I caught her on a date with another guy.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

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Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

[Anonymous]

Thanks for updating OP. I bet you're having a really good time now! Have fun-

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

I'm the complete opposite of clingy. I'm very independent. And yes, of course we all earn a living but people that want to be together find time.
Unless you're socially awkward, I would expect a 34 year old to be man enough to realize a 27 year old with options will take them. Perhaps you are nerdy or lack dating experience. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

I'm the complete opposite of clingy. I'm very independent. And yes, of course we all earn a living but people that want to be together find time.
Unless you're socially awkward, I would expect a 34 year old to be man enough to realize a 27 year old with options will take them. Perhaps you are nerdy or lack dating experience. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

Op, don't take the bait. Move on and focus on your relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

I'm the complete opposite of clingy. I'm very independent. And yes, of course we all earn a living but people that want to be together find time.
Unless you're socially awkward, I would expect a 34 year old to be man enough to realize a 27 year old with options will take them. Perhaps you are nerdy or lack dating experience. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

Agree with this.

OP - you hadn't made the commitment. My guess is that if you had other options that you would have explored them as well.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

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Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

Hey women are allowed to do this...men no! Remember men are evil women are just keeping their options open.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

Hey women are allowed to do this...men no! Remember men are evil women are just keeping their options open.

Hey, misogynist red-pill types - whatever we call your basement dwellers now: don't you have some MRA forums to visit? Your "witty repartee" has grown old.

OP, it sounds as if the relationship is evolving into something more serious. Hope it works out!

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

He didn't SAY he wanted to be exclusive. If someone wants that they have to TALK about that. You have to open your mouth and share that thought - speaking to the other persons ears and then waiting for a response.
Why is this so hard to understand?!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

He didn't SAY he wanted to be exclusive. If someone wants that they have to TALK about that. You have to open your mouth and share that thought - speaking to the other persons ears and then waiting for a response.
Why is this so hard to understand?!

I'm going to guess you have a small member.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

I'm the complete opposite of clingy. I'm very independent. And yes, of course we all earn a living but people that want to be together find time.
Unless you're socially awkward, I would expect a 34 year old to be man enough to realize a 27 year old with options will take them. Perhaps you are nerdy or lack dating experience. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

This pp is vile. No, Ops issue is his prior love brainwashed him into thinking that wanting to have sex was bad. So he took that literally into the next relationship and it was a mistake.

OP, NEVER make your relationship decisions based on advice from a female. Because they NEVER give you sincere objective advice. There is always an ulterior motive, usually to try and cause you to fuck up your relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

He didn't SAY he wanted to be exclusive. If someone wants that they have to TALK about that. You have to open your mouth and share that thought - speaking to the other persons ears and then waiting for a response.
Why is this so hard to understand?!

What? You mean women aren't expected to be mind readers, but men always are?

Listen he didn't say his gf was stupid. She had to know that dating other guys wasn't acceptable or she would have TOLD him she was going to date around. Only a woman would attempt to justify that behavior, which basically was cheating behind his back, but she got caught. If she didn't know it was wrong she would have told him so and broke up with him, not beg for forgiveness and exclusivity.

You can have all the conversations about exclusivity you want but when it comes right down to it if a woman wants to step out on you she will find a way to rationalize it. A woman decides whether or not the relationship is exclusive in her mind, the man better be a mind reader and understand what she s thinking, or it's his fault.

How the fuck hard was it for this bitch to pick up the phone and tell OP she was still seeing other men-if not simply telling him in person?

It's obvious she wanted OP to think they were exclusive. If not why was she ashamed when he caught her cheating ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have.

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck!

This

Agree. OP, glad it seems to be working out. Best of luck to the both of you!

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.

I AGREE 100% with this poster. As an open minded female, once I knocked boots with a man, I took THAT time THEN to have the "talk". You CAUGHT and cornered her INTO a relationship, OP. She's going to ditch you for the next thing that's better than you and I see that coming.

He didn't SAY he wanted to be exclusive. If someone wants that they have to TALK about that. You have to open your mouth and share that thought - speaking to the other persons ears and then waiting for a response.
Why is this so hard to understand?!

What? You mean women aren't expected to be mind readers, but men always are?

Listen he didn't say his gf was stupid. She had to know that dating other guys wasn't acceptable or she would have TOLD him she was going to date around. Only a woman would attempt to justify that behavior, which basically was cheating behind his back, but she got caught. If she didn't know it was wrong she would have told him so and broke up with him, not beg for forgiveness and exclusivity.

You can have all the conversations about exclusivity you want but when it comes right down to it if a woman wants to step out on you she will find a way to rationalize it. A woman decides whether or not the relationship is exclusive in her mind, the man better be a mind reader and understand what she s thinking, or it's his fault.

How the fuck hard was it for this bitch to pick up the phone and tell OP she was still seeing other men-if not simply telling him in person?

It's obvious she wanted OP to think they were exclusive. If not why was she ashamed when he caught her cheating ?

[Anonymous]

Did I miss the update from OP? Did they work it out over dinner??