Divorced women in their 40s seem to be doing better in the dating market

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Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

It’s true here out west where I live. None of my friends will remarry, they’d die at meeting a man’s parents annd they generally have the means to never have to repartner or cohabitate with a man. They are fit and Attractive and interested in great sex though and dating down is the way to get it. It’s delicious. I’d feel uncomfortable with a man 20 years younger but I had an amazing 18 mos of exclusive amazing sex with my partner who was 12 years younger. He caught too many feels so I ended it.

Your version sounds like it’s based off of what you learned watching mad men. It doesn’t resonate with today’s demographics.

I'm sorry but you just got a lonely guy who couldn't do better and got hooked on the p**y.dont get it twisted

DP.

You are the one getting it twisted. Women make better friends to other women. Most women have solid friendships. If their finances are solid as well, and they've already had kids, they are not necessarily looking for companionship post divorce. Many are primarily looking for sex and excitement.

Many 40+ year old women know that most men fall very short when it comes to true friendship ( from women's perspective), so they don't bother looking for that in post divorce relationships with men.

Against n that guy didn't catch feelings because she was a catch. He was just lonely man happy that any woman spread her legs for him so he can run through her. And when she closed her legs he got sad cause he knows it will be hard for him to get a woman his age. That's all.

That's how it works. Either party got what they were looking for. Time to move on. No harm, no foul!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Another older guy here. 95% women over 41/42 are unattractive to me. Either:

Just old, wrinkly and out of shape

Or so much work done they ruin their faces with the Botox or plastic surgery or whatever

A few who may be physically attractive have the personality of a btch

As I browse tinder/hinge/bumble etc I try hard to find an age appropriate 40+ woman for me but ugh. Even the attractive looking ones who I meet in person look nothing like the photoshopped pics. So I’ve learned to restrict my search to late twenties to late 30s or basically 10yr less than my age. Because 40+ women just look bad bad bad.

Sure there is the 1% Shakira and JLo etc but let’s be real ladies. Unless you have $1m to put into high quality plastic surgery, spa treatments and daily gym training you are not going to look like the 1% top 40s women

Of course if they want young guys they can have them. Someone rightly pointed out the young bucks just need a warm wet hole and why not find a warm wet hole for practice to help the young buck get better at some like skills which they will happily take for ONS to 1-2yr situationship before they move on to an age appropriate match

I’m amazed at how much the 40+ crowd of DCUM takes pride in being what is essentially a warm WAP for guys 10*yr younger LOL

There must be something wrong about you if you are not attracted to women your age. Did you check your hormones? Use Viagra? Let me break it to you: women are on average as attractive as men. Any 39 yo would become 42 yo if you date her for 3 years. So she out of a sudden becomes unattractive and “not worthy” your splendor that you need to get a new version asap?

Besides, most late 20s-mid 30s women you are targeting want babies. I do think it’s plain stupid to raise a new set of screaming bundles of joy in your 40-50s, just for the sake of f..g slightly wetter P… and more fresh face. I would recommend using lube, bro, and save some money for traveling

You are hateful and the epitome of what I prescreen in men. So maybe attractive 40s women just avoid you, because they don’t date for money and don’t want you on board with enjoying well-earned retirement and freedom?

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

I actually agree. I am 45 black male and I take very good care of myself with diet and exercise. I am 6'0 and 160 perhaps being slimmer helps but compared to most men my age they look older by 5 years or more. I think women subconsciously are worried about their looks because that's what they are judged on. For example I have never seen my boss without making on. It's crazy that amount of pressure to always look "beautiful". So women past 40 definitely put in the work as far as their appearance. Men for whatever reasons get hot with fatigue once they reach 40. I don't know if it's biological because I fight it constantly myself as well despite being active. For this reason if you let fatigue settle in and you don't exercise and eat right you are going to go downhill. Balding is genetics I think. I still have my full set of hair and so does my 76 years old dad.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

Here is the deal, Einstein: Most people would rather drive a brand new car. Most cannot afford it, unfortunately.

Many 20 - early 30 something year old women want children, marriage etc. These terms are a very high price for a man in his 50s. Are you going to start all over just so you can have a new model? In most cases like this, the joke is on you!

In contrast, while many 20 something to 30 something year old men might be looking for marriage, many of them will be happy for a short term to medium term sexual relationship with an older woman who has no interest in marriage and kids.

So older women can afford a new model, and you can't.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

Here is the deal, Einstein: Most people would rather drive a brand new car. Most cannot afford it, unfortunately.

