedy vulturing is what shitty people do. Unsurprisingly it’s a popular option for think-they’re-classy SATC fans.

I saw the WWHL and had a completely different take on it. I thought SJP handled it well, saying that was not how she recalled it, not that KC was wrong or a liar or whatever.

SJW put on a wig to look like KC??????

No.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

Fascinating! Are there any particular outfits or pieces that you found that were used on the show? I'm so lame that I remember almost every outfit, and would love to give you a virtual high five for your work. That is so cool!

There were a few. I tailored Catrall's bathing suit in the rooftop party with drag queens for example. I did a lot of the tailoring for SJP because she was so small that 00's didn't fit her well.

I found the vintage nightgown she wore when she was shooting and hiding her pregnancy. It's was flowy and very chiffon.

I love working with Field, but the show was not a happy place. The days were extremely long, people were snappish and it was always faster, faster, faster. A girl can only sew something so quickly.

I left fashion and went to business school and having a boring DC area job now. But it was an interesting chapter. NY was in a weird spot at the time.

It must have been hard to make clothes fit SJP's tiny, tiny frame and sizeable chest. She has a really unique physique in that regard.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

Fascinating! Are there any particular outfits or pieces that you found that were used on the show? I'm so lame that I remember almost every outfit, and would love to give you a virtual high five for your work. That is so cool!

There were a few. I tailored Catrall's bathing suit in the rooftop party with drag queens for example. I did a lot of the tailoring for SJP because she was so small that 00's didn't fit her well.

I found the vintage nightgown she wore when she was shooting and hiding her pregnancy. It's was flowy and very chiffon.

I love working with Field, but the show was not a happy place. The days were extremely long, people were snappish and it was always faster, faster, faster. A girl can only sew something so quickly.

I left fashion and went to business school and having a boring DC area job now. But it was an interesting chapter. NY was in a weird spot at the time.

This is so awesome. I remember the bathing suit well, and sort of remember the nightgown (and I'm not the PP who remembers every outfit). Your take lines up with what I'd expect. Kudos on having such an interesting job on your resume!

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Anonymous wrote:OooO! I actually have some straight up tea/boots on the ground, people.

After college, I worked for Pat Field as a wardrobe assistant on this show. I essentially was a seamstress and spent a ton of time shopping for vintage things that Pat would declare garbage until I eventually would stumble on a few workable pieces.

In terms of tailoring, first of all, the women all of them were tiny. I spent hours tailoring outfits on the principals (and others).

First, Kristin Davis is a sweetheart. She was always so, so nice. Second, Catrell was professional and quiet. She was appreciative of the time we took and was very respectful. Cynthia hated the amount of the it took to tailor things and eventually worked it out with Pat to avoid tailored outfits as much as possible (btw that's one reason her clothes were a mess). SJP...well, she was the boss. Everything was contingent on her approval and if she didn't like it, you were in trouble with Pat. If you were too slow, you got in trouble. If you were too chatty, too familiar, etc. She was not what I'd call nice, but she was very serious.

In terms of social dynamics, from what I saw SJP and Nixon were close. Davis was sort of friendly with everyone and Catrall and SJP/Nixon did not get along. At all.

This explains so much! Every now and then she'd look fantastic in an outfit, but it was usually more miss than hit.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand Kim’s reaction. I don’t particularly like one of my co-workers and we are definitely not friends, but I still sent my condolences to him when his mom died not because I was trying to be a “nice girl” but because it was the right thing to do.

+1. I thought that's what most people would do if they had manners.

That’s different. It was a co-worker.

If somebody I hated or caused me harm/grief in the past and I wasn’t in friendly or speaking terms and never planned to be—seeing their condolences very soon after a loved one’s death when I knew it wasn’t sincere would cause me further pain. Not something to inflict on the grieving.

I totally disagree. I would be touched and consider it an olive branch, of sorts.

Are you always this naive?

NP. She must be.

This thread is a bunch of nasty, fake mean girls. SJP was live on BFF Andy Cohen’s show doing her gee gosh golly routine the day before Cattrall used social media to send an alert about her missing brother (that’s for the “posting on SM is sooooo tacky!!” crowd.). That’s also why it seems reasonable to me that Cattrall issued a statement about what happened to her brother, and thanks for some condolences. And it’s also why SJP is trash and wannabe slick for posting “Dearest Kim” when she was fresh out from acting out her feud with Cohen dressed, wig and all, as Cattrall, to AGAIN be the victim in their feud. That is so crass and manipulative as is trashing Cattrall. When you’ve públically and gleefully trashed someone on live TV 24 hours before they endure a tragedy, maybe leave them the hell alone? Performative tragedy vulturing is what shitty people do. Unsurprisingly it’s a popular option for think-they’re-classy SATC fans.

What in the world are you talking about? When Andy Cohen mentioned Kim Cattrall not returning being the reason SATC 3 wasn't happened, SJP didn't respond to the comment at all. The scene they did wasn't something they made up to make fun of Cattrall, it was part of the script from a S5 episode (she was laughing at herself and the show as well). Third, when they later returned to talking about the movie again, they talked about other casting options (something Cattrall had already endorsed months before), and the only reference to Cattrall was mentioning how perfect she was in the Samantha role, which SJP agreed with. At no point in the episode did she speak a negative word about Cattrall. Side note, they're all all tipsy if not drunk while filiming WWHL, so if anything SJP's comments there were even more "honest" and unscripted than in her other interviews. And yet she still didn't trash Cattrall. I have no trouble believing that they weren't friends, and it's entirely possible SJP doesn't particularly care for Cattrall, but if that's true, if anything SJP has been that much classier not dragging her through the mud every time she's invited to.

As for the timing relative to Cattrall posting about her brother being missing, I'm not really sure the connection you're drawing there. The episode aired four days before Cattrall posted that her brother was missing, five days before she posted that he had died. Was SJP supposed to know that was going to happen when she filmed the show?

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What is true is that the show and the movies wouldn't have been anything worth mentioning with Kim. SJP was supposed to be the star but Kim was. Kim made the show. Is it interesting that even SJP won't consider another movie without Kim. That says everything.