Sleeping with someone for first time when you're over 50

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Oh my god. You people are all just so f***** and over the top. Ooh let me post my thirst trap pictures. ooh let me talk about my vasectomy. Ooh let me go sideways on this commentary here.

Unless you're in a committed relationship always wear a condom. End of story. why are there like 13 plus pages on this ridiculous b*******

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And the person who said HIV is a nothing Burger these days can go f*** themselves.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Umm BV is not an STI and neither is a UTI. Do you know what bacterial vaginitis is caused from? It’s caused from semen throwing off the PH in your vagina and causing an infection. People trying for babies get BV all the time because anytime semen sits inside you there is a risk of BV. You are a frekan idiot. Are you also gonna blame a guy for giving you a yeast infection? These things all involve your own vaginas response. Has nothing to do with the guy “giving it to you”.

Yes and yes.

It comes from semen like you just said. And I don’t ascribe to male dominated men can do no harm gynecological theories that haven’t been updated in decades because men are asymptomatic. Bacteria and viruses spread by sexual contact.

It’s not the semen that is infected, it’s your own ph makeup that causes the infection. They aren’t “spreading” anything. Another person will not react the same way. Literally babies get UTIs and yeast infections. I hope you are not out there being sexually actuate because you really have no idea what you are talking about.

Read this - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9810678/
Anal sex should be done with condom and never allow his P into your V after it was in the azz

Ok?? How does that have anything to do with the facts that the things you are saying are being spread as STIs are not STI’s? Also you seem to be very focused on infections caused by anal sex. Obviously you have no idea what someone did before they came to see you-so have them where a condom. But I’m not sure what point you are trying to make here? I’m pretty sure everybody knows that you can get an infection if fecal matter gets into your vaginal cavity. People get those infections by their own actions sometimes (not involving anyone else).

It was in response to statement above "It’s not the semen that is infected, it’s your own ph makeup that causes the infection"
Semen absolutely causes infections spread from female to female partner, especially if no condom used during A sex. Ask polyamorous people they'll tell .

Of course semen can cause infections, but the infections you mentioned are not STIs-end of story.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.

I agree.

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC.

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

lady … nobody needs to prove their intellectual superiority over you. you posted your (or someone’s) face and butt on the internet. you can be identified.

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

lady … nobody needs to prove their intellectual superiority over you. you posted your (or someone’s) face and butt on the internet. you can be identified.

Right? How dumb does a person need to be to not realize this. Maybe she will get it when one of the dudes on the thread who thought she was hot gives her a call.

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

lady … nobody needs to prove their intellectual superiority over you. you posted your (or someone’s) face and butt on the internet. you can be identified.

Unless that person sleeps with me, they cannot identify me by my butt. It's not full face photos - these are not processed by face recognition

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

lady … nobody needs to prove their intellectual superiority over you. you posted your (or someone’s) face and butt on the internet. you can be identified.

Right? How dumb does a person need to be to not realize this. Maybe she will get it when one of the dudes on the thread who thought she was hot gives her a call.

Listen, unless you can prove your statement is wrong, you are wrong. I cannot be identified by these photos. They are not my full make-up full face photos! And as PP correctly stated, nobody besides moderator has access to my IP address (and he can in fact identify anyone on this forum without a photo)

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

There so much of PPs face showing I would immediately recognize her if I knew her.

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

lady … nobody needs to prove their intellectual superiority over you. you posted your (or someone’s) face and butt on the internet. you can be identified.

Right? How dumb does a person need to be to not realize this. Maybe she will get it when one of the dudes on the thread who thought she was hot gives her a call.

Listen, unless you can prove your statement is wrong, you are wrong. I cannot be identified by these photos. They are not my full make-up full face photos! And as PP correctly stated, nobody besides moderator has access to my IP address (and he can in fact identify anyone on this forum without a photo)

No not even the moderator without police authority

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Ok - please go ahead and find my name I’m curious now how you do it.

DP. You're showing your whole face in those pictures ...

So why didn’t you still succeed running face recognition on me and sharing my initials? Or at least the first letter of the first name ? Some commenters here are quick to show their intellectual superiority but unable to prove it.

There so much of PPs face showing I would immediately recognize her if I knew her.

I doubt it .

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone post their personal photos on dcum before. Probably because it’s incredibly stupid to do so. Do you know how many people use this site? I don’t care how “confident” you think you are but this is one of the stupidest moves I have ever seen here.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone post their personal photos on dcum before. Probably because it’s incredibly stupid to do so. Do you know how many people use this site? I don’t care how “confident” you think you are but this is one of the stupidest moves I have ever seen here.

This seems suspiciously like a dude posting rando internet photos hoping other unsuspecting women will do the same…

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone post their personal photos on dcum before. Probably because it’s incredibly stupid to do so. Do you know how many people use this site? I don’t care how “confident” you think you are but this is one of the stupidest moves I have ever seen here.

This seems suspiciously like a dude posting rando internet photos hoping other unsuspecting women will do the same…

Possibly. Maybe Jeff should delete?