Many 20 - early 30 something year old women want children, marriage etc. These terms are a very high price for a man in his 50s. Are you going to start all over just so you can have a new model? In most cases like this, the joke is on you!

In contrast, while many 20 something to 30 something year old men might be looking for marriage, many of them will be happy for a short term to medium term sexual relationship with an older woman who has no interest in marriage and kids.

So older women can afford a new model, and you can't.

Yea, and he’s not talking about 2005 vs 2015 car. He says above that all late 30s are more attractive than women a few years older, let’s say, 42-44. While he himself is mid 40s.
I think he definitely has some issues or it’s in his head causing performance issues.

Smart people always get their car slightly used for best value.

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Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

It’s true here out west where I live. None of my friends will remarry, they’d die at meeting a man’s parents annd they generally have the means to never have to repartner or cohabitate with a man. They are fit and Attractive and interested in great sex though and dating down is the way to get it. It’s delicious. I’d feel uncomfortable with a man 20 years younger but I had an amazing 18 mos of exclusive amazing sex with my partner who was 12 years younger. He caught too many feels so I ended it.

Your version sounds like it’s based off of what you learned watching mad men. It doesn’t resonate with today’s demographics.

I'm sorry but you just got a lonely guy who couldn't do better and got hooked on the p**y.dont get it twisted

DP.

You are the one getting it twisted. Women make better friends to other women. Most women have solid friendships. If their finances are solid as well, and they've already had kids, they are not necessarily looking for companionship post divorce. Many are primarily looking for sex and excitement.

Many 40+ year old women know that most men fall very short when it comes to true friendship ( from women's perspective), so they don't bother looking for that in post divorce relationships with men.

Against n that guy didn't catch feelings because she was a catch. He was just lonely man happy that any woman spread her legs for him so he can run through her. And when she closed her legs he got sad cause he knows it will be hard for him to get a woman his age. That's all.

I don’t understand insults like this. Your young GF likes you for your money and if she had better choices wouldn’t date you. Young women with choices don’t pick old men.

Do you somehow think you are immune?

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Anonymous wrote:Another older guy here. 95% women over 41/42 are unattractive to me. Either:

Just old, wrinkly and out of shape

Or so much work done they ruin their faces with the Botox or plastic surgery or whatever

A few who may be physically attractive have the personality of a btch

As I browse tinder/hinge/bumble etc I try hard to find an age appropriate 40+ woman for me but ugh. Even the attractive looking ones who I meet in person look nothing like the photoshopped pics. So I’ve learned to restrict my search to late twenties to late 30s or basically 10yr less than my age. Because 40+ women just look bad bad bad.

Sure there is the 1% Shakira and JLo etc but let’s be real ladies. Unless you have $1m to put into high quality plastic surgery, spa treatments and daily gym training you are not going to look like the 1% top 40s women

Of course if they want young guys they can have them. Someone rightly pointed out the young bucks just need a warm wet hole and why not find a warm wet hole for practice to help the young buck get better at some like skills which they will happily take for ONS to 1-2yr situationship before they move on to an age appropriate match

I’m amazed at how much the 40+ crowd of DCUM takes pride in being what is essentially a warm WAP for guys 10*yr younger LOL

At least the younger guys know how to pump, which is exactly what these women are looking for.

What do you have to offer other than your inflated ego? Don't forget that most of these women left men like you. They are not buying what you think you are selling.

PP thinks he's selling a 30-year old version of his wrinkled-sack self.

[Anonymous]

Ultimately, it's a supply and demand issue. And the lack of quality men of all ages is warping the market. It's not just men in their 40s and 50s. It's that a lot of young men are checked out from life - professionally, socially, fitness-wise. So that men who do have it together, whether they are 25 or 45, have an incredibly easy time finding dates and partners of all ages. Observationally, watching my single friends, it's the good looking men with great jobs that have a disproportionate amount of power in modern relationship dynamics. For every man who has it together, there are 20 wonderful, beautiful, smart, and kind women who really want to meet him. It's far easier for men these days. The competition for the good ones is fierce. I see it extending down all the way to the college level.

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Anonymous wrote:Ultimately, it's a supply and demand issue. And the lack of quality men of all ages is warping the market. It's not just men in their 40s and 50s. It's that a lot of young men are checked out from life - professionally, socially, fitness-wise. So that men who do have it together, whether they are 25 or 45, have an incredibly easy time finding dates and partners of all ages. Observationally, watching my single friends, it's the good looking men with great jobs that have a disproportionate amount of power in modern relationship dynamics. For every man who has it together, there are 20 wonderful, beautiful, smart, and kind women who really want to meet him. It's far easier for men these days. The competition for the good ones is fierce. I see it extending down all the way to the college level.

