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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around [/quote]
That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed.  Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.[/quote]

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

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Is she Asian  ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question. [/quote]

Np but is being Asian an issue?[/quote]

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

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Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years. 
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily  SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

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Asian American here. This is so insulting. I’m an Asian American woman married to another Asian American man. We met in grad school and 1 year apart. Almost every couple we know the couple met in their twenties or early thirties and are <5 years apart in age.

Yes, Asian women tend to marry men who are not total losers. I don’t think they marry for status or wealth. What a ridiculous thing to say. In my culture, education is very well respected. Many women marry educated men who also have professional careers. That is just status quo. We are also well educated so it isn’t like we aren’t qualified to marry a fellow well educated partner.[/quote]

It’s well known Asian women are very practical. If it wasn’t for status upgrade, she would have married a young well educated Asian guy. No deficit of fellow educated men of same age group in this specific community. 
But if it a white make it will be almost always a much older dude. [/quote]

We know many mixed Asian and white couples and the man is not much older. I would not say this is the norm at all. It is more likely that they met in school or work like other normal professional couples.[/quote]

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