Men dating younger women gives me the ick

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

She’s not smart and sold herself for free rent at critical age for finding a spouse. She should be actively dating young doctors she’s at school with, otherwise she’ll be single after 30 scrambling to find a husband. There are men in their 30s who are just as well established as you are.

I married an 11 years older man at 25, when I already had 2 grad degrees and an excellent job. Had a baby at 26; first house at 27. We were both working and contributing relative our income into marriage - nobody had “free rent” as motivator to be in the relationship. Traveled all over the world and had date nights every week. We were making 300k in joint income back in early 2000s; close to a million at the time of divorce. I wouldn’t have married anyone like you with such limited life outlook.

As my exH turned 50, he had a midlife crisis and our age difference and interests drifted apart. 11 years feel great when you are 25 and he’s 36. Terrible in middle age. We divorced but I don’t regret marriage and my son. We’ve built tremendous wealth so I exited with own business worth a few million.

You GF is not practical and likely not even a 7. Smart and attractive women marry well in late 20s.

5'8, 125lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, GND super cute facial features and when she dresses up with makeup on turns heads like no one else

in her words she has no time to date young doctors (who themselves have no time to date) .. she isn't a resident she is in med school i think you are referring to residency when docs date and find their partners .. she has a few years to go and most likely will not be doing residency in the DC area (if you know anything about how medical residency works) so by then our relationship will have run its course and she will be free to find her forever person

but thanks for your bitter negative comments and enjoy the rest of your sad midlife

Okay but she’s at high risk of complaining on this board at 35 that all decent men her age and slightly older are “taken”. She should be very actively dating 30s men NOW to get married and have kids by 35. Of course if that’s what she wants

i'm not in the medical profession myself ... but my whole family on my mothers side (8 cousins) are all MDs and they all found MD spouses within 2-3 years of their own age during residency in their early 30s or late 20s. this girl has a long time to go. let her concentrate on her MD education and pseudo sugar daddy for now

I get it - seems like medical ladies have it more difficult way than MBAs. The dude is not even remotely qualified for a good sugar daddy. Any smart woman would find ways paying her rent than putting out for a 20+ older man. Or will find a real sugar daddy

And why don’t you marry her, the PP older man ? Is that because you realize she only needs you for free rent ?

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

She’s not smart and sold herself for free rent at critical age for finding a spouse. She should be actively dating young doctors she’s at school with, otherwise she’ll be single after 30 scrambling to find a husband. There are men in their 30s who are just as well established as you are.

I married an 11 years older man at 25, when I already had 2 grad degrees and an excellent job. Had a baby at 26; first house at 27. We were both working and contributing relative our income into marriage - nobody had “free rent” as motivator to be in the relationship. Traveled all over the world and had date nights every week. We were making 300k in joint income back in early 2000s; close to a million at the time of divorce. I wouldn’t have married anyone like you with such limited life outlook.

As my exH turned 50, he had a midlife crisis and our age difference and interests drifted apart. 11 years feel great when you are 25 and he’s 36. Terrible in middle age. We divorced but I don’t regret marriage and my son. We’ve built tremendous wealth so I exited with own business worth a few million.

You GF is not practical and likely not even a 7. Smart and attractive women marry well in late 20s.

5'8, 125lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, GND super cute facial features and when she dresses up with makeup on turns heads like no one else

in her words she has no time to date young doctors (who themselves have no time to date) .. she isn't a resident she is in med school i think you are referring to residency when docs date and find their partners .. she has a few years to go and most likely will not be doing residency in the DC area (if you know anything about how medical residency works) so by then our relationship will have run its course and she will be free to find her forever person

but thanks for your bitter negative comments and enjoy the rest of your sad midlife

Okay but she’s at high risk of complaining on this board at 35 that all decent men her age and slightly older are “taken”. She should be very actively dating 30s men NOW to get married and have kids by 35. Of course if that’s what she wants

i'm not in the medical profession myself ... but my whole family on my mothers side (8 cousins) are all MDs and they all found MD spouses within 2-3 years of their own age during residency in their early 30s or late 20s. this girl has a long time to go. let her concentrate on her MD education and pseudo sugar daddy for now

I get it - seems like medical ladies have it more difficult way than MBAs. The dude is not even remotely qualified for a good sugar daddy. Any smart woman would find ways paying her rent than putting out for a 20+ older man. Or will find a real sugar daddy

And why don’t you marry her, the PP older man ? Is that because you realize she only needs you for free rent ?

