Men dating younger women gives me the ick

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Infertile women give men the ick. As do women who with lose morals in their past.

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OP is insecure

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

Asian American here. This is so insulting. I’m an Asian American woman married to another Asian American man. We met in grad school and 1 year apart. Almost every couple we know the couple met in their twenties or early thirties and are <5 years apart in age.

Yes, Asian women tend to marry men who are not total losers. I don’t think they marry for status or wealth. What a ridiculous thing to say. In my culture, education is very well respected. Many women marry educated men who also have professional careers. That is just status quo. We are also well educated so it isn’t like we aren’t qualified to marry a fellow well educated partner.

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Anonymous wrote:Infertile women give men the ick. As do women who with lose morals in their past.

Haha how is your limo d1ck?

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

Asian American here. This is so insulting. I’m an Asian American woman married to another Asian American man. We met in grad school and 1 year apart. Almost every couple we know the couple met in their twenties or early thirties and are <5 years apart in age.

Yes, Asian women tend to marry men who are not total losers. I don’t think they marry for status or wealth. What a ridiculous thing to say. In my culture, education is very well respected. Many women marry educated men who also have professional careers. That is just status quo. We are also well educated so it isn’t like we aren’t qualified to marry a fellow well educated partner.

It’s well known Asian women are very practical. If it wasn’t for status upgrade, she would have married a young well educated Asian guy. No deficit of fellow educated men of same age group in this specific community.
But if it a white make it will be almost always a much older dude.

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Anonymous wrote:Infertile women give men the ick. As do women who with lose morals in their past.

Haha how is your limo d1ck?

Is that your experience with men? You must give them the ick if they cant perform.

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Anonymous wrote:Infertile women give men the ick. As do women who with lose morals in their past.

Haha how is your limo d1ck?

I don't know what that means but now I wonder if limo dick is a good thing? Is that what you ride during your limo ride. Splain, Lucy.

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MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

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Anonymous wrote:MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

What, she's so hot you were blinded and couldn't find your way to a jewelry store to buy a ring? Why strong her along?

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Anonymous wrote:MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

So disgusting pig and wasting this womans time. Why would you date so long and not show any commitment?

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

Asian American here. This is so insulting. I’m an Asian American woman married to another Asian American man. We met in grad school and 1 year apart. Almost every couple we know the couple met in their twenties or early thirties and are <5 years apart in age.

Yes, Asian women tend to marry men who are not total losers. I don’t think they marry for status or wealth. What a ridiculous thing to say. In my culture, education is very well respected. Many women marry educated men who also have professional careers. That is just status quo. We are also well educated so it isn’t like we aren’t qualified to marry a fellow well educated partner.

It’s well known Asian women are very practical. If it wasn’t for status upgrade, she would have married a young well educated Asian guy. No deficit of fellow educated men of same age group in this specific community.
But if it a white make it will be almost always a much older dude.

We know many mixed Asian and white couples and the man is not much older. I would not say this is the norm at all. It is more likely that they met in school or work like other normal professional couples.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

Who are older women supposed to date, if men their age are dating younger women?

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Despite what a lot of women on this forum say about younger women dating older men it has not matched my experience in the real world. I have been divorced 2 years now. I am 49 and currently dating a woman who is 46. She was the best fit for me. However I was honestly surprised how women as young as 32 were genuinely interesting in me. Yes I make a good living, I am attractive, in good shape etc. But I just never understood the appeal of a man older than a woman by 17 years and who already has kids and done having kids. At first I didn't care about the age range I was going on old to have fun but every single woman under 35 that I dated after a month a so not only wanted a serious relationship but a couple were actually in love. It is as if women don't care about the age gap. Perhaps society has conditioned them that it's okay to be with a man of any age.

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Anonymous wrote:Despite what a lot of women on this forum say about younger women dating older men it has not matched my experience in the real world. I have been divorced 2 years now. I am 49 and currently dating a woman who is 46. She was the best fit for me. However I was honestly surprised how women as young as 32 were genuinely interesting in me. Yes I make a good living, I am attractive, in good shape etc. But I just never understood the appeal of a man older than a woman by 17 years and who already has kids and done having kids. At first I didn't care about the age range I was going on old to have fun but every single woman under 35 that I dated after a month a so not only wanted a serious relationship but a couple were actually in love. It is as if women don't care about the age gap. Perhaps society has conditioned them that it's okay to be with a man of any age.

You are probably a good listener and you make good money, allowing them to potentially stay at home (plus they maybe thought they could change your mind about kids). That is basically what women want—look at the preponderance of SAHMs on this site.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

For God's sake, what do her parents think about this arrangement? Why does she need free rent? She is going to drop your sorry ass when she graduates.

Did you read that he also makes her do threesomes with his second 30s something GF? Disgusting and I also wonder what her “good family” phDs folks think about it

I did not read that but now I think he is a troll.

Obviously a troll. Successful men with multiple young girlfriends don't have time to post on forums trying to piss off middle-aged women.

Funny thing is the responders are probably trolls, too. Just a bunch of trolls getting upset over an entirely fake situation.