Ok, maybe Cher's son. I'm not sure, but I do recall some sort of drama with his ex-wife? I understand the concern, but plenty of child performers grow up healthy and successful—think of people like Zendaya, Jodie Foster, or even the kids from Stranger Things. It comes down to the support system around them, and from what we’ve seen, Blue Ivy seems to have a pretty solid one. |
+1 Thank you for your commonsense post. |
So, where do you draw the line? Is it ok for a talented young athlete to perform at elite levels? In front of audiences? Is it ok for a talented singer or musician to play with school groups, regional ensembles and perhaps religious programs— but not with their professional parents? What are the concerns here? What’s the magic ok age? And does that vary at all depending on things like the kid’s interests or skills or the level of supervision that can be provided? I’m thinking of people like Taylor Swift, Nathan Chen and Michelle Kwan here — and wondering if you think their parents should have held them back from training and performing publicly for fear of disrupting their age appropriate development? |
Pink and Cher were performing with their kids. Duet style. Blue Ivy had at least two solos where she was the show - the central performer with a team of back up dancers. Beyoncé wasn’t on stage with her.
I don’t think Taylor Swift or Michelle Kwan were doing world tours at 13 either? A quick google tells me Taylor Swift was 19/20 he first time she did a mini tour and Michelle Kwan first went to the Olympics at 16. |
So your issue is with kids of a certain age performing solos? Michelle Kwan did quite a few competitions prior to the Olympics— on a national and international level. At 12, against the wishes of her coach, she passed a test that would let her compete at a senior level. So a very public career at a very young age, after intense preparation from early childhood. I know less about Taylor Swift, but I believe that she signed her first record contract at 15 or so, and had been performing and writing songs since 12 or 13, when her family moved near Nashville for Taylor’s career. Both had quite a bit of family support. And both performed solo, with national and international audiences. I’m trying to tease out what the concerns are about Blue Ivy — that are somehow different from other young performers. |
I find it hard to believe you would compare Michelle Kwan's skating techniques to the gyrating moves of Beyonce and her daughter. |
Beyonces kid doesn’t look comfortable and doesn’t look like she’s enjoying herself ni don’t see joy, I don’t see relaxation, I don’t see excitement. |
She’s his cash cow trophy wife. That’s why. He was able to crossover to the mainstream thanks to his relationship with Beyonce. She loves him more than he loves her. She was 18 when they started dating in early 2000 and she was angry that her mommy and daddy kicked her friends out of the group. She was getting lots of heat back then for the Destinys child breakups and the favoritism obviously involved in her father managing the groups money and her mother doing the styling. She was a the parental project and Jay Z became yet another new parent. Why would a 31 year old man talk on the phone for a year with an 18 year old girl crying about her mommy and daddy and friends? |
I wonder if he will start to claim his kids born in the early 90s. They’re closer in age to Beyonce than he is. |
+1,000 |
NP. Kwan and Swift were on stage due to their talent. Young skaters are also the norm. Blue Ivy is on stage due to her mother’s talent. I didn’t find Blue’s involvement in the Renaissance tour inappropriate (also included a dance break) but she seems to be integrated into the entire show now. |
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There are probably quite a few things that you find hard to believe. Shrug. |
+1 this exactly. |
+1 no comparison |