You are falsely assuming that young women who are looking for marriage and children value the same men that older divorced women who already have children do. It's not the same market. There is some overlap, but it's not entirely the same.

I know a late 40s acquaintance who is sleeping with a 20 something year old gym instructor. Were she younger and looking for marriage and children, she wouldn't go anywhere near him.

But she is looking for a good time with someone easy on the eyes. It works for both of them.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

Here is the deal, Einstein: Most people would rather drive a brand new car. Most cannot afford it, unfortunately.

Many 20 - early 30 something year old women want children, marriage etc. These terms are a very high price for a man in his 50s. Are you going to start all over just so you can have a new model? In most cases like this, the joke is on you!

In contrast, while many 20 something to 30 something year old men might be looking for marriage, many of them will be happy for a short term to medium term sexual relationship with an older woman who has no interest in marriage and kids.

So older women can afford a new model, and you can't.

As a 29 years old male who was a former D1 athlete with an MBA from University of Virginia, I have so many options for hooking up with women in their 20s. There is no need for me to hook up with leftover 40's women. Only guys without options (e.g. low value) hookup with 40's women.

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

Here is the deal, Einstein: Most people would rather drive a brand new car. Most cannot afford it, unfortunately.

Many 20 - early 30 something year old women want children, marriage etc. These terms are a very high price for a man in his 50s. Are you going to start all over just so you can have a new model? In most cases like this, the joke is on you!

In contrast, while many 20 something to 30 something year old men might be looking for marriage, many of them will be happy for a short term to medium term sexual relationship with an older woman who has no interest in marriage and kids.

So older women can afford a new model, and you can't.

As a 29 years old male who was a former D1 athlete with an MBA from University of Virginia, I have so many options for hooking up with women in their 20s. There is no need for me to hook up with leftover 40's women. Only guys without options (e.g. low value) hookup with 40's women.

Do you see any posts on here from women identifying as 29 year old former D1 athletes with MBA from UVA or any young woman with a similar profile? Wonder why? Go work on your value, dude.

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Anonymous wrote:Ultimately, it's a supply and demand issue. And the lack of quality men of all ages is warping the market. It's not just men in their 40s and 50s. It's that a lot of young men are checked out from life - professionally, socially, fitness-wise. So that men who do have it together, whether they are 25 or 45, have an incredibly easy time finding dates and partners of all ages. Observationally, watching my single friends, it's the good looking men with great jobs that have a disproportionate amount of power in modern relationship dynamics. For every man who has it together, there are 20 wonderful, beautiful, smart, and kind women who really want to meet him. It's far easier for men these days. The competition for the good ones is fierce. I see it extending down all the way to the college level.

Is this some kind of chatgpt incel bot?

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s generally look way better than men in their 40s these days. I'm 30 and the 30-40 year old men on apps have been very rough looking, meanwhile the women I see on there are beautiful and still have a youthful look, usually more fit too. (I'm bi). I've dated older men and they are less likely to be feminists as well, which is what many women want.

Yea, this is far closer to the truth than the bro above. I think pretty single unburdened women of all ages get scooped out within weeks on the apps and ugly hateful guys are left as wallets and sperm donors to bank single pretty moms in their 30s to help raising her kids in exchange for her P… until kids are grown and she kicks him out.

That's so laughable that it is actually funny. Women in their 40s are like used cars. I would rather drive a brand new 2024 Lexus over a 2005 model.

Here is the deal, Einstein: Most people would rather drive a brand new car. Most cannot afford it, unfortunately.

Many 20 - early 30 something year old women want children, marriage etc. These terms are a very high price for a man in his 50s. Are you going to start all over just so you can have a new model? In most cases like this, the joke is on you!

In contrast, while many 20 something to 30 something year old men might be looking for marriage, many of them will be happy for a short term to medium term sexual relationship with an older woman who has no interest in marriage and kids.

So older women can afford a new model, and you can't.

As a 29 years old male who was a former D1 athlete with an MBA from University of Virginia, I have so many options for hooking up with women in their 20s. There is no need for me to hook up with leftover 40's women. Only guys without options (e.g. low value) hookup with 40's women.

So you’re so awesome you’re here trolling DCUM moms? Pathetic.