I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's a Snowden type? His girlfriend didn't know about his true work until he showed up in Hong Kong!

[Anonymous]

OP here: I am done responding to the negative comments on here. I am not a troll at all, I posted on here for advice...not for people to tell me my boyfriend is doing this deliberately or has a wife or whatever.

At this point, I'm waiting for a good friend of mine who is a cop to give me a call to see what he thinks I should do and if he can possibly look into other state records to see about him possibly getting arrested, etc. I'm still waiting for his uncle to accept my request and none of my messages have been read by him or my boyfriend so idk what else to do at this point.

I'll update later if there is any update. I'm not going to keep coming here just to get bashed. Thanks for all the helpful posts with links, I will check those out now.

[Anonymous]

What's his name OP?
If you don't wanna do something about it save for argue back and forth with folks then I will.
What's his name so I can call the police?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps this was covered on another page somewhere, but why hasn't OP reached out to his parents?

She claims she doesn't know his family, doesn't know the name of his work, can't contact his friends, only has a cell number ... yeah, OP, this sounds super sketchy. You do see that, right?

OP here: never met his parents as they don't live anywhere near him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I am done responding to the negative comments on here. I am not a troll at all, I posted on here for advice...not for people to tell me my boyfriend is doing this deliberately or has a wife or whatever.

At this point, I'm waiting for a good friend of mine who is a cop to give me a call to see what he thinks I should do and if he can possibly look into other state records to see about him possibly getting arrested, etc. I'm still waiting for his uncle to accept my request and none of my messages have been read by him or my boyfriend so idk what else to do at this point.

I'll update later if there is any update. I'm not going to keep coming here just to get bashed. Thanks for all the helpful posts with links, I will check those out now.

Busted by logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's his name OP?
If you don't wanna do something about it save for argue back and forth with folks then I will.
What's his name so I can call the police?

I think we should all call the cops.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps this was covered on another page somewhere, but why hasn't OP reached out to his parents?

She claims she doesn't know his family, doesn't know the name of his work, can't contact his friends, only has a cell number ... yeah, OP, this sounds super sketchy. You do see that, right?

OP here: never met his parents as they don't live anywhere near him

But you don't know their last name? Or where they live?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What's his name OP?
If you don't wanna do something about it save for argue back and forth with folks then I will.
What's his name so I can call the police?

I think we should all call the cops.

op Here: I am not going to publicly post his name but if you can find a way to do it privately,
I'll gladly forward that along

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps this was covered on another page somewhere, but why hasn't OP reached out to his parents?

She claims she doesn't know his family, doesn't know the name of his work, can't contact his friends, only has a cell number ... yeah, OP, this sounds super sketchy. You do see that, right?

OP here: never met his parents as they don't live anywhere near him

You don't know their names? You don't know the name of the company he works for? His boss's name? I hope he's ok because - well, you never want anyone to NOT be ol - but I hope that you seriously re-evaluate this relationship after this. If you don't it's NOT going to end well. Trust us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps this was covered on another page somewhere, but why hasn't OP reached out to his parents?

She claims she doesn't know his family, doesn't know the name of his work, can't contact his friends, only has a cell number ... yeah, OP, this sounds super sketchy. You do see that, right?

OP here: never met his parents as they don't live anywhere near him

So what, you've never met them. You can't figure out their names by doing a little research and then track them down? try being a little resourceful

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In response to the person who protested that she didn't meet her SO's family until engagement: I didn't either.

But I sure as hell knew who his employer was and the names of his mother and sisters.

I did too. The military. I'd have had no luck contacting his unit, since I didn't have contact information.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What's his name OP?
If you don't wanna do something about it save for argue back and forth with folks then I will.
What's his name so I can call the police?

I think we should all call the cops.

op Here: I am not going to publicly post his name but if you can find a way to do it privately,
I'll gladly forward that along

Okay, I'll set up a private email account and post it here when I get it going.

[Anonymous]

OP, have you or have you not contacted his employer?

[Anonymous]

If you don't know the town and you last talk to him on Friday how do you know they got 8 inches of snow?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In response to the person who protested that she didn't meet her SO's family until engagement: I didn't either.

But I sure as hell knew who his employer was and the names of his mother and sisters.

I did too. The military. I'd have had no luck contacting his unit, since I didn't have contact information.

Ostensibly his parents/family would have reached out to you if you were close enough to be informed if anything untoward had happened.