Well, anonymous internet person strangely devoted to spanking, I think I will stick with the conclusions drawn by the vast majority of scientists examining this problem, even though they are not able to do a neat spanking/no spanking study design. |
OK. But remember, 50-90% of your children's friends are being spanked now. That may or may not color your interactions with them or their parents. Would it? |
?? Perhaps in your circles, certainly not in mine, where spanking went the way of smoking decades ago. |
Right. You believe this study, with this finding. But not the other studies, with the findings that 450-90% of parents spank. |
+1 spankers are not evenly distributed throughout the country, communities. (Although some of my in laws do spank-I think its an unwise choice made by loving parents. I am not sure what effect if any it will have on the kids as the research speaks to consequences on a population level, not individual. They feel similarly about our non spanking.) |
It's also possible (likely) that adults who have mental/emotional health problems are more likely to both hit children and produce children with anti-social behavior, aggression, mental health problems and cognitive difficulties. |
No, I'm just one of those people who disregards studies that are not scientifically sound. I have too much respect for the Scientific Method to pay any mind to this crap. |
"mild spanking" Calling it that might make you feel more civilized but the most accurate terminology is hitting children. |
Unfortunately, that seems to be nearly all of them. |
I can see in my own life that it works. Why would I need a study to confirm that? |
Yes, that is unfortunate indeed. But a lack of sound studies does not make a bad study good. |
Show me where they've actually done what they claim to have done, that is, where and how have they isolated the correlation factors? |
What you don't even realize is that I'm not a supporter of spanking at all. It's just not our choice. But there's no science that says it's bad. |
np. No, it most certainly did not. Furthermore, responding to one of the commenters upthread, my sister is a pediatrician who spanks her kids. Scientists who decide to study spanking are also a self-selecting group, keep in mind. |
How do you know that it works? How would your children behave and more importantly what kind of relationship would they have with you if you'd managed to raise them without ever hitting them? How confident would they be, how safe would the feel and what kind of relationships would they form as adults? |