Did you take revenge on a cheater or the other man/woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got the best divorce attorney in town. I got 1/2 his business and alimony for life. He had to move out of his dream home to pay me. He lives in a shit shack and the kids lost his respect.

And my life keeps getting better and better.

What state?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got the best divorce attorney in town. I got 1/2 his business and alimony for life. He had to move out of his dream home to pay me. He lives in a shit shack and the kids lost his respect.

And my life keeps getting better and better.

What state?

There’s a lot of flyover in her post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my case, the OW was a lay minister! In a conservative women's ministry in a red state. She was all over FB with her hypocritical bible stuff.

I emailed the facts to her pastor. The pastor dealt with her. She was so ashamed! Finally.

Ugh, the hypocrisy is the worst.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my case, the OW was a lay minister! In a conservative women's ministry in a red state. She was all over FB with her hypocritical bible stuff.

I emailed the facts to her pastor. The pastor dealt with her. She was so ashamed! Finally.

Ugh, the hypocrisy is the worst.

They are almost always hypocrites. There is a lot of mental gymnastics involved with cheating and it usually applies to all areas of their lives.

You can't really be a person of great empathy and caring when you have ZERO empathy for the man's wife now. You don't have good character or are a decent human being if you are this duplicitous and lying on a daily basis to your own spouse.

The people that flaunt their charity and religion and cheat are narcissists that do it all for attention. There's no need to broadcast the work you do. Most of us don't. We just do it.

[Anonymous]

I brought their epic love affair out into the light on facebook. I dont think OW liked that ugly pic I posted of her. Or screenshots of their nasty conversations. I'm a petty biatch.

So yeah, living well IS the best revenge. But only after slapping those lovebirds in the face with a dose of reality. Her husband divorced her. I divorced mine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my case, the OW was a lay minister! In a conservative women's ministry in a red state. She was all over FB with her hypocritical bible stuff.

I emailed the facts to her pastor. The pastor dealt with her. She was so ashamed! Finally.

Ugh, the hypocrisy is the worst.

They are almost always hypocrites. There is a lot of mental gymnastics involved with cheating and it usually applies to all areas of their lives.

You can't really be a person of great empathy and caring when you have ZERO empathy for the man's wife now. You don't have good character or are a decent human being if you are this duplicitous and lying on a daily basis to your own spouse.

The people that flaunt their charity and religion and cheat are narcissists that do it all for attention. There's no need to broadcast the work you do. Most of us don't. We just do it.

#TRUTH.

[Anonymous]

I have not because my husband and I are reconciling and she is still at his work place (although across the country). That sucks (a lot) but not in a position to change jobs rn and I have total transparency. However, I do have a few plans if I ever need them about contacting the IRS about her family’s fund and also calling the legal counsel at the workplace as I know she sent inappropriate emails through company email including photos of herself in lingerie, etc. Obviously she is very damaged emotionally but also quite respected but I would have no qualms about hurting her professionally. She is married also but the husband does not care.

[Anonymous]

Apparently her tag line at the exercise studio is “no cheating at X”. I’m so tempted to write in the reviews “except for in her marriage” in the review. She’s had at least 3 affairs. She also claims to be highly empathetic to a fault. Sweet Jesus. What a gigantic piece of work.

It amazes me people that live these kinds of lies have such a large social media presence.

[Anonymous]

She got her first job after finally getting caught at a place that “empowers women”. I have thought about calling the founder and asking if she thinks it is right to have a woman that has had multiple Ashley Madison affairs with men in the community to be a face she wants in her company. Kind of goes against their stated core values.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not because my husband and I are reconciling and she is still at his work place (although across the country). That sucks (a lot) but not in a position to change jobs rn and I have total transparency. However, I do have a few plans if I ever need them about contacting the IRS about her family’s fund and also calling the legal counsel at the workplace as I know she sent inappropriate emails through company email including photos of herself in lingerie, etc. Obviously she is very damaged emotionally but also quite respected but I would have no qualms about hurting her professionally. She is married also but the husband does not care.

Always good to have a back up plan

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I plot. And I wait. The further out from the affair when they think they have gotten away with it, is the better time to strike.

But why? What are you going to do? If (as seems to be the case) the affair is already over, they have gotten away with it; you've done nothing.

Maybe because once they think she's long gone she can do some hang up calls. Send some thongs to their residence...stuff like that.

[Anonymous]

I divorced a cheating/lying narc and the absolute best revenge once our war of a divorce was final was to do absolutely nothing. I don't call him unless it's absolutely necessary (we have kids) and that's rare. He's tried to be friendly, but I am very, very flat with him.

The fact that he thought I'd love him 'til my last breath and I don't is all the revenge I need. He expected me to be enraged and to exact revenge. I didn't. That pissed him off more than any other petty thing I could think of to do to him/them.

Oh, and hearing about his AP whining on social media about him needing therapy tickles me to no end.

[Anonymous]

During the divorce I told her parents.

[Anonymous]

Restraining order.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I plot. And I wait. The further out from the affair when they think they have gotten away with it, is the better time to strike.

You sound like my ex, who has been plotting revenge against my old AP for a long time. I haven’t even seen or spoken to AP in ages, we ended things a looooong time ago.

Honestly it’s just sad watching someone waste so much of their life and energy over something that happened a long time ago. Everyone else has moved on. Ex makes threats of some big master plan to get revenge and seriously no one cares. Honestly it just reinforces that I made the right decision, because who wants to be with someone that spiteful?