I want my thread removed after your write up

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

OP is the author of her own distress. She conveyed a profound lack of self-awareness and introspection in her thread and has only doubled down. No one is obligated to play along with her victimhood and I'm guessing that has something to do with why her son hasn't told her a thing about his girlfriend.

Ok well I guess Jeff deciding to perpetuate and enjoy this is on-brand for the “mommy fight site.” the thing about Jeff is that he clearly aspires to be seen as a good guy and for DCUM to have some modicum of a reputation as a socially useful service. But joining pile-ons, refusing to delete a distressed person’s post (with potentially identifying personal info) makes Jeff closer to 4-Chan and Kiwi Farms than Reddit. Not sure that is what his is going for. PS: reputable social media sites allow people to delete content.

Ironic - piling on about pile-ons is yet more piling on!

You can't make this stuff up, folks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

OP is the author of her own distress. She conveyed a profound lack of self-awareness and introspection in her thread and has only doubled down. No one is obligated to play along with her victimhood and I'm guessing that has something to do with why her son hasn't told her a thing about his girlfriend.

Ok well I guess Jeff deciding to perpetuate and enjoy this is on-brand for the “mommy fight site.” the thing about Jeff is that he clearly aspires to be seen as a good guy and for DCUM to have some modicum of a reputation as a socially useful service. But joining pile-ons, refusing to delete a distressed person’s post (with potentially identifying personal info) makes Jeff closer to 4-Chan and Kiwi Farms than Reddit. Not sure that is what his is going for. PS: reputable social media sites allow people to delete content.

Huh? What identifying information did OP share?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

OP is the author of her own distress. She conveyed a profound lack of self-awareness and introspection in her thread and has only doubled down. No one is obligated to play along with her victimhood and I'm guessing that has something to do with why her son hasn't told her a thing about his girlfriend.

Ok well I guess Jeff deciding to perpetuate and enjoy this is on-brand for the “mommy fight site.” the thing about Jeff is that he clearly aspires to be seen as a good guy and for DCUM to have some modicum of a reputation as a socially useful service. But joining pile-ons, refusing to delete a distressed person’s post (with potentially identifying personal info) makes Jeff closer to 4-Chan and Kiwi Farms than Reddit. Not sure that is what his is going for. PS: reputable social media sites allow people to delete content.

Huh? What identifying information did OP share?

There was none other than in her head. She wanted the post removed because her feelings were hurt. Those swooping in to white knight her are making up the personal info as pretext for removal. Not to mention, that's not how the internet work, as others have posted, her thread and this thread will continue to live on forever via archive.org/web aka "wayback machine".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

OP is the author of her own distress. She conveyed a profound lack of self-awareness and introspection in her thread and has only doubled down. No one is obligated to play along with her victimhood and I'm guessing that has something to do with why her son hasn't told her a thing about his girlfriend.

Ok well I guess Jeff deciding to perpetuate and enjoy this is on-brand for the “mommy fight site.” the thing about Jeff is that he clearly aspires to be seen as a good guy and for DCUM to have some modicum of a reputation as a socially useful service. But joining pile-ons, refusing to delete a distressed person’s post (with potentially identifying personal info) makes Jeff closer to 4-Chan and Kiwi Farms than Reddit. Not sure that is what his is going for. PS: reputable social media sites allow people to delete content.

Look who is perpetuating things now...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

I hope OP doesn't go away. This has been enormously entertaining. Why would anyone want this to stop?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:*grabs popcorn*

This is probably my favorite section of the forums.

Fora (though you're forgiven because forums appears prominently all over the site).

[Anonymous]

So what is Jeff's blog topic for tomorrow??!? His footnote was so ominous.

Hope everyone in his family is healthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

Yes, Jeff wants to be credible and distinguish DCUM from sites like Fairfax Underground. Arbitrary policies like “I won’t delete your thread because I don’t like you and am enjoying the pile-on” puts him squarely in the Kiwi Farms ambit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

Yes, Jeff wants to be credible and distinguish DCUM from sites like Fairfax Underground. Arbitrary policies like “I won’t delete your thread because I don’t like you and am enjoying the pile-on” puts him squarely in the Kiwi Farms ambit.

