Men are only as Faithful as their Options

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men desire to cheat. I'm not saying that all do. But if a man is alive, with a pulse, he has thought about it. The test will be when desire meets opportunity. It doesn't necessarily make them bad husbands or fathers. It's how the species survives. I understand the desire for women to cling fiercely to the notion that this is not some sort of DNA-based urge. I can say nothing to disabuse them of that notion. For those of us who understand reality, however, we become increasingly vigilant to protect against predatory females, we work hard to cut off opportunity, and we . . . give great head.

You are an awful and wrong-headed woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men desire to cheat. I'm not saying that all do. But if a man is alive, with a pulse, he has thought about it. The test will be when desire meets opportunity. It doesn't necessarily make them bad husbands or fathers. It's how the species survives. I understand the desire for women to cling fiercely to the notion that this is not some sort of DNA-based urge. I can say nothing to disabuse them of that notion. For those of us who understand reality, however, we become increasingly vigilant to protect against predatory females, we work hard to cut off opportunity, and we . . . give great head.

If he does cheat - it kinda does. I have never understood the women who say abotu their just-caught-cheating husbands, "but he's a great father." Not really, no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men desire to cheat. I'm not saying that all do. But if a man is alive, with a pulse, he has thought about it. The test will be when desire meets opportunity. It doesn't necessarily make them bad husbands or fathers. It's how the species survives. I understand the desire for women to cling fiercely to the notion that this is not some sort of DNA-based urge. I can say nothing to disabuse them of that notion. For those of us who understand reality, however, we become increasingly vigilant to protect against predatory females, we work hard to cut off opportunity, and we . . . give great head.

You are categorically wrong. See Shirley Glass's research on men and cheating.

[Anonymous]

Is there anyone out their whose relationship and family remained intact after a cheating sack of shit husband was exposed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People talk about cheating as if it's this grandiose endeavour, especially women.."blah blah blah , my man is equal parts George Clooney, Jesus, Ghandi, he LOVES his family and he adores me, he doesn't have time to cheat". I don't know what all of that has to do with cheating He can think that the sun rises and sets out of your ass but how does that stop him from a quicky blowjob on a business trip that no one will ever know about?

This. Newsflash: the quickie hummer doesn't stop him from wanting to grow old with you. But if it makes you feel better believing that there's no way he got that extra orgasm and plans to enjoy coffee with you in your 80's, OK.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People talk about cheating as if it's this grandiose endeavour, especially women.."blah blah blah , my man is equal parts George Clooney, Jesus, Ghandi, he LOVES his family and he adores me, he doesn't have time to cheat". I don't know what all of that has to do with cheating He can think that the sun rises and sets out of your ass but how does that stop him from a quicky blowjob on a business trip that no one will ever know about?

This. Newsflash: the quickie hummer doesn't stop him from wanting to grow old with you. But if it makes you feel better believing that there's no way he got that extra orgasm and plans to enjoy coffee with you in your 80's, OK.

Hmmm... maybe some people have integrity?

Just a guess. But if it makes you feel better to justify infidelity as something all men can and should do, go for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is there anyone out their whose relationship and family remained intact after a cheating sack of shit husband was exposed?

Ex POTUS Bill CLinton.

[Anonymous]

Come on. Ugly and poor men are the only ones who would never cheat. And I would qualify that by saying that there is no man ugly or poor enough that some sad, damaged woman will not lower herself to become involved with. You all know someone like this, sadly. If you don't, congratulations, you have led a life that has sheltered you from the garbage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is there anyone out their whose relationship and family remained intact after a cheating sack of shit husband was exposed?

Ex POTUS Bill CLinton.

Yeah, I think we've all noticed how Bill's voice has always been a little bit in the higher and fainter range since all of that business was exposed. I'm not sure that Hilary left him entirely "intact". But, they're not divorced, so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on. Ugly and poor men are the only ones who would never cheat. And I would qualify that by saying that there is no man ugly or poor enough that some sad, damaged woman will not lower herself to become involved with. You all know someone like this, sadly. If you don't, congratulations, you have led a life that has sheltered you from the garbage.

+1. As someone once said, "everybody is bangable just look at the couples in Wall Mart."

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone is saying that the hummer thing is right--but just that yeah, women are in denial about the fact that this is pretty likely to happen in a long term marriage. Gay men seem to have a better understanding of the inevitability of this. Many straight women think that they are so strong that this could never happen. Was Hilary Clinton somehow not strong? You've got to be kidding me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think anyone is saying that the hummer thing is right--but just that yeah, women are in denial about the fact that this is pretty likely to happen in a long term marriage. Gay men seem to have a better understanding of the inevitability of this. Many straight women think that they are so strong that this could never happen. Was Hilary Clinton somehow not strong? You've got to be kidding me.

Hillary apparently didn't give good head like DCUMs, which is what drove her no integrity having husband to Monica.

[Anonymous]

I definately thing that it is true. I think that the men who have options yet choose not to cheat are simply risk averse and/or afraid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.

You are disgusting.

Indeed. Honestly disgusting. But I wouldn't waste a chance. Like one of the pp said, it's a victimless crime.

So not true. My friend, a pediatric AIDS nurse, told me the story of a typical day for her at a hospital in New York state, where HIV testing on newborns is mandatory. Her job was to sit down with the new mom and tell her, "Your newborn baby has AIDS, you have AIDS, and your husband and father of your 4 other children is dying of undiagnosed HIV that he got from a two week affair he had ten years ago that he never told you about." She went on to tell me the husband/father was now suicidal.

So think about that next time you contemplate your victimless crime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men desire to cheat. I'm not saying that all do. But if a man is alive, with a pulse, he has thought about it. The test will be when desire meets opportunity. It doesn't necessarily make them bad husbands or fathers. It's how the species survives. I understand the desire for women to cling fiercely to the notion that this is not some sort of DNA-based urge. I can say nothing to disabuse them of that notion. For those of us who understand reality, however, we become increasingly vigilant to protect against predatory females, we work hard to cut off opportunity, and we . . . give great head.

It really pisses me off when men say there is an urge for men and don't acknowledge women. Come on, your wife thinks about other men all the time and she's pretty much just as likely to cheat. Women tend to think of the kids more but otherwise, it's fair game.