I have STD symptoms. Did my wife cheat on me during her maternity leave?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also I'm sure that it's not a dormant thing since I did a round of STD tests a while back with all negative results. Have been faithful to my wife

Why are you taking so many STD tests while married? Have you always had suspicions about your wife? Something isn’t adding up here.

DP but I get them done annually as part of my check up. Trust but verify. It's your personal health - no harm in taking care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Probably not! And I would need way more information before being persuaded that the person with stitches in her vagina recently cheated on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also I'm sure that it's not a dormant thing since I did a round of STD tests a while back with all negative results. Have been faithful to my wife

They don’t test for all strains of HPV.
But first, you should get a diagnosis.

[Anonymous]

I'm doubtful she did. But if the test comes back positive, then there is no other explanation than infidelity.

[Anonymous]

Divorce her. The baby probably isn’t yours either.

[Anonymous]

During MATERNITY LEAVE???!? Ha!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also I'm sure that it's not a dormant thing since I did a round of STD tests a while back with all negative results. Have been faithful to my wife

FYI, they usually don’t test for herpes unless you ask specifically, and it can be dormant for a long time. If you test positive for gonorrhea and you haven’t slept with anyone then it’s a different story!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also I'm sure that it's not a dormant thing since I did a round of STD tests a while back with all negative results. Have been faithful to my wife

FYI, they usually don’t test for herpes unless you ask specifically, and it can be dormant for a long time. If you test positive for gonorrhea and you haven’t slept with anyone then it’s a different story!

Also, I had something that LOOKED like herpes, but wasn't and wasn't even an STD. Tests proved it. But I had to take the test.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your wife had the energy to cheat on you during her maternity leave, she should give a TED talk. That would be groundbreaking stuff and I would watch for sure.

Lol - so true. Not a chance in hell

[Anonymous]

Your DW probably has herpes dormant from her college years. The birth gave her an outbreak and she gave it to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The point is HPV can be dormant in your wife, then become active and infect you. But there are typically no symptoms.

A friend who was married 7 years got HPV throat cancer. We believe it was from his wife. Now she's with someone else. Does that men she'll give it to him as well?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The point is HPV can be dormant in your wife, then become active and infect you. But there are typically no symptoms.

A friend who was married 7 years got HPV throat cancer. We believe it was from his wife. Now she's with someone else. Does that men she'll give it to him as well?

Yes.

But nearly every sexually active person has/has had it.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'd be so pissed at my husband if he ever accused me of cheating, especially while I was on maternity leave! I mean, assuming I wasn't actually cheating, then of course I wouldn't be pissed... Anyway, you may want to get your head checked as well if you don't even have a positive test back and you're already thinking your wife has cheated on you.

Good question though - has she even shaved her legs while on maternity leave?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The point is HPV can be dormant in your wife, then become active and infect you. But there are typically no symptoms.

A friend who was married 7 years got HPV throat cancer. We believe it was from his wife. Now she's with someone else. Does that men she'll give it to him as well?

Yes.

But nearly every sexually active person has/has had it.

Well that's a bummer. He died from it, now she has a boyfriend which I know she didn't tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:During MATERNITY LEAVE???!? Ha!

Lol.