Does your community pool have a dress code?

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Stop ogling women’s bodies, OP.

Don’t wanna be ogled? Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing.

But if you insist on letting your 16 year old daughter put her butt on display, then my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.

Ah, another one of those "she was asking for it" because of what she was wearing. Why are men so disgusting? Stop perpetuating this.

She IS asking to be ogled. That’s the whole point of her wearing a thong as opposed to a normal bikini bottom - that’s WHY she chose a thong - for the attention. That’s WHY she’s wearing it.

F’ing Duh.

So she deserves whatever happens to her because she's wearing a thong. And you're ok telling your children that "she wanted it" because she wore a certain piece of clothing?

At what point exactly did I say “she deserves whatever happens to her”, liar?

I said she’s asking to be looked at - ogled, in other words - for wearing that. And that’s EXACTLY WHY she wore it. To get ogled. That’s the only point of a thong. There is literally no other purpose for them.

She IS asking
for the attention
my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.
Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing

Who decides what is sexually flirtatious to you? It sounds like you decide that, for yourself. I don't find swim suits sexually flirtatious, so maybe that's a you problem. And you definitely said she was ASKING for the attention and implied that she DESERVES what happens because of the clothing she chose.

What is with the "And they should" part? Sounds ominous - you like to punish women for not adhering to your standards of decency?

Omg she did not say that. You are being ridiculous. Just stop.

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And he definitely implied it. Saying that "shes asking for it" and "she's wearing clothing specifically so she gets attention from my sons" is disgusting.

[Anonymous]

I went to a LGBTQRST fishing competition in NY called the "Bass and Ass" fishing competition, where the men had to where speedo or less type bathing suits. Felt sorry for those fellas. They didn't seem to have much money cause they were all doubling up on rooms.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Stop ogling women’s bodies, OP.

Don’t wanna be ogled? Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing.

But if you insist on letting your 16 year old daughter put her butt on display, then my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.

Ah, another one of those "she was asking for it" because of what she was wearing. Why are men so disgusting? Stop perpetuating this.

She IS asking to be ogled. That’s the whole point of her wearing a thong as opposed to a normal bikini bottom - that’s WHY she chose a thong - for the attention. That’s WHY she’s wearing it.

F’ing Duh.

So she deserves whatever happens to her because she's wearing a thong. And you're ok telling your children that "she wanted it" because she wore a certain piece of clothing?

At what point exactly did I say “she deserves whatever happens to her”, liar?

I said she’s asking to be looked at - ogled, in other words - for wearing that. And that’s EXACTLY WHY she wore it. To get ogled. That’s the only point of a thong. There is literally no other purpose for them.

This. When women who claim “it’s just more comfortable” or “I’m only wearing it for me!” aren’t fooling anyone. So you wear your thong when you clean your toilets? Because it’s so comfortable? And it’s just for you, and no one else?

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Stop ogling women’s bodies, OP.

Don’t wanna be ogled? Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing.

But if you insist on letting your 16 year old daughter put her butt on display, then my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.

Ah, another one of those "she was asking for it" because of what she was wearing. Why are men so disgusting? Stop perpetuating this.

She IS asking to be ogled. That’s the whole point of her wearing a thong as opposed to a normal bikini bottom - that’s WHY she chose a thong - for the attention. That’s WHY she’s wearing it.

F’ing Duh.

So she deserves whatever happens to her because she's wearing a thong. And you're ok telling your children that "she wanted it" because she wore a certain piece of clothing?

At what point exactly did I say “she deserves whatever happens to her”, liar?

I said she’s asking to be looked at - ogled, in other words - for wearing that. And that’s EXACTLY WHY she wore it. To get ogled. That’s the only point of a thong. There is literally no other purpose for them.

She IS asking
for the attention
my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.
Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing

Who decides what is sexually flirtatious to you? It sounds like you decide that, for yourself. I don't find swim suits sexually flirtatious, so maybe that's a you problem. And you definitely said she was ASKING for the attention and implied that she DESERVES what happens because of the clothing she chose.

What is with the "And they should" part? Sounds ominous - you like to punish women for not adhering to your standards of decency?

Omg she did not say that. You are being ridiculous. Just stop.

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And he definitely implied it. Saying that "shes asking for it" and "she's wearing clothing specifically so she gets attention from my sons" is disgusting.

No, SHE.

I’m the one with two teen boys, who I fully expect to be grabbing as much of an eyeful as they can if they see a girl with a mature body wearing a thong.

And I’ll probably do some ogling, too. I fooled around with enough girls in HS and college to enjoy a nice body when I see one. And that includes your daughter if she puts it on display.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Stop ogling women’s bodies, OP.

Don’t wanna be ogled? Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing.

But if you insist on letting your 16 year old daughter put her butt on display, then my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.

