I’m 34 and I have to ask permission for my SO to stay the night….

[Anonymous]

Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

Yeah, OP should totally marry someone to make her creepy uncle happy a couple of times a year. Seems like a good reason

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

Yeah, OP should totally marry someone to make her creepy uncle happy a couple of times a year. Seems like a good reason

+1000

[Anonymous]

F that. I would simply refuse to sleep at their house. You’re 35 freaking 5 and your family sounds like a bunch of religious fanatic nutjobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

Yeah, OP should totally marry someone to make her creepy uncle happy a couple of times a year. Seems like a good reason

No, but OP should start thinking about her future before it lands on her head.

[Anonymous]

OP is drip trolling, slightly modifying the story to keep the drama going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

Yeah, OP should totally marry someone to make her creepy uncle happy a couple of times a year. Seems like a good reason

No, but OP should start thinking about her future before it lands on her head.

Because you decided that for your life the pinnacle of happiness and accomplishment is walking down the isle so now everyone should think that marriage is the end all be all?

Sounds like OP is living her life the way she sees fit and doesn't need you to tell her how she should be doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is drip trolling, slightly modifying the story to keep the drama going.

Of all of the posts on DCUM this is one that I think is definitely real.

[Anonymous]

You are 34 OP. Stay somewhere else or don't go.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:you are weird.

No she is not. It's weird to treat her like a teenager.

No, she is weird. She is 34 for god’s sake and submit herself and her SO to somebody else’s rules????

OP you are a grown a$$ adult, start behaving like one. Get a hotel room if you want to go on the vacation and share it with your SO. Where you sleep and with whom is not something you negotiate or discuss with anybody

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are there going to be children/teens there? I can see how they might not like you having a SO, especially one they just met, sleeping in bed with you when their kids are around. It can be an awkward thing to have to discuss if they have traditional views of marriage and want children in the family to follow along.

Not agreeing with them, but can see their point outside of religion.

omg pay attention. OP doesn't want BoyFriend in the same room, only in the house. And, her uncle KNOWS the boyfriend. Reading is fundamental.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are 34 OP. Stay somewhere else or don't go.

This.. Precisely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are there going to be children/teens there? I can see how they might not like you having a SO, especially one they just met, sleeping in bed with you when their kids are around. It can be an awkward thing to have to discuss if they have traditional views of marriage and want children in the family to follow along.

Not agreeing with them, but can see their point outside of religion.

omg pay attention. OP doesn't want BoyFriend in the same room, only in the house. And, her uncle KNOWS the boyfriend. Reading is fundamental.

I know, right? It really is comical how terrible people are at reading and digesting information on this site. But every time the subject of IQ comes up, they are all 140 and above.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marry him and this wouldn't be an issue. Because as you said, you're 34.

Yeah, OP should totally marry someone to make her creepy uncle happy a couple of times a year. Seems like a good reason

No, but OP should start thinking about her future before it lands on her head.

Yes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why would you want to stay in this house with such a creepy uncle?

Aunt and Uncle are paying. They have religious convictions about unmarried people sharing a bed or roof, unclear which. Aunt is asked a question that she is justifiably concerned might not go over well with husband. She says she has to check with him. How is uncle now creepy??

If you don’t like the rules - knowing in advance what their convictions are - then get a hotel room.

None of this is hard and none of it warrants name calling the uncle.

they are PAYING THIS YEAR, because it's their turn. So they aren't any more entitled to the house than anyone else who is in the rotation and pays when it's their turn. Why are some of you incapable of reading??????????????????

I’m capable of reading just fine. THIS YEAR they are paying. OP isn’t complaining about another year. The point stands.

You are laughably dense Auntie
Just because they / you are paying this year doesn't mean they/ you are entitled to set rules that impacts the collective group.

What’s an auntie? Anyway yes literally it does, that’s why she asked.