WTF is a Kiwi farms? Some New Zealand forum?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

Yes, Jeff wants to be credible and distinguish DCUM from sites like Fairfax Underground. Arbitrary policies like “I won’t delete your thread because I don’t like you and am enjoying the pile-on” puts him squarely in the Kiwi Farms ambit.

WTF is a Kiwi farms? Some New Zealand forum?

If you don’t know, you don’t really have anything useful to contribute about forum moderation.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1113050.page

I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

Yes, Jeff wants to be credible and distinguish DCUM from sites like Fairfax Underground. Arbitrary policies like “I won’t delete your thread because I don’t like you and am enjoying the pile-on” puts him squarely in the Kiwi Farms ambit.

You are being ludicrous. I explained why I won't remove the thread which has no relation to what you are explaining. Comparing DCUM even on its worst day to Fairfax Underground or Kiwi Farms destroys any credibility you think you may have had. I am not sure why you are devoting yourself to criticizing me today, but you are doing nothing but providing further exposure to this thread. If you care about the OP, you would stop posting. If you want to hurt me, find another site to use.

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Anonymous wrote:Very mean-spirited behavior from you. I will never share something so personal on here.

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I'm sorry that you are upset but I don't think my summary of the thread was mean-spirited in any way. I was certainly not bullying you.

Now you're gaslighting. I don't care to get into a back and forth with someone mocking me. I'd like my thread deleted. This is the third request. Thank you and goodbye.

No, I am not going to remove the thread. At least not now. I just took the time and effort to read enough of it to write a summary which I just posted. That might lead others to want to read it and I don't want my efforts to be for nothing. I haven't mocked you and I am not gaslighting you. The fact that you are making such allegations is further justification for leaving the thread so that readers can judge my summary for themselves.

Again, I want my thread removed. I've now asked four times. I have revealed too much and I don't want it on here, especially when you lock it and dox my posts, to ridicule and mock me, and smear me as a troll (read liar). If I was a lying troll, as you weaponize your authority to erroneously claim, I wouldn't care. I am not a troll, I am not a liar. I am a woman of faith and you're deeply offending me right now. Delete the thread, delete the write-up, delete this thread. Delete it all, I don't care. I don't want this attention. I don't want my family subjected to this cyberbullying and mocking and doxing.

And now you're gaslighting me and refusing to delete the thread upon request, breaking all established precedent. Egging on your malicious sycophants to cyberbully and mock me some more. I'll never post another thread here.

Promise?

Wow, you people are asses. Op (or former Op) is clearly in distress. For goodness sake, remove the thread and leave her alone. How sad all of you are, and pathetic.

Exactly. Jeff refusing to remove the thread is a really bad look for him.

The thing is, Jeff probably would have if OP would have just asked nicely and explained the situation like people normally do instead of immediately launching into crazy accusations of cyberbullying and doxxing. OP is getting what she deserves, which is nothing.

“Just ask nicely or I will join the site anonymous pile-on of a distressed poster” is also not a good look for a site owner reaching for credibility.

Is Jeff reaching for credibility? I think he's just doing his thing and not letting one crazy woman scold him and tell him what to do as if she is his boss or his mom.

Yes, Jeff wants to be credible and distinguish DCUM from sites like Fairfax Underground. Arbitrary policies like “I won’t delete your thread because I don’t like you and am enjoying the pile-on” puts him squarely in the Kiwi Farms ambit.

You are being ludicrous. I explained why I won't remove the thread which has no relation to what you are explaining. Comparing DCUM even on its worst day to Fairfax Underground or Kiwi Farms destroys any credibility you think you may have had. I am not sure why you are devoting yourself to criticizing me today, but you are doing nothing but providing further exposure to this thread. If you care about the OP, you would stop posting. If you want to hurt me, find another site to use.

Sorry Jeff. It’s true. It’s a very bad look for you to refuse to delete a very personal thread that is distressing the OP and generating a pile-on. It’s not at all clear what you are trying to accomplish.