No interest in marriage. I’ve been married 20yrs have two kids. Now I’m enjoying an ENM and poly lifestyle. MD girl is my primary nesting partner for the past almost 3 years. I have another lover she is in her 30s divorced single mom who has no interest in marriage again either. I’ve been dating her almost 5yrs

The best part is they know each other are great friends and on occasion we have special “fun” nights together.

Now why would I want to be married?

Oh and in case you are wondering I own my own company have almost 50 employees and several managers who run things for me. I spend 5-10hr a week “working” I’ll be 50 next year. I have the life most can only dream of

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The real question is why do you care? Does it impact your life? No.

Mind your own business. It literally has no impact on you. It's your choice to care. Stop caring about pointless stuff.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

She’s not smart and sold herself for free rent at critical age for finding a spouse. She should be actively dating young doctors she’s at school with, otherwise she’ll be single after 30 scrambling to find a husband. There are men in their 30s who are just as well established as you are.

I married an 11 years older man at 25, when I already had 2 grad degrees and an excellent job. Had a baby at 26; first house at 27. We were both working and contributing relative our income into marriage - nobody had “free rent” as motivator to be in the relationship. Traveled all over the world and had date nights every week. We were making 300k in joint income back in early 2000s; close to a million at the time of divorce. I wouldn’t have married anyone like you with such limited life outlook.

As my exH turned 50, he had a midlife crisis and our age difference and interests drifted apart. 11 years feel great when you are 25 and he’s 36. Terrible in middle age. We divorced but I don’t regret marriage and my son. We’ve built tremendous wealth so I exited with own business worth a few million.

You GF is not practical and likely not even a 7. Smart and attractive women marry well in late 20s.

5'8, 125lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, GND super cute facial features and when she dresses up with makeup on turns heads like no one else

in her words she has no time to date young doctors (who themselves have no time to date) .. she isn't a resident she is in med school i think you are referring to residency when docs date and find their partners .. she has a few years to go and most likely will not be doing residency in the DC area (if you know anything about how medical residency works) so by then our relationship will have run its course and she will be free to find her forever person

but thanks for your bitter negative comments and enjoy the rest of your sad midlife

Okay but she’s at high risk of complaining on this board at 35 that all decent men her age and slightly older are “taken”. She should be very actively dating 30s men NOW to get married and have kids by 35. Of course if that’s what she wants

i'm not in the medical profession myself ... but my whole family on my mothers side (8 cousins) are all MDs and they all found MD spouses within 2-3 years of their own age during residency in their early 30s or late 20s. this girl has a long time to go. let her concentrate on her MD education and pseudo sugar daddy for now

I get it - seems like medical ladies have it more difficult way than MBAs. The dude is not even remotely qualified for a good sugar daddy. Any smart woman would find ways paying her rent than putting out for a 20+ older man. Or will find a real sugar daddy

And why don’t you marry her, the PP older man ? Is that because you realize she only needs you for free rent ?

No interest in marriage. I’ve been married 20yrs have two kids. Now I’m enjoying an ENM and poly lifestyle. MD girl is my primary nesting partner for the past almost 3 years. I have another lover she is in her 30s divorced single mom who has no interest in marriage again either. I’ve been dating her almost 5yrs

The best part is they know each other are great friends and on occasion we have special “fun” nights together.

Now why would I want to be married?

Oh and in case you are wondering I own my own company have almost 50 employees and several managers who run things for me. I spend 5-10hr a week “working” I’ll be 50 next year. I have the life most can only dream of

Yakis. Btw I was offered something similar while in my 40s, and declined. He was early 60s and very attractive, a hedge fund manager. “Special fun together” is what he wanted. But I have no interest in eating P. Women just enter and exit these arrangements damaged and nothing built to show - no joint kids, no assets, no close connections.
But good you’ve got it right for yourself . It doesn’t sound though from your lifestyle that you uber wealthy. You just made it up based on what you read in magazines. People with that many employees work all the time - my hedge fund guy was married to his work

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Anonymous wrote:The real question is why do you care? Does it impact your life? No.

Mind your own business. It literally has no impact on you. It's your choice to care. Stop caring about pointless stuff.

Yeah, the triggering makes no sense.

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Yesterday was goodbye sex and then brunch before my summer fling returns to UVa.

I hope the old hens at the table next to us got the ick since they did give a nasty look.

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What are you 16, OP? The “ick”? GTFOH.

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What is GND?

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My DH is 12 years older than I am. His friends' old-lady wives often give me the cold shoulder. I could not care less, lol. I have no interest in talking to them at all let alone being friends with them anyway.