Ah, another one of those "she was asking for it" because of what she was wearing. Why are men so disgusting? Stop perpetuating this.

She IS asking to be ogled. That’s the whole point of her wearing a thong as opposed to a normal bikini bottom - that’s WHY she chose a thong - for the attention. That’s WHY she’s wearing it.

F’ing Duh.

So she deserves whatever happens to her because she's wearing a thong. And you're ok telling your children that "she wanted it" because she wore a certain piece of clothing?

At what point exactly did I say “she deserves whatever happens to her”, liar?

I said she’s asking to be looked at - ogled, in other words - for wearing that. And that’s EXACTLY WHY she wore it. To get ogled. That’s the only point of a thong. There is literally no other purpose for them.

She IS asking
for the attention
my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.
Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing

Who decides what is sexually flirtatious to you? It sounds like you decide that, for yourself. I don't find swim suits sexually flirtatious, so maybe that's a you problem. And you definitely said she was ASKING for the attention and implied that she DESERVES what happens because of the clothing she chose.

What is with the "And they should" part? Sounds ominous - you like to punish women for not adhering to your standards of decency?

Omg she did not say that. You are being ridiculous. Just stop.

He*
And he definitely implied it. Saying that "shes asking for it" and "she's wearing clothing specifically so she gets attention from my sons" is disgusting.

No, SHE.

I’m the one with two teen boys, who I fully expect to be grabbing as much of an eyeful as they can if they see a girl with a mature body wearing a thong.

And I’ll probably do some ogling, too. I fooled around with enough girls in HS and college to enjoy a nice body when I see one. And that includes your daughter if she puts it on display.

sure

I also see where your sons get their pervert gene. Admitting to checking out children? Yikes. Hope you're going on a list somewhere...

[Anonymous]

We should probably keep women hidden from the public until age 21. Just to prevent any problems with lusting men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We should probably keep women hidden from the public until age 21. Just to prevent any problems with lusting men.

I like the idea of institutionalizing men until age 26 better

[Anonymous]

OP and anyone else who has a problem with thongs or tiny bathing suits get a life.


GOP = Party of Pedos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP and anyone else who has a problem with thongs or tiny bathing suits get a life.


GOP = Party of Pedos.

I don’t have a problem with them at all. Wear whatever the hell you like! But don’t pretend you’re not looking for attention. Because you are - no question. At least own it. And DO NOT complain when people look. As a brilliant poster upthread said, “if you’re putting on a show, your audience is going to watch.”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP and anyone else who has a problem with thongs or tiny bathing suits get a life.


GOP = Party of Pedos.

I don’t have a problem with them at all. Wear whatever the hell you like! But don’t pretend you’re not looking for attention. Because you are - no question. At least own it. And DO NOT complain when people look. As a brilliant poster upthread said, “if you’re putting on a show, your audience is going to watch.”

Except I'm not an actor for you. I'm just a human living my life.

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure why everyone here is so uptight about a little skin. Sometimes I get hot so in order to be comfortable at the community pool, I go topless and let my 32DDs breathe. It’s the norm in a few places in Europe so you UPTIGHT PURITANICAL Americans need to stop being so prudish and POLICING my body. Are you suggesting that I am seeking male attention by simply letting the girls get some sun!? HOW DARE YOU sexualize my body in this manner! They’re just nipples and everyone has them, get over yourself, prude.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not sure why everyone here is so uptight about a little skin. Sometimes I get hot so in order to be comfortable at the community pool, I go topless and let my 32DDs breathe. It’s the norm in a few places in Europe so you UPTIGHT PURITANICAL Americans need to stop being so prudish and POLICING my body. Are you suggesting that I am seeking male attention by simply letting the girls get some sun!? HOW DARE YOU sexualize my body in this manner! They’re just nipples and everyone has them, get over yourself, prude.

Bless you. You’re doing the Lord’s work.

[Anonymous]

No, and the dads love it.

[Anonymous]

Don’t wanna be ogled? Don’t wear thongs or other sexually flirtatious clothing.

But if you insist on letting your 16 year old daughter put her butt on display, then my sons are going to ogle her all day long. And they should.

Ok, so the young woman or teenage girl is wearing the risqué bikini to get attention - and she gets attention.
And your teenage sons ogle - they're not complaining.

What's your problem then? What's the position you're trying to hold here?

[Anonymous]

I don’t have a problem with them at all. Wear whatever the hell you like! But don’t pretend you’re not looking for attention. Because you are - no question. At least own it. And DO NOT complain when people look. As a brilliant poster upthread said, “if you’re putting on a show, your audience is going to watch.”

In what form should I 'own it'? It seems like just being at the pool in a sexy bikini doesn't quite cut it for you. Should I come to you, a stranger, and say: 'I admit, I chose the swimwear because I enjoy the male gaze.' Should I say I'm sorry or is that unnecessary?