My DS accidentally saw a disturbing image online

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

Me too. I can absolutely see how a kid might get freaked out by it, especially a kid whose body is starting to go through the changes of puberty.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

First all I never called the child a snowflake. SO if you are going to become indignant please have the comprehension to realize that there is more than one poster on this message board.
Secondly, unlike you I have experience with 11 year olds. I can say what is typical reaction for an 11 year old because I've raised 11 year olds, have one currently and have spent the last 20 years working with 11 year olds and have dealt with similar situations as OP describes and screaming and crying in response to seeing a pornographic image is atypical for an 11 year old. They might shut down the image fast, call it gross or stupid etc. Crying and screaming would not be typical reaction.

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Anonymous wrote:It can happen even in text. My husband texted me one day and two words were too close together, so they formed an internet link. He clicked on it and it was a gay porn site, and we were shocked. He could have easily sent the text to one of the kids, because the words ( I can't remember them now) were some you would use every day in a text. We make sure that we double check our spacing before we send texts now, especially to the kids. Read to him, sing to him, cuddle him, take him outside and play with him, and get his mind off of what he saw, so that he doesn't dwell on it. Hopefully he'll be busy and distracted and will forget about it. I'm sorry that this happened, OP. I know it's upsetting, because I would feel the same way if my 12 yr old saw something like this, because he's still so innocent, and I would like to keep him that way for a while longer if I can. Hugs.

Uh, the kid is 11, not 4. Jesus.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

First all I never called the child a snowflake. SO if you are going to become indignant please have the comprehension to realize that there is more than one poster on this message board.
Secondly, unlike you I have experience with 11 year olds. I can say what is typical reaction for an 11 year old because I've raised 11 year olds, have one currently and have spent the last 20 years working with 11 year olds and have dealt with similar situations as OP describes and screaming and crying in response to seeing a pornographic image is atypical for an 11 year old. They might shut down the image fast, call it gross or stupid etc. Crying and screaming would not be typical reaction.

Do you know Op's kid?

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

First all I never called the child a snowflake. SO if you are going to become indignant please have the comprehension to realize that there is more than one poster on this message board.
Secondly, unlike you I have experience with 11 year olds. I can say what is typical reaction for an 11 year old because I've raised 11 year olds, have one currently and have spent the last 20 years working with 11 year olds and have dealt with similar situations as OP describes and screaming and crying in response to seeing a pornographic image is atypical for an 11 year old. They might shut down the image fast, call it gross or stupid etc. Crying and screaming would not be typical reaction.

Do you know Op's kid?

Do you?

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

I don't know what kind of hell hole your raising your kids in, but I can assure you that most 13/14 year old kid are not out getting/giving blow jobs. If you think that's normal that is really sad. I fell bad for your children.

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Anonymous wrote:It can happen even in text. My husband texted me one day and two words were too close together, so they formed an internet link. He clicked on it and it was a gay porn site, and we were shocked. He could have easily sent the text to one of the kids, because the words ( I can't remember them now) were some you would use every day in a text. We make sure that we double check our spacing before we send texts now, especially to the kids. Read to him, sing to him, cuddle him, take him outside and play with him, and get his mind off of what he saw, so that he doesn't dwell on it. Hopefully he'll be busy and distracted and will forget about it. I'm sorry that this happened, OP. I know it's upsetting, because I would feel the same way if my 12 yr old saw something like this, because he's still so innocent, and I would like to keep him that way for a while longer if I can. Hugs.

Uh, the kid is 11, not 4. Jesus.

DCUM really has a hard time with parenting beyond the age of 2 if it does not involve extracurricular activities and beefing up the application for Ivy.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

First all I never called the child a snowflake. SO if you are going to become indignant please have the comprehension to realize that there is more than one poster on this message board.
Secondly, unlike you I have experience with 11 year olds. I can say what is typical reaction for an 11 year old because I've raised 11 year olds, have one currently and have spent the last 20 years working with 11 year olds and have dealt with similar situations as OP describes and screaming and crying in response to seeing a pornographic image is atypical for an 11 year old. They might shut down the image fast, call it gross or stupid etc. Crying and screaming would not be typical reaction.

Do you know Op's kid?

Do you?

I don't and I don't claim to know what is normal for him. But Op knows her kid. And if Op says that her kid was freaked out and upset over seeing that image, I believe Op.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

I don't know what kind of hell hole your raising your kids in, but I can assure you that most 13/14 year old kid are not out getting/giving blow jobs. If you think that's normal that is really sad. I fell bad for your children.

It's not as rare as you would hope or like to think and you really can't predict if your kid will become sexually active early or not so I really hope you are talking with your kid and not assuming you don't need to because they won't do anything until they are 18 like you or because you've raised them in church and believe in abstinence until marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

No I'm not mocking him. I am saying his reaction is atypical for an 11 year old. The majority of 11 year olds would ot scream or cry. They might be grossed out or think it's weird that's not an adult reaction. An adult would not be phased at all.

