I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah - you know now that you want him to be an ex. So why are you doing anything more? If uncle thinks he might be missing, then he can follow up with the police.

So, end of chapter in your life, right? Get back to your work.

She doesn't want to disappoint us all. Keep digging OP!

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he disappeared from the uncle 2 years ago...maybe you should just let him disappear again

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Anonymous wrote:OP haven't you learned to be wary of people you don't know that you meet online? how do you know uncle J is now telling the truth?

Uncle J would never lie!

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Anonymous wrote:this has to be a lie. OP has gotten out of hand

Yes. Yesterday I mentioned "poaching" and suddenly she was like, oh, yeah, I was worried about that.

Then we found Uncle J's Facebook page and realized he was home all weekend and she had to cover that plot point.

The fact that there is SO limited information about her boyfriend online is suspicious. I need to double-check a couple of databases but he's not even listed in those. I understand blue-collar workers are not always heavy internet users, but there are definitely signs that he's not real.

OP here: seriously use some damn common sense. If there was a way to post audio on here, I would have posted my convo with the cop who took down all my info since you don't believe that either. I offered to post a damn text screen shot last night and everyone was like "nooooo" although you all want proof. Pick what you want to believe.

Use some damn common sense? I was the one who provided you with the damned police number to call in Hampton! You were incapable of finding that NOT TO MENTION not being able to google the uncle! Honey, you're the one with no common sense! (although a good imagination, I'll give you that)

actually..that was the wrong number...they re-directed me the the correct one but thanks anyways

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Anonymous wrote:OP haven't you learned to be wary of people you don't know that you meet online? how do you know uncle J is now telling the truth?

Uncle J would never lie!

OP here: Because I highly doubt that Uncle J would tell me the things he told me if he was really close with my ex.

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Anonymous wrote:But OP, I want to know what you learned just now that turned the BF into an EX. You had lots of horrific stats on the guy before and were still giddy-in-love, so whatever you learned must be really salacious. Please tell!

Even though we all knew what a douche the bf was, she was still holding out hope and didn't really believe it until she talked to Uncle J. Now she has to face the truth.

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When you friend request someone on Facebook, you can add info. Clearly, the OP didn't do this multiple times.

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I love that OP is mad as hell and not gonna take this shit anymore! Yes!

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I feel bad now. I think OP is a bit simple.

Why is she still doing this when she has now broken up with the guy?

[Anonymous]

Looks like the drug dealing guesses were right.

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Anonymous wrote:But OP, I want to know what you learned just now that turned the BF into an EX. You had lots of horrific stats on the guy before and were still giddy-in-love, so whatever you learned must be really salacious. Please tell!

Even though we all knew what a douche the bf was, she was still holding out hope and didn't really believe it until she talked to Uncle J. Now she has to face the truth.

OP here: I was not holding out hope at all. Since yesterday afternoon, I knew this was no longer what I thought it was. I'm pretty sure from yesterday afternoon onwards, I put boyfriend in " ". The info his uncle gave me was very eye opening and even if my ex were to magically appear today and have some amazingly good story about why he was gone the last 3 days, I'd be done just from the info his uncle gave me....even though Uncle J told me repeatedly that he didn't want what he was telling me to make me look at EX differnetly.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you SURE there isn't another Uncle?

OP here: he ALWAYS talked about this once uncle, not the one I met.

Well OP, I'm glad you are getting the closure you need. Cause after the sheriff calls you back you won't really need more than this, right?

OP here: if the state police call me back and say he's happily sitting at home, I'm going to want to drive up there and flip the f*** out on him but I'll control myself and just realize he was POS like I should have known all along. If he's still MIA, idk what then but Uncle J said that his father knows the grandparents info to give to me if it gets to that point.

why even bother to waste the gas money?

[Anonymous]

Nice creative writing exercise, OP.

[Anonymous]

But do we even know if the guy is alive?

[Anonymous]

OP, can you confirm if meth is involved?