Men dating younger women gives me the ick

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I date younger and anyone who claims it makes them feel younger is lying or (more likely) delusional. I am aware of the age difference every day.

Dating someone 20 years younger is taking your hands off the steering wheel on the beltway and seeing how long you can go until you crash

That's part of the fun, but only enjoyable if you have the confidence you can quickly meets someone else when she inevitably moves on.

I’m a woman and genuinely don’t understand how men can handle it emotionally dating younger! I dated a guy once who as only a year younger than me, but he was extremely handsome and young looking. All that body so smooth, curly hair, firm D, was driving me crazy wanting to own him, do so many things for him. But also amplified my feeling of aging and made me insecure and jealous. I can’t imagine dating a child 20 years younger and not thinking all the time they are only with me for money, stability, status, life experience and I’ll be disposed in a matter of a few months

That’s terrible. I feel way better dating older men ( up to 10 years older as much older they look geriatric to me).

There's a difference dating younger and same generation. Younger is for the fun of it. It's not a long term thing. And it's very easy and uncomplicated. The emotions - such as they are - are pretty simple.

Same generation is different. That's the life partner zone. So obviously, people are going to be more particular. The connection is going to be more real and meaningful. Now people are risking things. It's much more intense. And mostly everyone over thirty five is going to be divorced. So a lot going on. It's a much more interesting space.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

So disgusting pig and wasting this womans time. Why would you date so long and not show any commitment?

That's between her and I and we like it that way. Who says I haven't shown any commitment? Do you think that marriage is the only way to do that? Meanwhile 50% of marriages end in divorce. And you're trying to sell me on that? Sorry, BTDT< both of us.

She’s divorced? But I thought she was ~*~So PeTiTe~*~. Why would anyone divorce her?

Seriously I don’t care that your gf is younger than you but you’re gross. And not because she’s young but because instead of telling us anything about her personality, how she’s fun, keeps you young, whatever, the first thing you tell us about her is “she weighs 107 pounds.”

And looks like a child

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I date younger and anyone who claims it makes them feel younger is lying or (more likely) delusional. I am aware of the age difference every day.

Dating someone 20 years younger is taking your hands off the steering wheel on the beltway and seeing how long you can go until you crash

That's part of the fun, but only enjoyable if you have the confidence you can quickly meets someone else when she inevitably moves on.

I’m a woman and genuinely don’t understand how men can handle it emotionally dating younger! I dated a guy once who as only a year younger than me, but he was extremely handsome and young looking. All that body so smooth, curly hair, firm D, was driving me crazy wanting to own him, do so many things for him. But also amplified my feeling of aging and made me insecure and jealous. I can’t imagine dating a child 20 years younger and not thinking all the time they are only with me for money, stability, status, life experience and I’ll be disposed in a matter of a few months

That’s terrible. I feel way better dating older men ( up to 10 years older as much older they look geriatric to me).

There's a difference dating younger and same generation. Younger is for the fun of it. It's not a long term thing. And it's very easy and uncomplicated. The emotions - such as they are - are pretty simple.

Same generation is different. That's the life partner zone. So obviously, people are going to be more particular. The connection is going to be more real and meaningful. Now people are risking things. It's much more intense. And mostly everyone over thirty five is going to be divorced. So a lot going on. It's a much more interesting space.

Well, men here claim that all divorced women over 40 are “expired” only for f..ng . But younger women are relationship material. I don’t get it how, having this experience dating a younger man myself

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

So disgusting pig and wasting this womans time. Why would you date so long and not show any commitment?

That's between her and I and we like it that way. Who says I haven't shown any commitment? Do you think that marriage is the only way to do that? Meanwhile 50% of marriages end in divorce. And you're trying to sell me on that? Sorry, BTDT< both of us.

She’s divorced? But I thought she was ~*~So PeTiTe~*~. Why would anyone divorce her?

Seriously I don’t care that your gf is younger than you but you’re gross. And not because she’s young but because instead of telling us anything about her personality, how she’s fun, keeps you young, whatever, the first thing you tell us about her is “she weighs 107 pounds.”

And looks like a child

If I could get a look at you two, I'm sure I'd understand why you are so angry. To be certain, she is fun and we are both fun together. The looks we get from angry harpies like you only adds to our fun.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Despite what a lot of women on this forum say about younger women dating older men it has not matched my experience in the real world. I have been divorced 2 years now. I am 49 and currently dating a woman who is 46. She was the best fit for me. However I was honestly surprised how women as young as 32 were genuinely interesting in me. Yes I make a good living, I am attractive, in good shape etc. But I just never understood the appeal of a man older than a woman by 17 years and who already has kids and done having kids. At first I didn't care about the age range I was going on old to have fun but every single woman under 35 that I dated after a month a so not only wanted a serious relationship but a couple were actually in love. It is as if women don't care about the age gap. Perhaps society has conditioned them that it's okay to be with a man of any age.