DH and I are both lawyers and met at work. An extremely normal way for busy professionals to meet a SO. You can "ick" away for all I care OP; I'm enjoying my (20 yr old) happy marriage while you "ick" over other people's relationships.

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I went to grad school for a 2nd masters degree when I was 40. In my first semester I met a 22 year old undergrad in his senior year. He was my friend and lover for 2.5 years. He wanted to continue but i knew we would not last longer than another year or two. It's been 10 years and it is hard dating 50 year olds when the freshness of a 22 year old is so memorable.

PP, I hope your second master's degree was in abnormal psychology, so you can help your (mommy-fixated) former flame unscrew himself.

Friend and lover? Yuck. Freshness so memorable? Double yuck. Please tell us you are no longer troll the GMU student center looking for fun.

These posts are so funny. Almost all guys I know, like me, had an older “gf” at some point in our 20s. Never anything serious, just an easy fun and consistent lay. And for most of us young inexperienced guys we benefited not just from the easy sex but practical learning experiences. Some of these lasted a few years but most were short term situationships.

The proportion of young guys who marry and settle down with older women is minuscule compared to older man younger women which is pretty common.

Y’all cougars think you are so HOT getting the 20yr pool boy but basically you are just an easy and fun situationship.

As opposed to your so hot 50 plus body? I mean these women are saying the men my age don’t do x. But if the men their age had everything they wanted they wouldn’t be choosing the older body of a man for sure.

That’s the hilarious part. “Oh older women are old it’s just easy sex”. Well at least the men are attracted physically! For women it’s more mental than physical. So really?!! Jokes on you know?

I’m saying this as someone married to someone 19 years older. I’ve posted before. Young women will always chose younger if they can. There’s soo many exceptions of course, daddy issues, convenience, mentorship, money, princess treatment, blah blah. But at some point you’re just an old dude like some else’s else and she can still the hot younger men with her eyes too. Again it’s actually the same thing. Men are also affected by aging and invisibility. It’s just they get a slightly longer age span than women due to women’s fertility. But it’s the same. 50+ sperm is never ideal unless he has money. You know?!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a 36F married to a 36M, two children. All of our friends and associates (mainly lawyers and other professionals) are in similar age appropriate relationships.
Recently I’ve observed a man we know from university, who has aged poorly due to stress of running his own law firm, posting his new younger (mid 20s ish) girlfriend all over social media. She looks like his little sister or niece and it gives me the ick. He is always posting photos of her in revealing clothing hanging all over him like she’s some trophy.
Older women dating younger men don’t seem to give me the same feeling. I’m wondering why that is? Is it because biologically there is much less likely to be children resulting from that type of match, while older men can impregnate younger women with their inferior sperm and have kids well past the age they should become fathers?
Is it because I feel bad for these attractive young women who should really be able to find a decent looking successful man their own age, and instead are settling for an older version?
Or am I having some sort of deep seated insecurities because this woman is younger and prettier than me? To be fair, I am not bad looking and still in decent shape after two kids. I’ve also never had any romantic interest in this man posting on social media.
Fascinating! I suppose I will see more of this type of situation as we get older.

Supposed professional women saying things like "gives me the ick"...well, gives me the ick. GTFU.

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The type of guy who dates much younger women is someone I would never be interested in. I feel bad for the women who need money/status so they settle for older men.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

For God's sake, what do her parents think about this arrangement? Why does she need free rent? She is going to drop your sorry ass when she graduates.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

For God's sake, what do her parents think about this arrangement? Why does she need free rent? She is going to drop your sorry ass when she graduates.

Did you read that he also makes her do threesomes with his second 30s something GF? Disgusting and I also wonder what her “good family” phDs folks think about it

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Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around

That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed. Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

Is she Asian ? You always brag about your GF on this board but never responded to this question.

Np but is being Asian an issue?

I think the person asking “is she Asian” is referring to the fact that Asian girls tend to focus on money/wealth/status more than other ethnicities.

Yes - nothing against Asian or other minority immigrant women but they do tend to prevail in large gap couples in my circle . I consider “large” gap 15+ years.
He also said PhD parents and it’s rare to have both parents with doctoral for US where UMC women were primarily SAHM in 1960-1980s. More typical for China, former USSR where women were in the labor force

For God's sake, what do her parents think about this arrangement? Why does she need free rent? She is going to drop your sorry ass when she graduates.

Did you read that he also makes her do threesomes with his second 30s something GF? Disgusting and I also wonder what her “good family” phDs folks think about it

I did not read that but now I think he is a troll.