Men dating younger women gives me the ick

[Anonymous]

you people, don't be so judgmental. as long as legal age, who gives F?

[Anonymous]

Because there’s nothing better than fit 20-something women!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a man and I find older women with younger men incredibly creepy.

Me too. It's weird (I'm a woman). I think a 10 year gap is OK, but 15 is pushing it.

My guy is 20 years younger.

People always think we are the same age. We are both good looking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a man and I find older women with younger men incredibly creepy.

Me too. It's weird (I'm a woman). I think a 10 year gap is OK, but 15 is pushing it.

I'm a man and a male friend of mine is married to a woman 15 years older - they are soulmates and perfect together. You can't control when you were born.

[Anonymous]

I think you’re just mad that the tables turn for men once they become successful at the same point as your own looks diminishing. You had your day in the sun as a young hot 20 something, now it’s time for established successful men to have theirs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It could be based on the fact that men are seen as being more creepy sexually than women are.

I have seen photos of older men w/younger women (young enough in years to even be his daughter) and all I think is…..eww, what a creeper.

But then when I see a photo of an older woman posed w/a younger guy I feel like it just makes the woman appear sad.
Like she is trying too hard to still be young + visible.

I totally own my opinion, I fully realize the double-standard here. 😂

I actually have to agree with this sentiment even though I totally agree that such thinking evokes a double standard.

[Anonymous]

Why would a man dating a younger woman care if older women didn’t like it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would a man dating a younger woman care if older women didn’t like it?

Yeah, they don't care at all and that's probably even more infuriating.

I love the trigger words OP tried to weave into her OP, i.e. "their inferior sperm" LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was 23 and working in hospital before med school, I remember an older man in a suit walking by me and giving me the up and down look. I thought he was a friend of my father (who also worked in the hospital) so I made eye contact, and it was immediately apparent that it was a leer, rather than a look. I was really taken aback, and pretty uncomfortable. I’d say this guy was early 40’s-ish.

I know some women report attraction to older men at that age, and to each his/her own. But honestly I think there’s something wrong there, on both ends, when I see those couples. There’s no commonality of life experience.

Same. Thought it when I was in my 20s and feel the same way now at 33.

[Anonymous]

It gives you the ick because everyone on some level imagines couples having sex. And an old fat unattractive man doing a young attractive woman makes us want to throw up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It gives you the ick because everyone on some level imagines couples having sex. And an old fat unattractive man doing a young attractive woman makes us want to throw up.

This is a cliche from a bygone era. In May December romances now, both partners have to be at least attractive enough to achieve the initial swipe right.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you’re responding to their physical attributes and they way she dresses more than anything else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a man and I find older women with younger men incredibly creepy.

Me too. It's weird (I'm a woman). I think a 10 year gap is OK, but 15 is pushing it.

My guy is 20 years younger.

People always think we are the same age. We are both good looking.

Oh please… He looks as old as you?

[Anonymous]

I’m 47 dating a 34 year old man. At 47 many would say the only men I could attract are likely 55+. No guy 60 is going to be able to perform like a 34 year old, maybe once but not twice or more. I’m sure this relationship will end one day but for now it’s great.

[Anonymous]

MYOB. You are disrespectful to these women.