I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

OP, sure your ex may need some help because of his bad upbringing, but that does not make him a good person nor does it excuse or justify his treatment of you. DO NOT yield to those feelings.

"There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you. " -- JK Rowling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But do we even know if the guy is alive?

I'm waiting for state police to call me back

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, can you confirm if meth is involved?

Did you see the guy's photo? Of course meth is involved.

[Anonymous]

Here's how this "story" is going to end: the cops will report back that the boyfriend is at home, sitting on his couch. My advice to you, OP, is to come up with a better ending for this piece of performance art.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, can you confirm if meth is involved?

Did you see the guy's photo? Of course meth is involved.

really? dont be a bit**

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did the uncle tell you about your ex?

OP here: I'm not going to get into a lot of information but just some back story about my ex's parents and how he was raised. Said he's a good kid but was raised around some 'bad' stuff that probably really effected him. Uncle J was close with my ex up until 2 years ago when my ex apprently just dissapeared on them after some stuff with his otther set of grandparents playing "tough love" with him.

And bobcat guy told you that he had gone hunting with his uncle J? O.k.....it does sound as though bobcat guy was lying to you because he didn't want you to know where he was really going and what he is really up to. Which he is entitled to do...he is a grown adult and it is his life.

I don't understand what you are hoping to gain by this.... investigation or whatever the heck you are doing. I think it's time to take the hint. Whatever he is doing now does not involve you...why do you think otherwise?

[Anonymous]

People, Jeff thought that the OP was legit yesterday. Iraq77 also believes that the OP is legit.

Everyone is pretty much agreed that the OP has obvious self esteem issues, but the people screaming that she's faking it, or a creative writer, or whatever are not really watching the game in real time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But do we even know if the guy is alive?

I'm waiting for state police to call me back

Why would they call you, a non-relative, and not the uncle? Why didn't HE call? He's the family member, not you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's how this "story" is going to end: the cops will report back that the boyfriend is at home, sitting on his couch. My advice to you, OP, is to come up with a better ending for this piece of performance art.

OP here: Once I hear back from the police which will hopefully be soon, I'll update and that's that. Thread should be locked or deleted after that as I have no interest in taking this any further once I find out if he's been home this whole time or is indeed missing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But do we even know if the guy is alive?

I'm waiting for state police to call me back

Why would they call you, a non-relative, and not the uncle? Why didn't HE call? He's the family member, not you.

Probably because I'm the only one he's talked to in the last damn 2 years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People, Jeff thought that the OP was legit yesterday. Iraq77 also believes that the OP is legit.

Everyone is pretty much agreed that the OP has obvious self esteem issues, but the people screaming that she's faking it, or a creative writer, or whatever are not really watching the game in real time.

I definitely watched the whole thing in real time yesterday and have come to the conclusion that this is some form of catfishing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People, Jeff thought that the OP was legit yesterday. Iraq77 also believes that the OP is legit.

Everyone is pretty much agreed that the OP has obvious self esteem issues, but the people screaming that she's faking it, or a creative writer, or whatever are not really watching the game in real time.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But do we even know if the guy is alive?

I'm waiting for state police to call me back

Why would they call you, a non-relative, and not the uncle? Why didn't HE call? He's the family member, not you.

Probably because I'm the only one he's talked to in the last damn 2 years

You said you met the uncle. Fix that plot point, hon.

[Anonymous]

Yeah this is Gone Girl + Serial IRT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People, Jeff thought that the OP was legit yesterday. Iraq77 also believes that the OP is legit.

Everyone is pretty much agreed that the OP has obvious self esteem issues, but the people screaming that she's faking it, or a creative writer, or whatever are not really watching the game in real time.

I definitely watched the whole thing in real time yesterday and have come to the conclusion that this is some form of catfishing.

OP here: that would make sense if we hadn't met before....