Who are you to say what’s typical for an 11 year old? Are you basing that on the supposed reaction of your own kid? Are all kids supposed to react the same way you assume your kid would? You don’t actually know at all how your kid or any other would react. Heck, I’m an adult and no prude and I was taken aback when I saw that photo. I closed it pretty darn fast. Calling a kid a snowflake because he isn’t blasé about a graphi pornographic image is pretty low.

First all I never called the child a snowflake. SO if you are going to become indignant please have the comprehension to realize that there is more than one poster on this message board.
Secondly, unlike you I have experience with 11 year olds. I can say what is typical reaction for an 11 year old because I've raised 11 year olds, have one currently and have spent the last 20 years working with 11 year olds and have dealt with similar situations as OP describes and screaming and crying in response to seeing a pornographic image is atypical for an 11 year old. They might shut down the image fast, call it gross or stupid etc. Crying and screaming would not be typical reaction.

Do you know Op's kid?

Do you?

I don't and I don't claim to know what is normal for him. But Op knows her kid. And if Op says that her kid was freaked out and upset over seeing that image, I believe Op.

Good for you. I don't believe OP for other reasons. I actually think OP made the entire thing up. On the slim chance this is real OP wouldn't be the first parent to be fooled by their kid.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

I don't know what kind of hell hole your raising your kids in, but I can assure you that most 13/14 year old kid are not out getting/giving blow jobs. If you think that's normal that is really sad. I fell bad for your children.

It's not as rare as you would hope or like to think and you really can't predict if your kid will become sexually active early or not so I really hope you are talking with your kid and not assuming you don't need to because they won't do anything until they are 18 like you or because you've raised them in church and believe in abstinence until marriage.

If they are becoming sexually active early, that means that they are becoming sexually active well before the norm. If you think that is completely unavoidable and has nothing to do with your parenting style...that is sad.

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I wonder if your son started to tear up because he was worried about your reaction. I love my mom, but reacting appropriately was not her strong suit. I could totally see her crying and going on and on about loss of my innocence. Which would make me super uncomfortable to ever talk to her about anything sexual. Your kid is entering the years where he needs to feel safe and comfortable coming to you about things. And if your reactions are going to do the opposite, you really need to figure out how to change it.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

I don't know what kind of hell hole your raising your kids in, but I can assure you that most 13/14 year old kid are not out getting/giving blow jobs. If you think that's normal that is really sad. I fell bad for your children.

It's not as rare as you would hope or like to think and you really can't predict if your kid will become sexually active early or not so I really hope you are talking with your kid and not assuming you don't need to because they won't do anything until they are 18 like you or because you've raised them in church and believe in abstinence until marriage.

If they are becoming sexually active early, that means that they are becoming sexually active well before the norm. If you think that is completely unavoidable and has nothing to do with your parenting style...that is sad.

I think it's sad that kids become sexually active that early. What parenting style do you think that is? Only a foolish parent thinks my kid would never.

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Anonymous wrote:What kind of delicate snowflake are you raising that he CRIED? I mean, holy shit.

omg glad I'm not the only one who thought this.

+1. I laughed when I read that.

So you show your 11 y/o porn? At what age did you start with them? Did you skip picture books and go straight to Hustler?

NP here. Don't be stupid! I have never shown my 11 year old porn and had he seen the picture OP describes his reaction at age 11 would be a. "That's fake! " or b. That's gross or That's stupid!." Not screaming and crying. My 6 year old might scream and cry. Actually, my 11 yo might scream and cry too because he would know he would be in massive trouble for purposely looking up porn and then lying about it.

You are not as nice a person as you think you are. A grown up (a parent!) who would mock an 11 year old kid for being scared by a pornographic picture is.......pretty bad.

I'm not mocking the 1 year old. Please work on your comprehension and stop pulling things out of your behind because people don't agree with you. What I and others have said is the screaming and crying is not a typical reaction of an 11 year old.

You are mocking this kid. Not all kids are the same. Maybe yours is exposed to more adult stuff but clearly this one is not. I think an 11 who still has some innocence is a good thing. Why do these kids have to grow up so fast and be so immune to everything in the adult world? I would hope an 11 has never been exposed to that kind of thing and would be scared and shocked and upset. Expect kids to handle adult stuff like adults is ridiculous and sad.

You are aware that within 2-3 years, your 11 year old son will probably be receiving blow jobs, right? Although if he screams and cries...maybe not.

I don't know what kind of hell hole your raising your kids in, but I can assure you that most 13/14 year old kid are not out getting/giving blow jobs. If you think that's normal that is really sad. I fell bad for your children.

It's not as rare as you would hope or like to think and you really can't predict if your kid will become sexually active early or not so I really hope you are talking with your kid and not assuming you don't need to because they won't do anything until they are 18 like you or because you've raised them in church and believe in abstinence until marriage.

If they are becoming sexually active early, that means that they are becoming sexually active well before the norm. If you think that is completely unavoidable and has nothing to do with your parenting style...that is sad.

I think it's sad that kids become sexually active that early. What parenting style do you think that is? Only a foolish parent thinks my kid would never.

You are giving your kid w-a-y too long a leash and you are failing to provide adequate supervision of their activities. There are many time when you do not know where your kid is, what they are doing or who they are with.