I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:OP here again: His uncle was extremely nice. Mentioned nothing about getting 530598 friend requests, said he saw my email this morning and was going to call me once he got off the road but I called him first. I'm pretty livid at the stuff that I found out but his uncle did say what a "good kid" my EX boyfriend is and that he just grew up around shitty parents pretty much.

Had to give state police all my info too so waiting to hear back on whether he's happily sitting at home or if something really did happen.

Why did he turn down your friend request on Facebook?

OP here: I didn't ask him. But he is really really nice and gave me so much helpful info.

You said yesterday he denied your request.

OP here: Yes, he did and I also had a friend try and request him too and he denied that. A lot of his friends are fishing people so I'm sure he's able to weed out people. He had no idea who I even was so he didn't do it to purposely deny ME.

[Anonymous]

I for one kind of hope he's just sitting at home..

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here again: His uncle was extremely nice. Mentioned nothing about getting 530598 friend requests, said he saw my email this morning and was going to call me once he got off the road but I called him first. I'm pretty livid at the stuff that I found out but his uncle did say what a "good kid" my EX boyfriend is and that he just grew up around shitty parents pretty much.

Had to give state police all my info too so waiting to hear back on whether he's happily sitting at home or if something really did happen.

Why did he turn down your friend request on Facebook?

OP here: I didn't ask him. But he is really really nice and gave me so much helpful info.

You said yesterday he denied your request.

I got a request yesterday from a random person I didn't know too. I also denied it. Not sinister, just not going to friend people I don't know.

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And he obviously didn't know this girl or anything about her. Why would he accept her request?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this has to be a lie. OP has gotten out of hand

Yes. Yesterday I mentioned "poaching" and suddenly she was like, oh, yeah, I was worried about that.

Then we found Uncle J's Facebook page and realized he was home all weekend and she had to cover that plot point.

The fact that there is SO limited information about her boyfriend online is suspicious. I need to double-check a couple of databases but he's not even listed in those. I understand blue-collar workers are not always heavy internet users, but there are definitely signs that he's not real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I for one kind of hope he's just sitting at home..

OP here: me too at this point actually

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I'm exhausted.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here: Spoke to his uncle on the phone for 15 minutes and found out that not only was the uncle not in Maine this weekend, he hasn't seen/spoken to my EX boyfriend in over 2 years. He also told me a lot of info about my EX boyfriend and his family that I did NOT know about. Uncle J is going to have his father call me later with more info.

Just got re-directed to the state police, spent 8 mins on the phone with them and they are sending someone over to his house for a wellbeing check to see if him or his truck is there and will call me back.

OP you are pretty naive. I think we established this about 50 pages ago.

I think it makes all the sense in the world for OP to lie out the lie she was told for Uncle J to confirm or deny various parts of it. Clearly he wasn't in Maine, since we all saw his awesome family Easter and knew where that had taken place. But him confirming it and saying "I wasn't in Maine, I wasn't planning to be in Maine and I haven't spoken to SV in 2 years" is pretty definitive. I want to know what the other stuff is.

The uncle went on a fishing trip this weekend, he was just back by Easter. One of his posts mentioned something like 'good to be back home' so he did indeed go somewhere. We had just established long ago that the boyfriend wasn't with him.

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Anonymous wrote:To the person with the Iraq email address: have you been able to verify that OP is a "real" person? I know this is impossible over the internet but did you do any sleuthing?

thats me. i wrote back now 10 pages ago that we did exchange emails and she gave me the boyfriends name for me to do some searching. OP is real.

my search turned up about as much as anyone in this thread so far.

by the way, OP now that you know some things about your "ex" through the uncle, i suggest you drop the search for him. its obvious he's lied to you about the uncle and trip, so move on.

[Anonymous]

What did the uncle tell you about your ex?

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Anonymous wrote:this has to be a lie. OP has gotten out of hand

Yes. Yesterday I mentioned "poaching" and suddenly she was like, oh, yeah, I was worried about that.

Then we found Uncle J's Facebook page and realized he was home all weekend and she had to cover that plot point.

The fact that there is SO limited information about her boyfriend online is suspicious. I need to double-check a couple of databases but he's not even listed in those. I understand blue-collar workers are not always heavy internet users, but there are definitely signs that he's not real.

OP here: seriously use some damn common sense. If there was a way to post audio on here, I would have posted my convo with the cop who took down all my info since you don't believe that either. I offered to post a damn text screen shot last night and everyone was like "nooooo" although you all want proof. Pick what you want to believe.

[Anonymous]

I hope Uncle J isn't just random person OP found on the internet to propagate this (increasingly obvious) catfishing. He's probably some innocent dude who has no idea this is going on.

[Anonymous]

Yeah - you know now that you want him to be an ex. So why are you doing anything more? If uncle thinks he might be missing, then he can follow up with the police.

So, end of chapter in your life, right? Get back to your work.

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Anonymous wrote:What did the uncle tell you about your ex?

OP here: I'm not going to get into a lot of information but just some back story about my ex's parents and how he was raised. Said he's a good kid but was raised around some 'bad' stuff that probably really effected him. Uncle J was close with my ex up until 2 years ago when my ex apprently just dissapeared on them after some stuff with his otther set of grandparents playing "tough love" with him.

[Anonymous]

But OP, I want to know what you learned just now that turned the BF into an EX. You had lots of horrific stats on the guy before and were still giddy-in-love, so whatever you learned must be really salacious. Please tell!

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Anonymous wrote:this has to be a lie. OP has gotten out of hand

Yes. Yesterday I mentioned "poaching" and suddenly she was like, oh, yeah, I was worried about that.

Then we found Uncle J's Facebook page and realized he was home all weekend and she had to cover that plot point.

The fact that there is SO limited information about her boyfriend online is suspicious. I need to double-check a couple of databases but he's not even listed in those. I understand blue-collar workers are not always heavy internet users, but there are definitely signs that he's not real.

OP here: seriously use some damn common sense. If there was a way to post audio on here, I would have posted my convo with the cop who took down all my info since you don't believe that either. I offered to post a damn text screen shot last night and everyone was like "nooooo" although you all want proof. Pick what you want to believe.

Use some damn common sense? I was the one who provided you with the damned police number to call in Hampton! You were incapable of finding that NOT TO MENTION not being able to google the uncle! Honey, you're the one with no common sense! (although a good imagination, I'll give you that)