I bet if you told those younger women you already had a vasectomy they would drop you like a hot potato.

"Oops" babies happen all the time with divorced high-earning men in their late 40s - 50s and women in their 30s.

It's more fun to not tell and watch them sneakily try to get pregnant while claiming to be on BC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I date younger and anyone who claims it makes them feel younger is lying or (more likely) delusional. I am aware of the age difference every day.

Dating someone 20 years younger is taking your hands off the steering wheel on the beltway and seeing how long you can go until you crash

That's part of the fun, but only enjoyable if you have the confidence you can quickly meets someone else when she inevitably moves on.

I’m a woman and genuinely don’t understand how men can handle it emotionally dating younger! I dated a guy once who as only a year younger than me, but he was extremely handsome and young looking. All that body so smooth, curly hair, firm D, was driving me crazy wanting to own him, do so many things for him. But also amplified my feeling of aging and made me insecure and jealous. I can’t imagine dating a child 20 years younger and not thinking all the time they are only with me for money, stability, status, life experience and I’ll be disposed in a matter of a few months

That’s terrible. I feel way better dating older men ( up to 10 years older as much older they look geriatric to me).

You do not understand the biology and the psychology of the male specie. If you did you will understand. Men and women are very different. Somehow today society wants u to believe that we are the same and think the same. We are not and never will be.

I don’t think so. I agree men and women are different overall. But as far as that line in bold. That’s how men feel about younger women. They go crazy in that way for the youth and want to do stuff for the women. Even if she is less than whatever the wife was at that same age. They don’t care to lose control.

But there is actually a book called season of a man’s life and woman. They BOTH go through similar things at ages 40. Women just don’t like to suffer so they don’t want to do things for the younger man like that overall.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MY GF of 7 years is 14 years younger than me, very petite, about 107 pounds and looks 5-10 years younger than her age. I'll admit to showing (PG) photos of her and bragging about it a little to my guy friends and work mates, most of whom do not seem very happy in their marriages.

We have a great relationship and she enjoys the comments and looks we get from some people even more than I do. Neither of us care one bit about anyone's negative view of our relationship.

Why does anyone care about another couple? What a strange thing to care about. Your judgmental attitude says a lot about you and none of it is good.

Live your own life, love who you want and be happy for anyone else who has found love no matter what that couple looks like to you.

So disgusting pig and wasting this womans time. Why would you date so long and not show any commitment?

That's between her and I and we like it that way. Who says I haven't shown any commitment? Do you think that marriage is the only way to do that? Meanwhile 50% of marriages end in divorce. And you're trying to sell me on that? Sorry, BTDT< both of us.

She’s divorced? But I thought she was ~*~So PeTiTe~*~. Why would anyone divorce her?

Seriously I don’t care that your gf is younger than you but you’re gross. And not because she’s young but because instead of telling us anything about her personality, how she’s fun, keeps you young, whatever, the first thing you tell us about her is “she weighs 107 pounds.”

And looks like a child

I never said she was divorced and it's not relevant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Despite what a lot of women on this forum say about younger women dating older men it has not matched my experience in the real world. I have been divorced 2 years now. I am 49 and currently dating a woman who is 46. She was the best fit for me. However I was honestly surprised how women as young as 32 were genuinely interesting in me. Yes I make a good living, I am attractive, in good shape etc. But I just never understood the appeal of a man older than a woman by 17 years and who already has kids and done having kids. At first I didn't care about the age range I was going on old to have fun but every single woman under 35 that I dated after a month a so not only wanted a serious relationship but a couple were actually in love. It is as if women don't care about the age gap. Perhaps society has conditioned them that it's okay to be with a man of any age.

I bet if you told those younger women you already had a vasectomy they would drop you like a hot potato.

"Oops" babies happen all the time with divorced high-earning men in their late 40s - 50s and women in their 30s.

It's more fun to not tell and watch them sneakily try to get pregnant while claiming to be on BC.

I am a divorced man 46 years old and I have heard this but I think it's just anecdotes. Why would a 32 years old woman want to have a child with a 46 years old with teens? She has everything to loose and nothing to gain. I won't help raise the child and she knows it. Sure I'll pay child support because it's my legal obligation. But I am not legally obliged to be in the childs life. And I would think most rational women will rather abort than have a child with a guy who thinks like me. I am just being real and do not speak for all men. But I think some of these men who think that women lie about being on birth control and generalizing. Okay maybe a 24 years old woman dating a 26 years old guy that she wants to "lock" I could mayyyybe see A woman somewhere in Pudduck going that route.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I date younger and anyone who claims it makes them feel younger is lying or (more likely) delusional. I am aware of the age difference every day.

Dating someone 20 years younger is taking your hands off the steering wheel on the beltway and seeing how long you can go until you crash

That's part of the fun, but only enjoyable if you have the confidence you can quickly meets someone else when she inevitably moves on.

I’m a woman and genuinely don’t understand how men can handle it emotionally dating younger! I dated a guy once who as only a year younger than me, but he was extremely handsome and young looking. All that body so smooth, curly hair, firm D, was driving me crazy wanting to own him, do so many things for him. But also amplified my feeling of aging and made me insecure and jealous. I can’t imagine dating a child 20 years younger and not thinking all the time they are only with me for money, stability, status, life experience and I’ll be disposed in a matter of a few months

That’s terrible. I feel way better dating older men ( up to 10 years older as much older they look geriatric to me).

You do not understand the biology and the psychology of the male specie. If you did you will understand. Men and women are very different. Somehow today society wants u to believe that we are the same and think the same. We are not and never will be.

I don’t think so. I agree men and women are different overall. But as far as that line in bold. That’s how men feel about younger women. They go crazy in that way for the youth and want to do stuff for the women. Even if she is less than whatever the wife was at that same age. They don’t care to lose control.

But there is actually a book called season of a man’s life and woman. They BOTH go through similar things at ages 40. Women just don’t like to suffer so they don’t want to do things for the younger man like that overall.

Men who do that are dumb and foolish. I am recently divorced and no woman will ever and repeat ever gets anything close to 50% of me I don't care how young beautiful she is. I was that faithful gave you gave 120% to his wife devoted to his kids did everything as far communication counseling you named it and still got cheated on. I am not going down that route again. Not only I am making substantially more money with a better career post divorce, I bought a house to my liking, I am having a good time with my kids when I have them, I no longer have to compromise with an unreasonable woman, don't have to wonder whether she is being faithful or not.

And by the way women can say the same exact thing about men post divorce and they are right. My point is once you have gone they deep committed route and it failed you will think twice. Yes I do see those foolish men throwing money time effort to his young women. But hey the can do them lol

[Anonymous]

Maybe you’re jealous?

I was 45 and dated a 27 year old and I was more concerned about age than she was. In any case it was nice to still be attractive enough phsycallly to attract someone younger and have a good time with them. Plus, most times younger women aren’t bitter and angry - like you seem to be - and tend to be cheerful, fun and nice. I used to go to the gym with her and we hung out and did things together. It didn’t work out as life differences and it was probably for the best bit she was a great person and I hope she’s doing well now.

Anyways stay jealous, I had fun dating someone younger and would have done it again if I reversed time.

[Anonymous]

I have a divorced friend in his mid 50s who is engaged to a 30 year old who is slightly older than his children. My wife and I have been married over 30 years and he is very jealous of us. I am not jealous of him given what his life could end up being like. It helps that my wife is still pretty hot and loves sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you’re jealous?

I was 45 and dated a 27 year old and I was more concerned about age than she was. In any case it was nice to still be attractive enough phsycallly to attract someone younger and have a good time with them. Plus, most times younger women aren’t bitter and angry - like you seem to be - and tend to be cheerful, fun and nice. I used to go to the gym with her and we hung out and did things together. It didn’t work out as life differences and it was probably for the best bit she was a great person and I hope she’s doing well now.

Anyways stay jealous, I had fun dating someone younger and would have done it again if I reversed time.

Maybe so, it’s hard never being able to find someone in their 40s who wants a 40 year old female. Maybe it’s jealously and a little bit of anger. But I also can say an 18 year age gap for me is a bit much and I can’t imagine. But good for you for being so attractive to be able to pull such a young female. It sucks for us older women who are in our 40s (who are still attractive and in shape but are not 20 anymore) and can’t get someone our age because they are busy with the twenty year olds. I have no issues saying I’m jealous but I can also think a 18 year age gap is gross. 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you’re jealous?

I was 45 and dated a 27 year old and I was more concerned about age than she was. In any case it was nice to still be attractive enough phsycallly to attract someone younger and have a good time with them. Plus, most times younger women aren’t bitter and angry - like you seem to be - and tend to be cheerful, fun and nice. I used to go to the gym with her and we hung out and did things together. It didn’t work out as life differences and it was probably for the best bit she was a great person and I hope she’s doing well now.


“Bitter and angry” - sorry you’ve been hurt in the past. Not all women in their 30s and 40s are angry and bitter. Just like not all men in their 30s and 40s are cheaters and dicks.

Anyways stay jealous, I had fun dating someone younger and would have done it again if I reversed time.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, 36 to mid twenties isn’t really the type of age difference one should feel ick about.